Well I am going to say upfront that the whole reason I am on this site is so that I can be honest about things where it is socially awkward to be honest in real life or around people you know. That is the reason I don't do DMs here etc.
So my answer is, there are so many other details that would matter, I would not date somebody for only this reason, however I will say that it would be a plus, just honestly, the things you didn't need to worry about or the things you were able to do would be pretty different, all else being equal. JMO!20 Reply
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+1 yIf he is only his money and looks like a cockroach 🪳, is a bad person and smells bad I don't meed him.
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1.3K opinions shared on Dating topic. I was just ready to go out and buy a powerball ticket until I read all the girls responses... so I will stick with being a broke soon to be college guy with a nice smile and a good heart (well and a constant boner also)
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13.2K opinions shared on Dating topic. I've known a man with $100 million that many women would refuse. Then there's Trump. No telling what he's worth but about 80% of the women in the free world would not date him..
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@nastyb you're making a huge assumption men just go around dumping their wives/girlfriends for shits and giggles to go after younger women and repeating the process again
women don't dump/divorce men in fear of being dumped/divorced first. they do so when cheating is involved (either side) or she is no longer attracted to their husband/boyfriend and wants to screw him over as much as possible because our gynocentric society allows them to - +1 y
@nastyb yeah no. outside of Leonardo Di Caprio who has been it crystal clear what his dating history is like, the vast majority of men do not do this
most men just want a peaceful life with no dramas. their women are constantly jeopardizing the relationship by berating him, nagging him, emasculating him, shit-testing him and comparing him to other men - +1 y
@inhua
everyone is superficial to a certain minimal extent but not as superficial as you where love clearly doesn't matter to you.
[a rich man doesn't aim for gold-diggers as wives but gold-diggers are the ones flocking to him]
a rich man can discern whether or not a woman is a gold digger. Decent rich men marry for love. Indecent ones marry prostitutes for sex. No man with decent values would ever want a gold digger. - +1 y
@nastyb love has never mattered to you either. you kept arguing against age gap relationships and displayed how much you care about being with a hot young guy and able to have fun and ride motorbikes into your 40s and not look after a "senior citizen" because if you did truly care about love, none of that superficial shit would matter to you but it does matter to you
you speak as if rich men are actively out there looking for gold-diggers. it wouldn't have mattered either way because some rich men are so physically unattractive no woman can truly love them for who they are if they're being honest.
Kevin Hart and Jonah Hill are both rich but also have great personalities. without money and fame, women wouldn't give a shit about them. studies have already been conducted where your looks is your personality. money plays no role other than a determining whether the guy is worth taking advantage of for his resources or not - +1 y
@inhua
[love has never mattered to you either. you kept arguing against age gap relationships and displayed how much you care about being with a hot young guy and able to have fun and ride motorbikes into your 40s and not look after a "senior citizen" because if you did truly care about love, none of that superficial shit would matter to you but it does matter to you]
of course love matters to me. do you ever see me insisting that I would only marry a rich man? NO.
I'm not shallow. I dont need to marry someone rich , as long as he makes me happy then thats great. But you insist you must marry someone at least 20 years younger.
Vast majority of marriages with large age gaps do end up failing or becoming unhappy at some point. I will never ever intentionally marry someone that I know I won't be happy with once they hit 60. It has nothing to do with "lack of love" but reality is that a marriage is supposed to feed BOTH individuals to be happy. Rather than just feeding one person to be happy.
I want to be a wife, not a nurse to a senior citizen.
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@nastyb @nastyb I never insisted on marriage in the first place. I disagreed with you on the reasons why some marriages don't work out
vast majority of marriages regardless of age gap end up failing anyways. age gaps are such a small percentage, anyone can just cherry pick stats specifically even though the largest age gap marriage ever never ended in divorce
and if a couple with a 20 year age gap difference are happy, who are you to stop them from happiness? unlike you, I don't try to push my lifestyle or preferences onto others - +1 y
@inhua
[and if a couple with a 20 year age gap difference are happy, who are you to stop them from happiness? unlike you, I don't try to push my lifestyle or preferences onto others]
because vast majority of marriages with 20 yr age difference are NOT HAPPY. Statistics and data shows that the bigger the age gap, the bigger the chance of divorce. It would be helpful to warn people before they make a mistake in their lives.
Unlike perverts like you would who do everything in his power to marry for sex regardless if it means divorce in the future. - +1 y
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@inhua
[vast majority of marriages regardless of age gap end up failing anyways. age gaps are such a small percentage, anyone can just cherry pick stats specifically even though the largest age gap marriage ever never ended in divorce]
why would you want the divorce rates to increase? you don't think we should try to lower our divorce rates by making the right marriage decisions on marrying the right people?
clearly you don't have a peoples best interest in mind. - +1 y
@nastyb age gap marriages are such an insignificant number of marriages it makes no difference if they end in divorce considering most marriages end in divorce anyway.
you know what other specific marriages have a really high divorce rate? lesbian marriages and interracial marriages between black men and white women but I don't see you advertising against those marriages
and who exactly are you trying to warn here?
men? because men have been warning other men against marriage in general.
women? good luck with that telling women who they should and shouldn't date/marry. women have been warned against chasing after bad boys and they still go after them. if women want to go after older men that's their choice and it's their choice if they choose not to - +1 y
@inhua
[age gap marriages are such an insignificant number of marriages it makes no difference if they end in divorce considering most marriages end in divorce anyway.]
why would you support for more large age gap marriages if you clearly know they have high divorce rates? It sounds like you're trying to increase divorce rates rather than to lower them.
[if women want to go after older men that's their choice and it's their choice if they choose not to]
I think most of them would change their minds if they were told about this. A lot of the women who go for large age gaps aren't that bright.
And by the way, there is a huge difference between dating an "older " man versus dating an "old" man. - +1 y
@nastyb I'm not out here promoting any sort of marriage or trying to shame any sort of marriage. you however are to trying shame certain marriages and with people like you around, it's no wonder they break up because they keep listening to you poisoning the well and being a homewrecker
attraction is biological. not political. you can't force women to be attracted to people they are not attracted to nor repel attraction
"old" is relative. George Clooney is old compared to Brad Pitt. Brad Pitt is old compared to Leonardo Di Caprio. Leo is old compared to Robert Pattinson. Rob is old compared to Tom Holland. the list goes on
nobody is forcing you to date anyone you don't want to date. if you don't think anyone above a certain age difference can make you happy, so be it. no need to stick your nose in everyone else's business - +1 y
@inhua
i would question the intentions of a man who does not care about whether or not his marriage will result in the future. i would also question the intentions of a man who wants divorce rates to increase by encouraging people to make the wrong marriage decisions by marrying the wrong people.
someone like you... i would definitely shame.
because you are the type of person who wants to marry for the wrong reasons. - +1 y
@inhua
[nobody is forcing you to date anyone you don't want to date. if you don't think anyone above a certain age difference can make you happy, so be it. no need to stick your nose in everyone else's business]
I don't encourage people to make the wrong decisions in life. Most people who marry significantly older spouses tend to either regret it or divorce. I'm trying to lower the divorce rates by encouraging people to make the right marriage decisions by marrying the right people.
on the other hand.. perverts like you don't care if your marriage results in divorce. - +1 y
@nastyb marriage in itself is a wrong decision in life regardless of age. 60% of them end in divorce anyway as a result of the man trusting his woman not to initiate divorce which she does 90% of the time
if you care so much about people not making the wrong decisions in life, how about encouraging them not to be promiscuous or have other bad habits i. e. smoking, tattoos? how about you encourage them into someone's looks, money, status over their morals, ethics, values? how about you encourage respect amongst the genders?
but instead you want to encourage them to judge each other by their age
and then have the audacity to point the finger at me when unlike you, I'm not trying to be a homewrecker - +1 y
@inhua
you're marrying for the wrong reasons.
you don't care if your marriage ends up in divorce due to the large age gap.
you are in support of the high divorce rate.
you do not care about love.
so why would you still think that you're a good marriage prospect for women?
literally nothing about you makes you a marriage worthy man.
you're just a shallow piece of shit who will use and abuse women.
There is a saying: "men who only date 18 yr old girls will only dump you by the time they are 40 for another 18 yr old.
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no, 20 million can't buy you chemistry or a good heart
20 Reply1K opinions shared on Dating topic. dude your not gonna get an honest answer with this question they all will save face and say no, instead ask stuff a 20 million dollar can do for them a regular Joe can't, same dam question just worded differently to get an honest answer
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+1 yI mean, what's the rest of him like?
I ain't just into a bank account.00 Reply 340 opinions shared on Dating topic. of course i would. I wouldn't have to work a job for the rest of my life.
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Anonymous(30-35)+1 yIt depends on his personality, morals, interests, and appearance.
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Anonymous(30-35)+1 yI would if I was single.
20 ReplyDoes he have anything else going for him?
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Tbf she does have a point, u can have everything a girl wants but if u can’t keep her entertained or on her toes then it’s just not going to work
2.9K opinions shared on Dating topic. Anyone who says no is lying
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Anonymous(18-24)+1 yI will not give my money to any woman.
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Anonymous(18-24)+1 yI think lots of girls would, lol.
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Anonymous(30-35)+1 yDoesn't matter ✖️
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