My boyfriend works with this girl and she randomly sent him this picture while we were together asking for his opinion. This isn’t the first time one of these girls does this. I already have experience with them. I told her off because I was so pissed off. She knows he’s taken because she follows both of us on Instagram. Why are they like this? Not all of them but MOST of them are. Before you call me a Karen or whatever, just know my boyfriend is very handsome and has dark blonde hair so I have to be a little concerned whenever a girl does something like this. Don’t you agree with me this is inappropriate and unacceptable?
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Why are Latinas like this? This girl sent this picture to my boyfriend while we were together and asked for his opinion? She’s a coworker?
This is what is wrong with the world today so I appreciate your question because maybe we all might get to learn something First of all her being Latin has nothing to do with it. You could have said this girl sent my boyfriend this picture blah blah blah Or you could have said my boyfriend is accepting pictures from this girl blah blah blah And in asking the question the way you did takes all the focus are both of those and puts it on you Because she is not all Latins first of all. And no matter where a person comes from it doesn't really even matter because the only thing that matters is who she is she's a girl I could ask you the same thing how come wherever your ethnic group is you guys are all alike you a stupid questions like this that makes no sense to me wherever you come from how come all you people are like this race bait ethnic bait stupid bait questions like this. Very simple question how come this girl does this how come my boyfriend accepts things like this how come I'm putting up with this shit
This is inappropriate behaviour by her yes. But it's also spurred on by what I can only imagine is a lack of a back bone in your boyfriend. He is the one in a relationship, it's his responsibility to set them straight.
"I appreciate that you may want my opinion on this particular photo, but you are aware I am in a relationship. Responding to this is disrespectful to my partner."
He doesn't have to make threats or set terms. Because any idiot reading that should respect that they are crossing a line and he's drawn it.
All I will say is he's young as are you. He will be flattered and he will not react the way you want him to. When dating you have to deal with situations based upon what's happening currently. How you feel about said situation. And whether the other person handles said situation with you in mind.
Now we are living in a strange world people are incredibly malicious. This what she is doing is nothing new. We just live in a world of camera phones and social media. We also live in a world where when people don't get what they want they will try to mess your life up.
The only thing I can suggest is expressing your irritation calmly and in a non accusative way.
I'm not sure how you were able to see these images. If you went through his phone, you need to ask yourself why?
If you didn't and you're allowed access to each others phone you can ask why he has them.
If he shared them with you in a "look at this" jokey or irritated way then talking about your feelings regarding this is a conversation he's happy for you to engage in freely.
Communication and trust is key in a relationship. Without these you don't really have respect for one another.
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unless they bond over her culture, her ethnicity means nothing in this scenario. seems like you just want something to blame and feel threatened. if you would’ve not generalized a whole ethnic group i might agree but i’m on her side now.
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You are clueless. You can go ahead and let Latinas get all over your boyfriend but not me. It’s not racist if it’s true. Same with illegal immigration if they are the ones jumping the wall. It’s not racist to say it’s mostly Mexicans jumping over the wall illegally because it’s true
don’t see how immigration came into the picture but now it makes so much sense. i truly can’t wait till he fucks her and leaves your pasty ass 😂. i guess he likes spice over… well you. even the guys agree she seems hard to resist. i guess that’s your karma for being racist and xenophobic, puta 😂.
no but most people outside of the us understand more than one language, but i’ll let it slide for your pea brain. but what point? what point did that prove? it added nothing to your story or side. lol just say you feel inferior to hispanic women and go.
i think you’re overreacting, like people are saying it’s not like she sent nudes to him. i also just think you have a distaste for her as a person genetically which is why you’re so hung up on it. if you’re worried, tell him. always remember HE is the one who owes you faithfulness, not her.
wrong. i said that because you seem like such a miserable person. if you don’t trust your man break up with him. why are you even in a relationship with someone you don’t trust?
She obviously wants to see if she can tempt him, and YES, I think it's inappropriate and in bad taste. However, there are a few other points here.
When you say "not all, but MOST are "like that"", precisely how large of a sample do you have that you've dealt with? 3 women? 4 ? You shouldn't disparage an entire group of women based on that.
And this right here - "my boyfriend is very handsome and has dark blonde hair so I have to be a little concerned whenever a girl does something like this." What are you concerned about? Do you not trust your boyfriend? Are you 'concerned' that your relationship isn't strong enough to survive other women paying attention to him? Do you think he'll just dump you for a hotter looking woman?
If he actually WOULD dump you simply for a hotter woman, you should be glad to be rid of him because he'll dump her too for the next hottie. But if he's loyal to you, then you need to check your own green monsters. How did your boyfriend respond to getting her pic? We know what you did.
I find it unfortunate that you categorize all these girls as "Latinas" and apply a stereotype to them. later saying MOST of them but not all of them kind of makes it worse tbh. Are most Latinas sending your guy pictures?
Is it inappropriate, ofcourse. Are you sure that your boyfriend hasn't somehow invited these girls to do this? Something he said or failed to say? If so I would think he's as responsible as the girls.
Now if you want to go further into the "Latina" situation.. can you elaborate on their origins? Mexican? Cuban? Puerto Rican? Dominican? Venzuelan? Nicaraguan? shit Spain? There's 100s of Spanish culture countries all with their own culture and customs. Is it truly most Latinas?
Since she's a coworker. You don't really know what they were talking about at work.
The picture may have simply been relevant to a discussion they were having. Such as her asking how to take a good picture with a car. Then her sending this as a response to his advice. For further input.
A karen that knew she would be called a karen. This is a new step of evolution for karens. I wonder where they will go next. Probably no where though just like the ones who go, I ain't racist but...
You are reading too much into this and probably just don't trust your own man. You're trying to justify your own jealousy (and are probably insecure and worried about him leaving you). That's just my psycho-analysis, at least.
People don't care about relationship status if they want someone. He is probably not innocent here either. It's likely he is a flirt or at least a pleaser who wants everyone to like him. There is always competition for the hot ones, guy or girl. If you want a hot guy, you need to be prepared to for girls trying to steal him. Jealousy is really unattractive and will work against you. You would be better off showing him you are too confident for these girls to affect your relationship.
Some white men have a strong natural attraction to Latinas, Asians and other different types of women. It's similar to how your boyfriend would probably get nervous if a black guy was sending you a picture being that you're a white woman. Oh well, if your boyfriend honestly loves you, you'll be fine. Just don't underestimate those Latinas. Some of them like white guys.
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