Clearing my plate off.. ?

[cth2188]

Has anyone had so much going on that you had to stop. Doctors appointments, college , homeschooling kids, social media influencer, writing career, therapy, and business...

I had to cut off toxic friends...

Youtube, TikTok, college , and therapy is over. I had to end therapy too recently... all I have left is writing career and assisting kids with homeschool... business will be towards the end of the year or next year.. my girlfriend is concerned where she'll fit in...

How to met her know that I am willing to give her time.. considered writing career won't be full time maybe part time

[SnowedIn]

I think you openly share with your girlfriend what you're clearing from your life and what you're keeping.

You don't have to state that you're going to prioritize her in X, Y, or Z method. You don't need to say anything. She'll understand.

But then you need to actively make time for her. Choose where to fit her in. Whether that's first and the other stuff fits in after her or some other combination. You pick. Then, you and she have to communicate. She has to let you know that the time and attention is or isn't working. And you have to adjust -- or not. And both approaches have huge merit.

You're doing the right thing for the right reasons. She'll get that.

Also, kudos to you on the homeschooling. We did that for seven years.

[Gent207-2]

Life is a journey and communicating with your companion is the lifeblood that keeps things going.

Tell her the truth

[NathanDavis]

no... true friends help you in life

not leave you behind or drown

[Engin12]

You have a girlfriend? Are you a male pretending to be a woman?

[cth2188]

No I'm lesiban

[Engin12]

Why you dont like men?

[cth2188]

I don't hate men I'm nkt sexually attracted to you guys

[cth2188]

Not ^^

[Engin12]

Have you ever had sex with a guy?

[cth2188]

Yes but was against that I love women more my girlfriend is everything

[Engin12]

Against? You mean you were raped?

[cth2188]

I didn't care to have sex with a man

[Engin12]

But you did it anyway. That says you still have a thing for men if you ask me lol

[cth2188]

I was a teen and that was 20 years ago

[cth2188]

Totally irrelevant now every lesiban has experienced this phase

[Engin12]

I dont think all lesbians experienced it. You said you didn't care to have sex with men if that was real you wouldn't have it at all. You did it because you are not a lesbian.

[Engin12]

Maybe ur bi

[cth2188]

Yes most of us have there's nothing flattering about sleeping with a man or benefit and yes I date women and most of them don't want men

[cth2188]

My girlfriend whose 40 has kids and doesn't desire men

[cth2188]

No I'm not bi after my ex husband never dated another man after him

[Danny_dan92]

Yep. Social cleanse

[cth2188]

Yes girlfriend is worried

[Danny_dan92]

As expected

[cth2188]

Eek... I'm on bed rest 2 weeks

[Danny_dan92]

Damn. Hope you get better

[cth2188]

I put myself on bedrest

[Danny_dan92]

Ah..