So, i already wrote about us, we were together for 1 year. I had controlling issues, i suffocated him with my questions about what he talked with other people etc. I even went through his Phone once. But now i work on that issues. The problem is he doesn't believe i can get better. He said i ruined his life and put all the blame on me for a breakup. I only want one last shot. I Work on my insecurites with my therapist.