Is it bad to be clingy?

[Anonymous]

and whats clingy mean to you? I've been told I can get clingy asf lol.

[serious]

Well just like how there is GOOD fear and BAD fear. In the same way a person can be clingy in good ways or in bad ways.

If a person is clingy is good ways then it is totally fine. It is controlled and does not stop the partner in any way from doing they love to do.

If a person is clingy in bad ways then it can become a real headache.

[Rei13]

It depends on the person. I think being a little clingy is fine and can be endearing, but you also need to be able to have your own sense of self and be able to do your own thing without the other person. There is good and bad clingy, but it can be relative where someone draws the line. Also there are behaviors some people will find clingy where others would not

[Ozanne]

I personally don't like clinginess in others. I'm not clingy myself. For people like me, who enjoy some distance and alone time, it's meant to charge my batteries and allow me to feel pleasure of seeing and being with the person again. Constant touching, being physically nearby, and in continuous contact at all times can wear on me quick.

[RingOfFire]

This is something younger women do. I remember lots of girls I dated being that way when I was in my teens and 20s. There is a good clingy and a bad clingy. Total dependency is the bad kind. The good kind is a funny, humorous, cute, light, girly kind that also respects that you don't want to be constantly carrying someone on your back 24/7.

[Anonymous]

Everything is relative. Clingy can be cute it can also be toxic.

Here's an analogy it's cute to say you love someone so much you wish you could get close enough to be in thier skin. Well it's another thing to murder them cut thier skin off and wear it.

Understand?

[BoopBoopBeep]

If it's to the point that people are describing it as clingy it isn't a good thing. Nobody ever used that word as a compliment

[Jkgordon]

Annoying behavior in a telationship constantly calling texting wanting unnecessary sttention are you a Scorpio or Aries?

[Asker]

aries

[Jkgordon]

You can’t help it. It’s by nature. I study astrology 😉try to find something to do with your time okay

[Phoenix98]

It's fine as long as it doesn't get out of hand.

[Asker]

whats out of hand

[Phoenix98]

For instance when you literally can't be away from him or he's not allowed to have his space and alone time.

Wanting to be around your partner is fine but you have to be able to give them their own time alone to. Not everyone wants to be chained to the hip of someone 24/7. You get what I mean?

[Asker]

yeah my man long distance didn't reply to me for 6 hours i freaked called him twice lol.

[Asker]

messaged him like 12 messages lol. But like we usually at max dont reply to each other after 3/4 hours

[Asker]

was out of character but i felt sooo clingy. I always do that and am always asking what he's doing. But i dont think its out of clingy its more out of we are doing long distance lets keep open communication

[Phoenix98]

And you know it also depends on what he's cool with to some people like super clingy partners and some don't. So if it works for you guys then great.

[DaBiggestBird]

I imagine it like a random 5 year old who keeps trying to talk to you while you’re on a long shopping trip at Win-Co.

[Nifrayu]

I was hyper clingy once. And because I was a woman who I was madly in love with blocked me and never reached out to me again.

[Unit1]

Clingy basically means you love to cuddle a lot. So do i.

[DextroShade]

A lot of guys like it because it means she has genuine desire.

[bannacookies]

Clingy people can be a sign of low self esteem, so I do not think it is good.

[Wise4myage]

Yes it is, because being clingy is the same thing as being desperate.

[whistlingwh0res]

white men are really into like older women who treat like a servant and humiliate on the street and abuse him.

[driven159]

some people like clingy some dont

[Anonymous]

as long as you wanna fuck me im fine with that

[Anonymous]

You are grown ass you don't know?

[Anonymous]

Yes & no… depends on how much you do it..

[Jamie05rhs]

No, it's not.

[Anonymous]

no..