What do guys look for in a girl?

[Robertjo16]

[JohnSmityJohnson]

Everyone is different. Looks don't matter as much as people think they do. Why? Because it's relative. Some people like people that look like them. Some like people that look like someone they know. Some like certain characteristics; hair color, eye color, skin color, etc.

Personality traits that are attractive:

Intellect

Humility

Altruism

So on and so forth. Basically being a decent human being will get you far. A lot of women today are alone because their personalities completely suck, and they are just downright awful human beings. Courtney Ryan on YouTube gives good advice.

Now this is completely different as a teenager. Teenage boys are not mature enough to see things this way.

[Adogdog]

Cute, Sweet, Pretty Hair, and Eyes.

[Runawaysbubbletea]

I’m. Not a guy but I’m lookin for someone (obviously a. Male) to date
Stuff i look in a güy a sense of humor, loves music , astronomy, etc

[Robertjo16]

Those are good things to look for, find anyone like that?

[Finchie40]

A girl that is beautiful to my eyes that has a good heart , good personality,, that understands what it means to be in a relationship, she isn’t selfish , she gives the same way she wants to receive , she works as a team partner , not against me , brings happiness into my life , not misery

[Sweetsurprize]

Ooh I want that too but the opposite sex of that.

[Finchie40]

Most people say they want that , but when they finally get it they eventually become bored and think they deserve someone better than what they already have in front of them , I am not saying every one is this way , but through my experiences with girls’ that is what I experienced , so I no longer jump into a relationship with a girl until she proves to me she is in it for the long haul and not the short haul , sadly these days most people look for the short haul , and I am not into that , but I can’t read minds so I keep trying

[Robertjo16]

Thats good

[Sweetsurprize]

LIfe is not boring. Only immature people think that. There's always something to do/think about with life, especially if you want to survive. But I get you. Relationships are always a risk. Take it from someone who's last ex went from talking everyday, sending kissy emojis, saying he wouldn't ever leave me and wants to build, not only a present with me, but a future with me, to being judgmental and unforgiving and giving up on the relationship after five months.

[Finchie40]

I heard the same thing from my ex wife after 15 years of marriage

[Sweetsurprize]

? Not sure what you are trying to say. I am not your ex-wife lol. And for her to WASTE your time for that long shows what kind of person she was. That would NEVER be me, you can be on that. I'm loyal to my partner, because I am hoping for the same thing in return. I just wanted a NORMAL life. Parents have been married 46 going on 47 years this December. My brother's marriage is going on 4 years soon. You're telling me * I'm * going to be like your ex-wife? How insulting. Look at my role models!

[Finchie40]

No I was comparing my ex to your ex , my parents were together for 53 years , my mom just passed away last year

[Sweetsurprize]

[my mom just passed away last year]

Oh I'm sorry to hear that.

[Finchie40]

Thank you , losing a parent is life changing , words can’t explain

[Robertjo16]

Im sorry to hear that. It felt is, lost my dad 4 years ago

[Finchie40]

Sorry to hear that as well , so you know what I am talking about when losing a parent

[Anonymous]

At your age guys are all over the map on what they want. Most of it is image and hormone driven. So if guys seem flaky now don't take it personal. It's probably not you it's probably them. Give them time, right now i'd just look for a guy you can be friends with.

For me? What i look for is kindness, compassion, honesty, loyalty, integrity, attractiveness, positivity (Not HIV positivity), and on that note a sense of humor compatible to mine, has a drive to succeed like mine but also understands life is about the journey. I work hard to stay financial secure not to keep up with the Jones. If she is not similar to me in that aspect it'll never work. An understanding that while i'll always have her back, I will always be loyal that reciprocation of this is required.

[Flatmanlewis]

My criteria when looking for a girl:
Has a life goal/career/focus
Interesting to talk to.
Self-sufficient.
Single (I’ve been tricked before!)
Sharp dresser/style
Financially responsible
Good sense of humor.
Integrity.
Looks always matter so, petite, hourglass figure, and I prefer Latinas an awful lot.

[Sweetsurprize]

Why do you prefer Latinas more than other races? I don't like how they look. To me, they look masculine.

[Flatmanlewis]

I guess I’ve had a different experience. Think Salma Hayek, Melissa Ceja, Shakira, Rebecca Linares, or Sofia Vergara. I don’t think that any of them could be called masculine in the slightest.

[Flatmanlewis]

Why? I think they are the epitome of feminine beauty. I like their features and I’ve yet to meet one that didn’t have some “fire” inside. A strong personality.

[Sweetsurprize]

A strong personality can be too scary and controlling but it's your choice. Yeah, I've seen some pretty Latinas, not going to lie. And yeah, I think Selma Hayek, is pretty but she's old lol. Another thing is I think Asian women are the ones that are more fenimine and dainty looking. THAT is the EPITOME of feminine qualities in my opinion. They seem like a graceful group and very traditional when it comes to becoming a wife and mother. From personal experience that is what I have seen at least.

LOVE black hair and beautiful almond shaped eyes with fair skin! Mmm..

[JosyJosy]

I've had a lot of success with being straight forward with what I want and what I think. If you're also respectful and loyal to them, they'll remember. If you really care for him and support them in what they do, they'll remember. If you share their same life goals, they'll remember.
Be down to earth.

[Counterclocking]

I want a girl that has a pretty face, long hair to the shoulders straight and smooth, nice body, clear skin, Caucasian, often wear sheer pantyhose (suntan pantyhose most of the time) and wears them every time she wears a dress or skirt and wears dresses and skirts often, smiles, and allows me to hug and kiss her.

[Anonymous]

Someone in attracted to, who also wants me back. Someone to grow with, who doesn't mind a lot of nights snuggled up. Unfortunately I'm not much of a catch or a looker, so I'll just keep waiting for the next one. The most important thing to remember is you're dating to make yourself, and your partner, happy. If one of you isn't happy, gotta fix it or move on if you can't.

[Runawaysbubbletea]

Dude I dated a player that’s just a no
Right there just sayin

[AnusNdaPainus]

I’m gonna be honest guys really want the same things in a woman it only varies by age group

Can’t go wrong with respect, sex and food.
if you are offering and providing these three things and he still doesn’t go for it something is wrong with him

[Pudsmucker]

I like to see a girl with high morals. It would be nice to have high standards. Good listener, and to keep a good decent conversation going. Do not go steady with anybody. Enjoy yourself going to group activities. As a parent and grandparent I would rather see my granddaughters enjoy themselves in group activities. If you single date most the time it leads to promiscuous activities and unwanted sex.

[ShadowYamihiro]

Honesty, faithfulness, kindness to me and others around her, maturity as well. Everything else is either a bonus or personality quirks i have to accept and be ok with it. But those 4 are a must for me

[exitseven]

My father used to say that when you date someone, check out her teeth. If she has bad teeth she does not take good care of herself. If she does not take good care of herself, she won't take good care of you either

[CatVader]

Loyalty, respect and low body count.
I think that covers it pretty much, all the rest are flavor.

[4ngelic]

pretty face/good body + fun and nice personality + some similar interests, i think that goes for everyone though

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

Girls, with a great personality, loves kisses, loves holding hands, public displays of an affection, loves long walks in a park, loves picnics in the park, loves nature

[serious]

Highly subjective. Both on physical looks and personality.

[Surely]

Someone that I feel is attractive. Has common sense. Not afraid to break a nail. Can leave any baggage in the past. Likes most of the stuff that I like. Can think on her feet.

[Jerre]

Personality, looks and love sex as much as I do

[Jerre]

@Robertjo16 Thank you for the Like

[Robertjo16]

No prob

[whirled_up_girl]

If I had to guess I would say, looks, personality, dependability and compatibility.

[Adaeva]

They will say it is personality but it 98% beauty and 2% personality.

[Staximus]

Honesty, kindness, affectionate, common sense, not a drug addict, not fatter than me, likes doing outdoorsy type stuff, likes guys like me who are built like a tree stump

[RingOfFire]

You can't be too picky these days with all the madness going on. If she was born a female consider yourself lucky! 🙂

[Jkgordon]

It depends on the race I’ll elaborate if you need more answers

[Goofy9009]

girls : great personality, understanding, accepting , and honest

[ohmyguy]

they be female with proper female parts n they be what a girl is looking for

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

Men like happy women.

[Sparkie460]

Either to just have sex or a relationship that might lead to marriage. It all depends on the guy

[Iron_Man]

Personality great heart, great character, loyalty, and beauty and much more

[boobliker]

me I look for boobs nice soft voice and willing to be of help even if it means getting dirty

[Christoff92]

Sweet, courteous, down to earth, great l
Personal traits.

[DextroShade]

Fit, feminine, friendly, cooperative, submissive, childless, not a hoe, not a feminist.

[krin_m]

Self-confidence, great sens of humor and laid back personality. Good looks do not hurt either :-)

[_RebelWolf_]

I would like him to be a person of loyalty, honesty, sincerity and fun.

[In_Trance]

Really depends on the guy everyone wants something different

[Celticwolf78]

Someone who is independent and knows what she wants and have a good connection with

[Anonymous]

Intelligence especially financial
A sense of humour
Class

[QuietRunner]

so physical attractiveness

kindness and someone fun to be with

[SassyAussieAddy]

Respect is a big one. It goes a long way.

[strateguy632]

a cute face and smoothly brush hair

[JustinM87]

Looks are fine but someone who has a great personality and substance

[Avicenna]

Companionship

[Anonymous]

A good sense of humor is very important.

[Robertjo16]

I agree, sense of humor is my #1 must

[Opinion Owner]

That's good. It really helps in breaking the ice.

[Robertjo16]

Yes it is

[Robertjo16]

I'm not funny so it doesn't do much for others when I make jokes but it helps me

[Anonymous]

Smart
Beautiful
Funny
Kind

[LiamJHayden]

Different guys look for different things.

[Anonymous]

Men like to control.

[Anonymous]

Honest answer for most would be simply sex.

[Cheerfull009]

Beautiful face and sexy body

[MaxUsefull]

Good caracter and great body

[convo_king89]

Boobs is the first thing I check out

[jammcm]

Friendship.

[OddBeMe]

Sense of humor.

[Sugarberry37]

Sweety

[jimmy2]

Just be her self