What’s some things to feel more confident and make better choices?

[Shanigal313]

I’ve been incredibly lonely because I refuse to date right now. I don’t feel great about myself and don’t want to get into the dating world again until I feel confident with myself and my life.
Does anyone have any advice on how I could feel more confident and be a better person?

[Anonymous]

Right now you're just doing what feels comfortable. To make you feel more confident I want to tell you that no experience is a bad experience. You learn and you move on. It's when you tell yourself "I'll do it later", but that later never comes. Don't give up you got this girl. You bend but you don't break.

Try new things don't let adversity hold you back. You're a strong person and you can be successful. Everyone has to go through failure and disappointment to get where they want to be in life.

[DryGermanGuy]

This is missing a lot of context. If the underlying condition is e. g. a real depression you might want to talk to a professional. Maybe taking some mood lifters (Lorazepam) helps you over this episode, maybe something else.

[Static_In_The_Attic]

If you want to build confidence start making new goals for yourself & once you successfully reach those goals that should be a confidence builder in itself.

[DerekC321]

When you do things you get more confident as you do them. The hardest part is taking the first step. When things start happening you have more evidence that you can do it and that creates more confidence.

[MementoMori777]

I'm going to assume you are still healing from a previous relationship? If so I think it's quite normal to not feel ready

[jahaims]

Change what you don't like. Are you insecure about your weight? Get healthy. Insecure and feel dumb, grow your intelligence. Etc.