Guy is more eager to introduce me to his kids than I am to meet them?

[Anonymous]

The kids are 3 and 5. I love him but we’ve only dated for 3 months and it feels too soon. Especially since their mom is still in the picture.

is this a red flag that he keeps wanted me to hang out. We’ve met briefly. But that was it. Or a green flag that he wants something more seriously. I just don’t know how to take it

[slatyb]

That's a bit soon. Young children quickly attach to new adults. I think it's better to wait a bit longer when it's more likely the relationship is going to last a while.

[Staximus]

You're not dating somebody if you only met them once and don't spend any time with them

[Asker]

I’ve only met his kids once very briefly. We’ve dated for 3 months now

[Staximus]

It sounds like you're not ready to get serious and he is

[GOOSEBOY78]

orange. proceed with caution.
has the other mom met you first?

is she cool with you banging her man? if not its an affair. and red flag before it gets any worse.

[shortster]

It sounds like he likes you more than you like him. This isn't ideal, but can be overcome if you are both willing to address it.