In my opinion, I think being pregnant at 13 is terrible do you think the same thing as me?

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Anonymous · Accepted Answer

These things happen. 13 year olds shouldn't be having sex let along getting pregnant because its dangerous for their bodies. Usually its an older male that takes advantage. nwhen I was in my teens I had sex with a lot of girls starting from when I was 14. I did knock up a woman not a girl who was a high school teacher. My kid by this woman is now 11. She kept it all quiet right up until I turned 21 and left college to work in my father's plumbing firm. I got a paternity test ordered by court and now have to pay child support and back date it at least two years. She lives in another state now and is martied. Even though what she did was technically statutory rape, child abuse and abusing her position it didn't matter. I asked her to drop it and she refused and sent the police claiming harassment so what I did was to send a letter to the principal of the school she works in and the PTA with a letter explaining what happened to me along with a copy of the paternity test, my birth certificate, the child's birth certificate and the court order to pay child support. I got the greedy manipulative bitch fired.

Berethor · Accepted Answer

Not in Japan, as Japan needs all the Babies it can have or Japan is going to Die Out. :)

Anemone978 · Accepted Answer

Well I know quite a few of my friends started having sex at 11.. one at 10 but she was molested growing up by her moms boyfriend's.. Some of them it was with people the same age some like my best friend told me he was her 18 year old baby sitter.. so why are they having sex? either their parents ain't watching them and letting them do whatever they want, or not teaching them about the birds and the bees and to respect their bodies or someone older took advantage.. Yes it is terrible for a 13 year old to get pregnant, but if you watched Maury it actually happens a lot..

Apple1996 · Accepted Answer

It's not always a terrible thing if it can turn her life around for the better. Some people need a push in their life to get on the right track. I know my teen pregnancies changed things in a postive direction

AviatorTom · Answer

Pregnant at 13 is sad... so much if her life ahead if her is now completely changed.

Rei13 · Answer

I think most people would think that it is terrible for a thirteen year old to get pregnant. But the real question here is why are they having sex at such an early age. It’s not even just the unprotected part but they’re still basically a child

DubiousIntentions · Answer

I'm wondering why a 13-year-old girl was having sex, especially unprotected sex? But say they were married - being married that young is another thread - and wanting a child, maybe it wasn't terrible.

Staximus · Answer

Yeah it's terrible. My friend's daughter looked 20 when she was 13, was out having sex with high school guys and running away from home, thought she could come and go whenever she pleased and do whatever she wanted. The cops had to go out and bring her home, and gave her the choice of coming home at night or going to jail.

TallAnon · Answer

Yeah, you have no way to raise it yourself, you become a huge burden on the people around you, you are not yet taught the things you need to be teaching and let's be honest; Having a kid is very painful and traumatic. A kid shouldn't have to go through that.

MementoMori777 · Answer

Yes definitely, you basically throw away your liberty of flexibility for doing things, with huge responsibilities comes sacrifice but I guess this also depends on whether someone will be a good parent or bad parent too

strateguy632 · Answer

certainly the pregnancy isn't terrible because any child is a blessing, but the careless unplanned actions were terrible. if people aren't using protection then they need religion to teach wait til wedding. you may NOW kiss the bride.

nastyb · Answer

it means you're a bad kid and your parents never taught you good values. at 13, you should be focusing on getting good grades in school, learning instead of making out with boys behind your parents back

PBandJ_Nerd · Answer

Yes. A 13 yr. old is still just a kid and is nowhere near able to take care of a baby. And then their parents have to explain to them where babies come from.

Chill_Thoughts · Answer

Ruining the little girl's life and burdening herself the people around her with a baby... Yeh it really is terrible

Adaeva · Answer

In modern society, that is not good but for most human existence, that was not unusual. Religious scholars believe the Virgin Mary was pregnant at age 13, a common age that girls married at that time.

Simslover92 · Answer

Yes thats very terrible. A child shouldn't be having a child.

DaBiggestBird · Answer

Abominable, like a literal spider man.

Al_Musafir · Answer

Getting sexual at such an early age is a terrible thing in itself. Let alone getting pregnant.

slatyb · Answer

Yes, it is. When a 13-year-old is pregnant, she is almost certainly the victim of a sex crime.

Alexz0 · Answer

I'd far for ideal. For the kid more than anyone else. But it happens and I'd be supportive and sympathetic to the mum.

Anonymous · Answer

TERRIBLE!! In these times having a kid anywhere in your 20’s without a career. Or money saved up. IS TERRIBLE!

Wonderingguyy · Answer

Yeah 13 is still a kid. They would waste their childhood.

butterly248 · Answer

Any pregnancy under 18 is awful. A kid shouldn't have a kid.

Anonymous · Answer

Not really. 13 is just a number. Many 20 year olds having kids is terrible.

Huntingnfishin · Answer

I'm curious to see the one person who says it's a good idea

Anonymous · Answer

Context is everything. In the modern sense, YES! During the Roman Empire where life expentency was about 33 years., NO. Of course it's terrible now.

Hardworkingguy · Answer

Yes I do. Life is much tougher without the academic skills you wouldn't get by having a baby so young

Awantika03 · Answer

Under age pregnancy is dangerous for mom and baby

BoopBoopBeep · Answer

Uhm... is that even debated?

Robertjo16 · Answer

Depends on what happened.

KatherineJ · Answer

Of course that’s terrible!

BigDog1989 · Answer

What if she's raped?

Wise4myage · Answer

Yes, that would be horrible for any girl.

DerekC321 · Answer

Yes, that's terrible.

Twalli · Answer

It's definitely not a good thing.

Reijen · Answer

I would not say they're ready for that.

riverrat3 · Answer

Very immature, too young too raise a baby

angieeeeee · Answer

that’s terrible

dudeinohio · Answer

I agree with you

Iron_Man · Answer

Really bad

Grovermint · Answer

Yeah.

Anonymous · Answer

No doubt

QuietRunner · Answer

yes quite bad

Anonymous · Answer

Sure

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