Should I let this girl know I’m Latino?

[Anonymous]

I met this chick online, and she’ really cool. We have a lot in common together and she likes me. And we randomly met. She happens to be white. Anyways, I feel like people put a lot of effort into going for their preference, or type. And a lot of people think I’m a white guy, even though I’m Latino. Should I let her know I’m Mexican?

[Anonymous]

Of course you should.


So you’re afraid she might end it with you if she found out you’re a Latino? If that’s the type of person she is, then she is not the one for you!


Think about it, do you want to be someone who judges someone based on their ethnicity?

[Asker]

I’m not afraid. It’s just that it’s 2023, and I don’t know if it even matters in this day and age now?

[Opinion Owner]

Okay. I think it doesn’t matter. As long as there is some form of a connection between you guys, there’s really no need to bring it up. Unless she asks, which you should answer honestly.

[Zenpanda]

Yeah, but not in a "by the way I'm Latino" type of way. Just tell her where you're from, or talk about family. It's a more natural way to let her know.

[crossdressingrihno]

Aside from potential cultural stuff being latino change’s nothing and if it did then they ain’t worth the time.


If she’s seen how you look then i don’t see the problem

[Iron_Man]

Can’t she already tell? Yeah sure tell her.

[Asker]

A lot of people have a hard time telling what I am. But I get mistaken more for being white than anything. My dad’s side is French. And I got most of my features from him. I told a friend I had some French in me, and he was like “holly crap, you look really French like now that I think about it” 😂

[Iron_Man]

Just tell her It shouldn’t be a problem

[driven159]

in do time