Was I too quick to judge this guy from dating app on first meet up?

[Anonymous]

28F, yes I’m straight or if any other sexuality I’d be asexual. I download tinder 2 weeks ago & have been speaking to someone on it since. I took a chance & decided to not videochat/call him beforehand, lord I should’ve. He didn’t catfish me but I just got the vibe he is gay. He didn’t dress flamboyant, it was just the way he spoke. He seemed nice & after about 15 min I came to the realization that it’s tinder and I don’t owe him anything. The drinks took forever to come, I just told him I had a long day and something felt kinda off, it was nice to meet him, didn’t want him to waste his money on me & I dipped out. He was about to follow me out, I told him to stay put to make sure the waiter didn’t charge him but truthfully I didn’t want him to follow me to my car/look at my plate. He msged me after saying he wasn’t sure what happened & hoped I got home safe, I just deleted the app. Lesson learnt: moving fwd I’ll ALWAYS do a phone screening before meeting.

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[Avicenna]

Well, it's quite common after a first date to realize you don't want to pursue things with someone

[wallflower_fantasy]

Well that’s what the first dates are really. If you don’t like him that’s fine. If your not comfortable with anything then maybe you shouldn’t see him again. I feel you with the voice thing. As long as you knew what he looked like before, I don’t think it’s a big deal. You don’t have to talk to him if you don’t want to.

[Anonymous]

It's possible he tried to install the Grinder app and downloaded Tinder by accident.