What do guys look for in a girl?

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What do guys look for in their dream girl?...One guy said the perfect pair of legs but what are the perfect pair or legs? Do you like girls with long or short hair better and do you like shy or chatty girls better...etc. I just want guys opinions on this...What do guys look for in girls? What makes a girl your dream girl? Thanks =D

Zephyrus · Accepted Answer

I know where yo' coming from =P.

To answer your question, I know its kinda cliche, but we like both looks and personality.

Looks are definite plus. Without any personality or work at all, with looks alone you should be able to get guys hitting on you in no time. The thing is you'll need personality too keep em' coming back.

For dressing, hate to say it but the curve hugging skin tight stuff is usually the way to go, classic slim fit blue jeans/tee shirt are always in style.

Personality? Doesn't have to be FUNNY (but making him laugh does help, you need to be able to do that now and then, make jokes and stuff) but make sure you smile lots, and a tip is to laugh at all his jokes (if you like him) even if they sound like the corniest things in the world.

So yeah, looks come first, personality second. I'm sure you can get into a relationship on looks alone, but what you'll get out of THAT kind of relationship might not be what you have in mind. Best to have a combination of the two ;).

Hope that helps

BeardedDude · Accepted Answer

To be honest I look for girls who "reciprocate" my attention and who I think I can be friends with easily. When I first meet a girl and start a conversation with her, I try to see if its just me showing an interest (as I am talkative) or if both of us are showing an interest in each other. Because if its just me showing an interest then I know it probably won't get too far, I won't quit on her because it could be just an issue with getting to know me. But in general girls who show an interest in me are girls I prefer to hang out with.

As far as friendship goes, I look for girls who treat the people around them well because how she treats others, not just the guys she likes, is usually indicative of her true character. We can all be nice to our "crushes" but how do we treat are other friends. I try to pay attention to that in a girl. Physically not much, I don't go for super skinny or super big or curvaceous, just a person who looks like they take care of themselves in terms of hygiene, clothing, and health.

EyeLander · Accepted Answer

Well defined body, so like in shape nice and skinny but curvy. Reasonable sized breast to ass ratio and the bigger the better. It depends, some girls look better with short hair and some with long but I generally prefer long hair. Chatty girls but not so chatty they're stupid.

More importantly than good looks is a good personality, no one wants to have a hot babe who just won't shut up about make-up or something else we don't care about. She has to have a brain, or at least be at the same intelligence level as the guy (or above) and she has to know what's socially appropriate.

Hope this helps!

afrolejin · Answer

For me it extends far beyond the mere physical appearance(takes deep breath) okay here goes I want a girl who makes everything she wears look amazing and yes toned legs are very sexy as is a flat tummy not a ripped one breast size is not important I'm more of a fan of the shape same goes for a nice booty not huge but nice and round and soft to the touch.Personality wise I like my girl chatty,but won't try to fill silence kissable lips are a plus , I would like every time I see her I fall for over and over again because her smile is so hypnotic I'm compelled to smile myself, and finally she has the ability to turn anything situation until something good or make it fun that's the kind of girl I dream about and the kind of girl I'll someday marry

teccthaprod · Answer

In general, looks and personality are the main ones. Generally, I like girls with long hair, and height isn't too much of an issue for me with girls.

Shy girls are great, but so are chatty ones; I love an outgoing girl, but I also quite like introverts at the same time.

My dream girl would be a girl who is interested in music, and one who is genuinely able to talk openly to me about the things that she loves. I quite like a girl with some curves, but generally I'm more attracted to slimmer girls. Slim with curves is the most attractive body type to me.

Personality is a huge thing to me; I want a girl that isn't just brainless, and only focused on trivial things. I'd much rather an alright looking girl, who is interesting to talk to, than a 9/10 that is just a boring person.

TylerMMA · Answer

Well first thing is gonna be physical attraction since it it afterall the very first thing you notice about someone. Next I notice if she seems to be looking my way/smiling at me, I'm not the most outgoing person if its someone that I don't know but if she seems interested then I can approach. If she doesn't even notice I exist (as proven by last night), 15 shots of wild turkey isn't even enough to get the liquid courage to make a move.

Now if we do actually start talking I'm gonna find out if your friendly or bitchy. If your nice and we can carry on a conversation then I'll actually get to find out more about you and as for dating I would be looking for someone who is intelligent with a similar sense of humor, bluntly honest, adventurous enough to always be down for doing something new and exciting but also she needs to be responsible. Then once dating we'd also need to be sexually compatible. Sex once a month="this isn't working out".

Dantemustdie · Answer

I've met someone who I think would be my dream girl, she's everything I'd want from a girl. She's smart, funny, unique, beautiful, creative, and lots of other things that I really love. The most important thing is she brings a big smile to my face every time I chat with her. I don't really think physical appearances are too important, as long as I'm somewhat attracted to her which I am. A great personality and a wonderful aura are much more important, she's so adorable too, even her laugh and her accent make me melt inside... but yeah that's my dream girl, it will vary with the person but that's just me! :)

Ghost_Woof · Answer

In personality, guys just want a girl who is willing to compromise and be a team player but also stick up for herself. A relationship is about working together so petty jealousy and nit picking small things will just chip away at the relationship until nothing is left. Be honest with each other from the start and establish that trust bond. Boobs are nice but even sex won't make a relationship last if you cannot stand someone's personality. Also huge boobs are only nice when a girl is young the bigger they are the more they say with age...

784456 · Answer

Personality wise? If they're smart, nothing else "matters" as smartness sets in motion all the good personality traits.

Obviously all men are attracted to looks. But if you want a man to think you could be more than a one night stand or a friend with benefits, you definitely have to have some brains as well.

ashlou · Answer

My dream girl simply  hasn't  been found yet. But some personalities/features I like, is a girl who is laid back, isn't snobby and obsessed with everything (over reacting over the small things). A girl who can stick up for herself (but ill always have her back). Smart, clever, and a bit geeky. Not too nice and not completely mean. Some other things could be loyal, a natural mother in her own unique way. I usually tend to like girls with the flat bangs and medium hair, medium height, and not too fat not too skinny although that really doesn't matter. I seem to like plenty of girls without that. And maybe a girl who is into music (rock). Black hair is my favorite colored hair, maybe brown too. And really just someone with a badass personality. Who knows you have one life so be yourself and enjoy what you want to enjoy in the best way possible. :)

Red_Dragon · Answer

Well in that case I don't know what kind of majority answer you'd get then as far as physically from most guys. Me personally as far as physically just so long she's not overly fat or anorexic then it's based on a combination of features. A nice ass isn't what I really look for or huge boobs. It all depends on the girl. I like any or most styles. The most important thing would be if she could tolerate my personality, because I can't and/or won't change that.

BrutallyHonest87 · Answer

Every time a guy marries an ugly girl, the first piece of advice he gives to single guys is "don't ever marry an ugly girl".

I like girly girls, not tomboys. Tomboys are gross.
Domestic skills are a must
Not psycho
Smart
Funny
High sex drive
Good taste in music
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Same shit that everybody looks for I suppose

Stuarto · Answer

Perfect legs = my avatar. Bar Rafaeli has a great body and face and hair, infact she's near perfect.

Long hair most the time unless short hair suits the girl. I prefer chatty girls since means I do less work thinking of things to say. But shy girls work too.

BirdFan360 · Answer

Depends on the guy. We all have different interests, and some are more deviant-like than others.

Personally: I like a girl who can take care of herself. (Responsible and hard working.) I'm a nerd, and I'm aiming for that power couple lifestyle where we become Tony Stark and Pepper Potts combo but its us and better than them.

That's long term tho. I don't really have much of a short term game. Just focusing on studies right now to make that Tony Stark part a reality.

ShAwInLo · Answer

I like girl's that are nice. That want to spend time with me. That wants most of the same things I do. That loves me for me. A lot of girls are gold diggers. But some aren't. I want to find a good girl. One that believes in love, instead of one that is out for the money.

pickyourcliche · Answer

Authenticity and standards low enough to date me lol. I like people who aren't afraid to be who they are, embrace their weirdness and quirks and stuff. I don't really have a set list of what else I look for, I just want a person to be who they are rather than try to be someone else they think others might like more.

Shmusername · Answer

I want her to be able to make me laugh legitimately. I would like someone that I can have a good time with, who shares some of my interests, but not all, and who wants to share her interests with me. I just want someone around that I could share ¨life¨ with.

billy5432135 · Answer

I personally don't like short hair. I never really understood the whole long legs thing. Personally I have a mild preference for tall girls, I think that's because I'm tall myself though. As long as the girl isn't overweight and healthy that hits my high points for a girls looks. Honestly I look for the personality and virtues more than most other things.

Okasdin · Answer

Personally,
1) Down to earth. She treats everyone the way she would want to be treated, not just me or attractive people
2) Has a sense of humor. Most guys are funny so there is no need for the girl to be funny. She only needs to be a recipient of humor and appreciate it
3) Loyalty. Kind of obvious but is the most important one

Anonymous · Answer

I know some girls that are gorgeous to look it. But I would probably kill myself if I was with them. Just horrible personalities, everything is about them, very whiney and bratty. I want a girl who is sweet, nice, kind, respectful and hopefully her hair, body, eyes is kept nice.

Skateranon · Answer

Well every guy will have a different dream girl. For example I've always liked really delicate and skinny girls. I know most guys like thick girls but I honestly don't like them much.

For me my dream girl was smart, feminine and have similar sense of humor than mine.

I never thought I'd meet her but I did at my age 😅

nasty4fun · Answer

My dream girl thinks I'm her dream guy too. She loves me and is loyal. I can trust her as well as be trusted by her. The physical is also important but what that means is that she needs to look beautiful in my eyes. Not morbidly obese but not anorexic either. No midgets but I'm six two so is not very often I find one taller than me. Hair is unimportant. Shaved peach and clean body are my only real requirements there.

markscott · Answer

A good sense or right and wrong, a good sense of humor, intelligence, caring about others, empathetic, warm and friendly, smiles, and a nice body helps. If the personality is there, and she smiles, then it's easy to like her body as well.

NyomiMcClinton · Answer

Every guy is different. In general I find that a lot of men look for a female thatd not shallow, and won't be the type thats clingy and annoying. Someone who is down to earth thats what every guy would like but yet someone who is uplifting.

TheBootyChest · Answer

I think it has to do with the chemistry between us, physically/sexually and emotionally.

I think also it has to do with if "she" is shy then we don't know if she is into us or wants to talk to us. So we just move on.

LGRock · Answer

What I look for: Well one is common interests. I like to be able to connect with this person in some way. Next is their face; I dig a girl with a nice face cuz that usually stands out the most for me. Also I like someone who's straightforward and understanding, as well as smart. And finally as long as they're not too skinny nor too fat we're good.

Historylover18 · Answer

Honestly I don't care that much about curves. Just not overly obese or overly skinny. Not because I don't think they're beautiful it's just not my thing. Just looking somewhat average is fine as long as you don't have a face full of metal. I typically like long hair because then I can play with it easier, and I (sometimes) like short girls, but if you got a good personality (sweet, loving, loyal, committed, able to make me smile and laugh etc) then that's all that matters to me in the end

UsernameUnknown1 · Answer

i don't like girls who are serious 24/7. i like a girl who i can laugh with and have a good time with., and not worrying about the things i say or do.
i like it when we share the same interest (especially music!) I want her to be trustworthy and caring... if i have a girl like this then they automatically become the most beautiful person in my eyes.. big tits and a fine ass is just a bonus ;D
and i like a girl who can trust me/ say anything to me : 3 yep

DracoLuciusMalfoy · Answer

Perfect girl is literally Hermione...

She’s not, loyal, classy, smart, brave, caring, loving and she can be a little “scary sometimes”... oh and she’s also a badass.

How can’t you say she isn’t a perfect girl? Plus the actress E. W looks so cute in the movies, I don’t know if Hermione is supposed to be that cute in the movies.

Notice how I said cute, I’m so sick of girls flaunting their asses and try to be so sexually appealing. I’m HP Hermione is dressed simply and just look adorable

dx021 · Answer

the older and more successful I get, the more I learn towards: -hot, young, doesn't stress me out / is pleasant to be around.  -SKINNY that's pretty much it

RichardBoehner · Answer

What if it is ass or tits? What then? I mean you already know the answer to your question, just cause you dont wanna hear it doesn't make it not true.

famksantiago · Answer

Well, my boyfriend and I had a talk about this before we even started dating. I think the big one for him was personality. She has to be fun loving, a hard-working etc etc.

passinby · Answer

I look for girls’ personalities that don’t have a flaw that assumes that all I am interested in is “in gold is how big their breasts are all how they look”

vishna · Answer

from the guys I've dated, they seem to want someone who is nice to them and makes them feel good. (no comment on looks, that's really subjective)

walt0462 · Answer

I don't know what other guys might be looking for in woman but for me besides her physical attributes (HWP, legs, apple shaped ASS, C-cup perky breasts, attractive face & kissable lips) intelligents and common interests

RoxyBoxyLoxyYouDoxy · Answer

Don't start with that "ALL BOYS LIKE GIRLS WITH BIG BREAST AND NOT A NICE GIRL LIKE ME 😡😡🤬"

ankitkumar70170 · Answer

Its true that some guys like them big but not evry person care about their size.
Every guy have a own prospective about girls.
Like some likes cute some like hot girl even some cool guys like nerd girls

Anonymous · Answer

Someone who’s willing to go on a journey with me through hardships and good times. I don’t really care that much about body. She has to be cute to me and somewhat dressed well with an amazing personality. Someone I can tease and get that same tease back. Someone who can make me laugh and the same to her. If she yells at me and can’t control her anger like most biotches nowadays then I’ll leave her and break her heart brutally.

Anonymous · Answer

A girl who understands men are humans too. That guys have good and bad days, that feeling down time to time don't make them a loser. Than people aren't perfect 24/7 and things take time to develop. That many guys are just trying their best. That Insecurities don't mean he's a bad person and can't function.

Fiddleus · Answer

Perquisites (Financial stability, Sense of self, Physically healthy) Determing factor (Shared common interests)

Canadaman99 · Answer

Long hair, introverted, rich dark eyes and hair but the looks are just added bonus. Smarts and a similar personality is all I really want 😂😂

jitender2312 · Answer

it's never about finding or looking something in a girl it's all about how free and real you can feel with her

desh1000 · Answer

I like women who are easy to talk to. If you can keep a conversation going with a guy he will think your fun and maybe even start liking you.

AngryBill · Answer

They have to be good looking, nice, smart, not prissy or whiny, and not clingy, someone who wants long term relationship

RainyDayMan74 · Answer

I like long haired girls with a few extra pounds on them.  I find curves very sexy.

rish170003 · Answer

For me it's who they are  I never looked at girls in the physical way Personally I feel like I love a girl cuz of who she is  Her looks is just the jackpot you scored if you're in love with her

Anonymous · Answer

Short Curvy but not fat Long hair Nice smile Perfect and girly facial features Nice voice  Not smarter than them  Not stronger than them Has a personality and isn't totally stupid.

Anonymous · Answer

Cute, nice, someone who cares about you, fit, funny, someone who is involved with what's happening, smart, at least slightly athletic, outgoing, and someone who will always be there for you when you need it.
Do Not: Be overly attached, only care for yourself in the relationship, be annoying.

darrek · Answer

What I Look For In a Women Is : A Sexy Partner of Life. And by partner i mean strong, open minded, trustworthy... etc

Danxsarah · Answer

What I look for in girls vs what I need in a girl are two different things  I want a big booty redhead with nice legs and etc  What i need is a down to earth lass who is smart and comfortable enough

flavio222 · Answer

Partnership An real friend An muse An inspiration An sex goddess dont care about her boobs An woman An girl An dreamer An human An lovely person Honesty Open mindness Abnegation maybe

Anonymous · Answer

Its not just about look because if it was any of them would be able to commit. We are all beautiful. But not all of us have beautiful insides.

front2back · Answer

At this point, that she's at least somewhat normal and doesn't have mental health issues.

Cask23 · Answer

The golden ratio of 0.7 for the waist to hip measurements.

awx0ne · Answer

I personally hate stupid girls. Definition of stupid: Someone who after 20 years of age is manipulative like a child. And doesn't have its own style.

MarvelFan300 · Answer

We like a girl who is sweet, fun, loving caring, smart, happy, good sense of humor, isn't bitchy, and takes care of herself.

Wwwyzzerdd · Answer

Wait women have personalities and they don't think we are walking dicks with wallets that buy them food/cars/shoes/phones?

Anonymous · Answer

I think guys are only looking for VS models nowadays. That's why no guy likes me except for overweight or much older guys.. Or I must be hideous because I'm not overweight

Rangers · Answer

I need someone loyal, honest, cool, open minded, and supportive.

MidnightCowboy · Answer

Personally, I like girls who are independent, tomboyish, westernized, dominant, and modern

Raajk1995 · Answer

Her nature, her behavior towards me, her inner beauty, her love and care for me.

Razal · Answer

Ohh lots of things. Long hair. Tall 5’7” to 5’11”. Respectful and calm personality, athletic to little chubby body. Nice eyes and smile. Preferably boobs on the bigger size.

Anonymous · Answer

Intelligent, funny, easy going (down to earth), sexually hungry, respectful, more traditional than modern, NOT a feminist.

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