How do you win at dating apps if you're fat and overweight?

[redskulldangerzone64]

[ManOnFire]

You start by changing it? Dude, you're asking the same kind of question that fat, overweight women ask, and then they're wondering why no guys want to inbox them but then not wanting to get in shape. It's simple, just get to the gym.

[Flatmanlewis]

You create reasonable and realistically attainable goals.


You try and connect with other people of similar physical attributes. If those attributes aren’t appealing to you then expect they are equally not appealing to others and therefore change your own behavior and subsequently your own attributes which will, in turn, open more options for you.

[Sour-rose]

Lol you won't until you get your fat shi together. Stab me if you want but i lived with a fat rat who sat in our house and ate our shi. No girl, no guys, just him... eattin' our shi and being fat.

[Billlewis]

Yes, ma'am, tellin' it like it is;)

[In_Trance]

You look for someone equivalent.
What do you bring to the table?
That's what you're gonna get.

I don't know what you mean by win; it's not a game or competition. That's just dumb.

You want results? Be realistic and hold yourself accountable

[TommyMountainFigure]

I'm neither overweight or use dating apps, but it makes no sense to me that if you're not happy with your weight, why you don't do something about it?

[andreasderjuengere]

You don't. :)

But you may get a participation trophy?

[HelpfulWoman]

frankly, you probably won't win.

[EmmaMary]

You don't... It's as simple as that. smh

[JonCobretti]

Lose weight and get back

[DarkLegacy]

Try losing weight

[Louis-Deger]

What an embarrassing question!

[Reichsadler]

Trust nobody at dating apps.

[jahaims]

Get healthy duh

[Anonymous]

Be rich