Girls, Confidence or Looks?

[Anonymous]

Can you please tell me why please.

I am usually more Attracted to a Confident Guy who isn't that Good looking because...

I am usually more Attracted to a Good looking Guy, who is Shy Because...

[jennifer_bloom]

So there are different types of vitamin B and there are different types of confidence. There are also different types of lack when you say somebody lacks confidence.

Some types of confidence are attractive, some types are neutral and some types are unattractive.

Some forms of low confidence are very bad, and some might even be good, like if a guy lacks gumption around you because he does not want to be too forward romantically or disrespectful to your thinking time, that is an enduring type of shyness.

But if a guy refuses to be honest with you when he owes you honesty, that is a form of low confidence that would greatly subtract from my interest in him.

But there are times where being slow to disclose information is okay or even sweet. Like a guy I dated was afraid to ask me for permission to drink his coffee with a straw cause he did not want me to be offended by his mannerisms, I thought that was adorable.