I’m 22F and unlucky when it comes to the dating scene, never had a boyfriend only with two guys who I got to a talking stage that ended before anything serious bc one of us wasn’t ready for a commitment or bc I found out he was talking to other girls, they both happened back in high school so I don’t think about those situations seriously, we were young and immature, ever since I started college I was more of a homebody and the pandemic didn’t really help with that, it was only until last year that I started going out and meeting knew people, some of them guys who have shown interest but it mainly seemed like it was just for something casual which i’m not really interested right now since i’m a virgin so I didn’t entertain it, basically what I’m asking is can guys perceive me as undesirable bc i’ve never had experience with men, I don’t even know how to act if I ever went on a date or how to respond to texts messages since it feels like years since I last continuously texted a guy, it also seems like I’m not believed when I say I actually don’t have experience and like my naivety is an act, I guess I just don’t want to seem awkward and that’s why I just avoid meeting guys, and I don’t know if it’s also something important to mention from the start that I’ve never had dating experiences before
Is it unattractive that I have never dated before?
What Girls Said
girl I'm 24 age is off on here. and we are in the same boat. I'm a virgin only had one boyfriend but that was long. No, guys think that nativity is sexy asf. I've talked to lotsss of guys and they all liked it but ere's going to be three types of guys who come your way. There's going to be the super respectful guys who are going to not want to overstep your boundaries and take things slow. There are going to be f boys who realize ur a virgin and then back off. And there are going to be guys (fuck boys) who just want to take your virginity and nativity for fun. I've talked to both. Fuck boys will pretend they are not f boys. I almost fell for that. Guys I talked to liked that naivity bc it showed I didn't just f around w anyone. I have standards. Just watch out for f boys.
Nope.