I’ve changed part of my profile, but still don’t have any matches on Bumble, am I overweight?

[Anonymous]

I know I asked this a week ago, so I did some changes, but my results didn’t.

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[jennifer_bloom]

I saw your previous profile and I like this one more. If you aren't getting matches, I would say to be patient and continue waiting. You are not alone in the struggle to get girls, I know very good looking guys that get rejected by over 300 girls before a single one accepts them for a date, they had communication struggles that drove girls away. I'm not trying to discourage you but I'm saying you're not unique in your struggles to find a match.

I don't know what bumble is, but if you aren't getting a lot of attention, try websites where dialogue is possible before a girl accepts or rejects your profile. Also, it could be you are aiming for girls that already have many others chasing after them, if you chase a very pretty girl that has 80 guys after her, your chances of getting her are 1 in 80 etc... It could be you need a different website or you need to initiate more dialogues before you begin things with a girl.

As you get more experience talking to girls, your dialogue and conversation skills will get better and your ratios of acceptance verses rejection will increase. My friend was a professional wrestler before he became a teacher and he says when you first begin wrestling, you lose 100% of the battles you fight cause your competitor has more experience than you. You just have to have the confidence that you need to push through the initial low acceptance ratios by girls online.

Also remember there may be girls in your community too so you don't have to restrict. yourself to just the online part of dating.

[Anonymous]

It's the "I quote too much from Seinfeld" that's probably keeping them away. Seinfeld is an overrated show.

[Avicenna]

I've had a lot of success with Bumble, so be patient. Sometimes it takes awhile.

[Asker]

I mean, maybe. I usually get one match per week. Other weeks it’s none. I can post the verbatim of the convo for the one match I got on Aug 14.

She said, “How’s your summer been?”
I replied hours later, “Hey xxx, it’s been good! Went on vacation to LA and lost some weight. How about yours?” So far, no response.

[Avicenna]

Yeah, that sort of thing happens a lot. What other ways are you trying to meet women?
If you are self-conscious about your weight, I would not mention it.

[Anonymous]

Stop wasting your time on childish apps.