He gave me a hug at the End of the date and was saying to me about going on second date which I would like too but hasn’t said when and We’re texting every day but just feels he’s not into me like I’m into him.
I got really done up and sent him a selfie and he replied saying was I getting ready for bed and I replied saying is it that bad and he said no it’s cute I thought your top was a pj top and I just felt like feck I have no hope 😂
He sends me pictures of him with no top on and stuff and I always say he looks good but for me he doesn’t give me the same back that’s why I just gave up tryna impress him because it just doesn’t seem to work.
Like I’m dying to see him again and he hasn’t even said anything about meeting up again and I’m just annoyed lol
Am I wasting my time also this guy showed up on our first date wearing dirty clothes and I was dressed up.
Here’s a photo of my “pj top” for reference I felt I looked good 🥲
Went on a date with this guy I thought it went amazing?
The guy thought that was pajamas? Maybe there was a joke in there somewhere that didn’t land? If you guys are taking than there is chemistry of some sort. Guys are taught not to appear too excited or interested. So I wouldn’t put too much thought into that. Maybe he’s waiting for you to drop a hint about a 2nd date.
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Thanks for your genuine answer. Maybe your right. But after our first date he did say to me by text that he wanted a second date but I just haven’t heard of it since you know
Damn girl do you want to go on a date? Lol you look gorgeous. by the way, not to defend him but if I had seen the top too I might have thought it was a pajama top as well. When you say he wore dirty clothes please explain. I’m thinking if he showed up w “dirty” clothes it doesn’t seem as though he really cared about making a good impression on you. Which to me tells me a little about how much or how little interest he has in you. So w that said I think you should move on.
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But In saying that he’s single a very long time and his last date was a year ago and he’s never had a long term relationship so I’m thinking maybe he doesn’t know what to do? I’ve been in two long term relationships and have been on dates so I kinda know the suss if u get me
Ok why has the had a long term relationship? He’s almost 30. To me that is something I’d think about. Even if he didn’t know what to do people know when you’re going to a job interview or meeting someone for a date that you need to dress somewhat descent. I wonder if he’s just been nailing girls all his life. Sounds as though he’s cute. I mean for a cute girl like yourself to select a man you like chances are he has to be better looking than the average man.
Yes I don’t think he’s as interested as you are. I know I’d be you’re gorgeous. But like I said the fact that he showed up in dirty clothes tells me how much he was into you, not very much.
