Girls if a man has 20 million dollars in a bank would you date him?

[Anonymous]

[ShellyB]

Well I am going to say upfront that the whole reason I am on this site is so that I can be honest about things where it is socially awkward to be honest in real life or around people you know. That is the reason I don't do DMs here etc.

So my answer is, there are so many other details that would matter, I would not date somebody for only this reason, however I will say that it would be a plus, just honestly, the things you didn't need to worry about or the things you were able to do would be pretty different, all else being equal. JMO!

[CoolCatMar1]

If he is only his money and looks like a cockroach 🪳, is a bad person and smells bad I don't meed him.

[Alex-Snow]

I was just ready to go out and buy a powerball ticket until I read all the girls responses... so I will stick with being a broke soon to be college guy with a nice smile and a good heart (well and a constant boner also)

[slatyb]

I've known a man with $100 million that many women would refuse. Then there's Trump. No telling what he's worth but about 80% of the women in the free world would not date him..

[inhua]

Trump is a bad example because he's old and physically unattractive

unattractive physical appearance can be a dealbreaker for many people

[nastyb]

he has a gold digger wife. enough said...

[inhua]

@nastyb it doesn't matter what type of women he attracts or any man attracts. if it's not money and resources, then it's good looks and genetics or it's popularity and fame

[nastyb]

@inhua

no person who is decent would ever want a gold digger as a spouse. if you prefer someone to love your money instead of loving you for who you are... it just means there's something severely wrong with you.

[inhua]

@nastyb women's love for men is conditional. they don't love men for who they are. only what they are whether it's a wealthy millionaire, a gorgeous physical specimen or a famous celebrity

[nastyb]

@inhua

mens love for women is conditional too. once she hits a certain age, he will ditch her for an 18 yr old.

[inhua]

@nastyb nope. men's loyalty to women is not tied to his attraction for her the same way women's loyalty to men is tied to her attraction to him

men are hardwired to reciprocate appreciation and allegiances. women see this as entitlement

[nastyb]

@inhua

men are hardwired for dumping older women for younger women

[slatyb]

@inhua Right, and when he was young he was an outcast in New York society because he was an uncultured boor.

[inhua]

@nastyb except they're not. women are the ones who overwhelming file for divorce from their husbands and dump their boyfriends, usually for men they consider to be superior to their current man

[inhua]

the mainstream media and social media were virtually non-existent back when Trump was young

and times have changed from back then when gentleman were respected and bad boys ostracized and now it's the complete opposite

[nastyb]

@inhua

why can't she file for divorce and take half his assets? if he would dump her by the time she hits 40 for an 18 yr old?

[inhua]

@nastyb you're making a huge assumption men just go around dumping their wives/girlfriends for shits and giggles to go after younger women and repeating the process again

women don't dump/divorce men in fear of being dumped/divorced first. they do so when cheating is involved (either side) or she is no longer attracted to their husband/boyfriend and wants to screw him over as much as possible because our gynocentric society allows them to

[nastyb]

@inhua
[they do so when cheating is involved (either side) or she is no longer attracted to their husband/boyfriend]

you would do the same to your wife. You date her at 18 then dump her by the time she turns 40 for a younger hotter 18 yr old.

[inhua]

@nastyb yeah no. outside of Leonardo Di Caprio who has been it crystal clear what his dating history is like, the vast majority of men do not do this

most men just want a peaceful life with no dramas. their women are constantly jeopardizing the relationship by berating him, nagging him, emasculating him, shit-testing him and comparing him to other men

[nastyb]

@inhua

didn't you spend weeks on GAG insisting that there's nothing wrong with 40- 90 yr old men dating 18 yr old girls?

[nastyb]

@inhua

didn't you spend months on GAG insisting that you would only date girls under 25?

[inhua]

@nastyb I never insisted on anything. unlike you I'm not hell-bent on trying to forbid any relationships due to factors outside of one's control.

[nastyb]

@inhua

women have all the right to marry for money just the same way you marry prostitutes for a good blow job.

[inhua]

@nastyb I don't care who marries who for what reasons. if you want to dwell your relationships in superficiality, then go ahead. nobody is going to stop you

[nastyb]

@inhua

Dont complain about women being superficial , if you're one of the most superficial men on earth. You just can't take it when the tables are reversed

You wishing you could have trumps gold digger wife. Dont be jealous

[inhua]

@nastyb I don't care if women or men are superficial. men don't deny superficiality. women do. that's the difference

you can't stop Mother Nature or Father Time and both Mother Nature and Father Time favor men more than women in the long run

[slatyb]

@nastyb The $100 million dollar man married one.

[slatyb]

@nastyb Ewww. Melania seems a bit vapid. Then there's the Rose Garden thing.

[nastyb]

@inhua

Decent people are not superficial. Indecent people are superficial. Thats the difference. No decent person would want a gold digger for a wife. Just being honest

[nastyb]

@slatyb

I honestly wouldn't know who in their right mind would want a spouse who loves their money more than loving them for who they are.

[inhua]

@nastyb everybody is superficial to a degree whether they're decent or not

even you have guys who you would completely dismiss immediately due to factors outside of their control

a rich man doesn't aim for gold-diggers as wives but gold-diggers are the ones flocking to him

[slatyb]

@nastyb because that's not how divorce works. In joint property states the income during the marriage is joint property. Property that was owned by the partners people to the marriage remains their separate property.

[nastyb]

@slatyb

nobody was talking about divorce.

[nastyb]

@inhua

everyone is superficial to a certain minimal extent but not as superficial as you where love clearly doesn't matter to you.

[a rich man doesn't aim for gold-diggers as wives but gold-diggers are the ones flocking to him]

a rich man can discern whether or not a woman is a gold digger. Decent rich men marry for love. Indecent ones marry prostitutes for sex. No man with decent values would ever want a gold digger.

[inhua]

@nastyb love has never mattered to you either. you kept arguing against age gap relationships and displayed how much you care about being with a hot young guy and able to have fun and ride motorbikes into your 40s and not look after a "senior citizen" because if you did truly care about love, none of that superficial shit would matter to you but it does matter to you

you speak as if rich men are actively out there looking for gold-diggers. it wouldn't have mattered either way because some rich men are so physically unattractive no woman can truly love them for who they are if they're being honest.

Kevin Hart and Jonah Hill are both rich but also have great personalities. without money and fame, women wouldn't give a shit about them. studies have already been conducted where your looks is your personality. money plays no role other than a determining whether the guy is worth taking advantage of for his resources or not

[nastyb]

@inhua

[love has never mattered to you either. you kept arguing against age gap relationships and displayed how much you care about being with a hot young guy and able to have fun and ride motorbikes into your 40s and not look after a "senior citizen" because if you did truly care about love, none of that superficial shit would matter to you but it does matter to you]

of course love matters to me. do you ever see me insisting that I would only marry a rich man? NO.
I'm not shallow. I dont need to marry someone rich , as long as he makes me happy then thats great. But you insist you must marry someone at least 20 years younger.

Vast majority of marriages with large age gaps do end up failing or becoming unhappy at some point. I will never ever intentionally marry someone that I know I won't be happy with once they hit 60. It has nothing to do with "lack of love" but reality is that a marriage is supposed to feed BOTH individuals to be happy. Rather than just feeding one person to be happy.

I want to be a wife, not a nurse to a senior citizen.

[inhua]

@nastyb @nastyb I never insisted on marriage in the first place. I disagreed with you on the reasons why some marriages don't work out

vast majority of marriages regardless of age gap end up failing anyways. age gaps are such a small percentage, anyone can just cherry pick stats specifically even though the largest age gap marriage ever never ended in divorce

and if a couple with a 20 year age gap difference are happy, who are you to stop them from happiness? unlike you, I don't try to push my lifestyle or preferences onto others

[nastyb]

@inhua

[and if a couple with a 20 year age gap difference are happy, who are you to stop them from happiness? unlike you, I don't try to push my lifestyle or preferences onto others]

because vast majority of marriages with 20 yr age difference are NOT HAPPY. Statistics and data shows that the bigger the age gap, the bigger the chance of divorce. It would be helpful to warn people before they make a mistake in their lives.

Unlike perverts like you would who do everything in his power to marry for sex regardless if it means divorce in the future.

[nastyb]

@inhua

Data actually shows a 95% divorce likelihood in marriages with a 20 yr age gap. This means there is a 95% failure rate of these types of marriages.

nobody should get married just to divorce a few years later in life.

but perverts like you don't care if your marriage ends in divorce.

[nastyb]

@inhua

[vast majority of marriages regardless of age gap end up failing anyways. age gaps are such a small percentage, anyone can just cherry pick stats specifically even though the largest age gap marriage ever never ended in divorce]

why would you want the divorce rates to increase? you don't think we should try to lower our divorce rates by making the right marriage decisions on marrying the right people?

clearly you don't have a peoples best interest in mind.

[inhua]

@nastyb age gap marriages are such an insignificant number of marriages it makes no difference if they end in divorce considering most marriages end in divorce anyway.

you know what other specific marriages have a really high divorce rate? lesbian marriages and interracial marriages between black men and white women but I don't see you advertising against those marriages

and who exactly are you trying to warn here?

men? because men have been warning other men against marriage in general.

women? good luck with that telling women who they should and shouldn't date/marry. women have been warned against chasing after bad boys and they still go after them. if women want to go after older men that's their choice and it's their choice if they choose not to

[nastyb]

@inhua

[age gap marriages are such an insignificant number of marriages it makes no difference if they end in divorce considering most marriages end in divorce anyway.]

why would you support for more large age gap marriages if you clearly know they have high divorce rates? It sounds like you're trying to increase divorce rates rather than to lower them.

[if women want to go after older men that's their choice and it's their choice if they choose not to]

I think most of them would change their minds if they were told about this. A lot of the women who go for large age gaps aren't that bright.

And by the way, there is a huge difference between dating an "older " man versus dating an "old" man.

[inhua]

@nastyb I'm not out here promoting any sort of marriage or trying to shame any sort of marriage. you however are to trying shame certain marriages and with people like you around, it's no wonder they break up because they keep listening to you poisoning the well and being a homewrecker

attraction is biological. not political. you can't force women to be attracted to people they are not attracted to nor repel attraction

"old" is relative. George Clooney is old compared to Brad Pitt. Brad Pitt is old compared to Leonardo Di Caprio. Leo is old compared to Robert Pattinson. Rob is old compared to Tom Holland. the list goes on

nobody is forcing you to date anyone you don't want to date. if you don't think anyone above a certain age difference can make you happy, so be it. no need to stick your nose in everyone else's business

[nastyb]

@inhua

i would question the intentions of a man who does not care about whether or not his marriage will result in the future. i would also question the intentions of a man who wants divorce rates to increase by encouraging people to make the wrong marriage decisions by marrying the wrong people.

someone like you... i would definitely shame.

because you are the type of person who wants to marry for the wrong reasons.

[nastyb]

@inhua

[nobody is forcing you to date anyone you don't want to date. if you don't think anyone above a certain age difference can make you happy, so be it. no need to stick your nose in everyone else's business]

I don't encourage people to make the wrong decisions in life. Most people who marry significantly older spouses tend to either regret it or divorce. I'm trying to lower the divorce rates by encouraging people to make the right marriage decisions by marrying the right people.

on the other hand.. perverts like you don't care if your marriage results in divorce.

[inhua]

@nastyb marriage in itself is a wrong decision in life regardless of age. 60% of them end in divorce anyway as a result of the man trusting his woman not to initiate divorce which she does 90% of the time

if you care so much about people not making the wrong decisions in life, how about encouraging them not to be promiscuous or have other bad habits i. e. smoking, tattoos? how about you encourage them into someone's looks, money, status over their morals, ethics, values? how about you encourage respect amongst the genders?

but instead you want to encourage them to judge each other by their age

and then have the audacity to point the finger at me when unlike you, I'm not trying to be a homewrecker

[nastyb]

@inhua

you're marrying for the wrong reasons.

you don't care if your marriage ends up in divorce due to the large age gap.

you are in support of the high divorce rate.

you do not care about love.

so why would you still think that you're a good marriage prospect for women?

literally nothing about you makes you a marriage worthy man.

you're just a shallow piece of shit who will use and abuse women.

There is a saying: "men who only date 18 yr old girls will only dump you by the time they are 40 for another 18 yr old.

[nastyb]

@inhua

[and then have the audacity to point the finger at me when unlike you, I'm not trying to be a homewrecker]

your age gap will wreck your own home in only a matter of time. she won't stay with you till you're 60

[inhua]

@nastyb we'll see where she goes next

[nastyb]

@inhua

she would definitely go for a man younger than you.

[inhua]

@nastyb that younger man would just use her for sex and leave

[nastyb]

@inhua

i knew of a 25 yr old who married a 60 yr old man for a green card and inheritance. By the time she hit 32, she dumped him for a 35 yr old man. They dated for 10 years until he died of covid in 2020.

[inhua]

@nastyb we can all list marriages back and forth. I guarantee I can find far more same age marriages that resulted in divorce than you can with age gap marriages even though the whole thing has nothing to do with age specifically

[nastyb]

@inhua

research data already shows marriages with 20 yr age gaps have 95% failure rate.

what more do you need?

[inhua]

@nastyb the same study also says marriages with a 30 year age gap have a 172% failure rate

[ShesRad80]

no, 20 million can't buy you chemistry or a good heart

[shades777]

dude your not gonna get an honest answer with this question they all will save face and say no, instead ask stuff a 20 million dollar can do for them a regular Joe can't, same dam question just worded differently to get an honest answer

[Chthou95]

That's what i said. This question is useless

[HelpfulWoman]

I mean, what's the rest of him like?
I ain't just into a bank account.

[nastyb]

of course i would. I wouldn't have to work a job for the rest of my life.

[Anonymous]

It depends on his personality, morals, interests, and appearance.

[Adaeva]

If I do, will I get his money?

[Anonymous]

I would if I was single.

[Miah05]

Does he have anything else going for him?

[Chthou95]

He's a ceo of a company
He's in shape (lean ripped)
He has very high social status
He knows a lot of celebrities and they know him
He has nice cars
And he can protect you and give you kids

[Miah05]

@Chthou95 so he's boring.
Pass

[Chthou95]

Cap. You know you dont want an average man. Most women dont want a average man. Theyll gladly share a high value man if it means they don't have to settle

[Miah05]

@Chthou95 gosh thanks for knowing what i want more than i do🤣

[Chthou95]

I do know you better than you think. I have to know along with other men if we want to be successful with women

[Miah05]

@Chthou95 ok, buddy. Because we all live off one brain. y'all a trip 🤣

[Chthou95]

I go based of generalties because generalities are consistent patterns of society and human behaviour

[SL1CK_BL1CK]

Tbf she does have a point, u can have everything a girl wants but if u can’t keep her entertained or on her toes then it’s just not going to work

[Jmmmfi4]

Anyone who says no is lying

[Anonymous]

I will not give my money to any woman.

[Anonymous]

I think lots of girls would, lol.

[Anonymous]

Doesn't matter ✖️