Girls, If you planned a date with a guy and he backed out and said no thanks how would you feel?

[Anonymous]

[petitedollbabee]

That depends. If I asked him out and he said no thanks, then I would respect that answer and not ask again. But if I asked him out and he said yes, then I planned the date, and at the last minute he said “no thanks”, I would be pissed off for being lead on and spending energy and time planning a date.

[Asker]

I don’t know I’m kind of having second thoughts about this girl. Thinking if I should just end things tonight.

[petitedollbabee]

Well that’s your decision. Personally, I would prefer if the guy went on the date with me, and then after the date said that he’s not interested. Rather than say “no thanks” right before the date. I wouldn’t get angry that way, because at least it would feel like he had given it a chance.

[Asker]

It’s just that as a guy, guys get rejected a lot throughout their lifetime. Today, I can’t tell who’s genuine anymore. I think I’m a loyal dude who doesn’t act erratic, abusive or manipulative. But I can’t tell how serious she is. I just assume majority of girls nowadays don’t really care about dates with guys. I figure the prettier the girl the more she’ll get courted and won’t care. It’s like someone whos rich but still complains they need more money. I don’t know I’m just exhausted going after girls it’s like a full time job in a sense. Guys have to portray confidence, stability, financial independence, hard working, strong and yes someone she physically likes as well. I just feel like I’m wasting my time with her that she doesn’t care. If that’s the case why bother meeting and going on a date, that’s what’s on my mind.