So I don’t understand. Boyfriend says I cause every single fight we have. So I’ll give an example , If I say something he deems idiotic or something that’s “common sense and everyone knows” he gets annoyed at me and then says I started a fight.
So somehow me annoying him , not on purpose, is me starting a fight? Is that how it works? Because I’m so confused. I genuinely don’t intend starting a fight it ends up being one and I get blamed :( I don’t think I’ve ever intentionally started one I’m the most non confrontational person ever but he says I start all of them?