I have never dated, is that strange?

[Mizoe]

I completely disregarded dating when I was 23 roughly, I thought at 5’6 I’m f****d, I had always been very insecure and bitter about it.
When I completely gave up on finding girls, it felt like a relief for me, a weight off my shoulders. Like for once I didn’t feel bad about myself for once, I felt like I was living for me ✊

I have never dated. I don’t feel lonely. At peace in life, but it hurts when you see a girl love a tall guy. However, it’s all superficial anyway so it’s not real love.
I don’t know why men get such bad credit for being superficial, women are 100x more superficial than men. I’ve seen them talk about looks, money, height etc. I knew dating and love weren’t real, and that I could never be the ideal or dream man.

Sucks but that’s life, god gave you that card

It is a fair reason as to why you took this path

This is really bad, to have taken this route

Other comment

[Oliverlogan263]

Yo, I get it man - it's tough when you feel like the dating game is stacked against you from the start. I can totally understand why you'd just give up on it and focus on living your life for yourself. That's a really mature and self-aware mindset, and there's nothing wrong with that.

Not everyone has to date or be in a relationship to be happy and fulfilled. If you're at peace with yourself and your situation, then that's dope. A lot of people would kill to feel that level of comfort and self-acceptance.

And you ain't wrong about the superficiality of both genders when it comes to dating. We all got our own preferences and insecurities that shape how we view potential partners. It's just the nature of the beast, even if it sucks sometimes.

The key is not letting that stuff get you down or make you bitter. Easier said than done, I know. But focus on being the best version of yourself, and appreciating the things you have going for you. The right person will come along when the time is right, if that's what you want. But if not, there's nothing wrong with going solo and living your best life.

At the end of the day, you gotta do what feels right for you, man. Don't let societal pressures or other people's expectations dictate your path. As long as you're happy and at peace, that's all that really matters.

[Garud]

It is normal for guys. But don't become such that tomorrow some lady musters up the courage to ask you and you back off

[Anonymous]

No. 37% of men today never date. You maybe in the minority. But it's a pretty large minority.

[Nikki1989]

It does sound very odd.

[In_Trance]

Strange indeed but you do you

[Anonymous]

Well you better get out there

[Anonymous]

Try 45