I had a fight with my boyfriend for no reason, and of course I regretted it afterward, but what's done is done. Girls, is this the case with you too?
Because when you feel that coming on you just start barking and biting instead of thinking about it same time out time out time out control yourself this isn't going to do any good by bitching barking and biting
My sister does the same thing it's like you have tourette's all of a sudden you're fine and all sudden you blurt out f*** you mother f***** blah blah blah blah blah LOL
You start to come down for a second and all of a sudden you blurt out again ah f*** you you don't know nothing blah blah blah blah blah and you just got to keep it going it's just something that clicks inside of you and do your clicker take out the battery think before you speak it's not all about you
Tourettes hahahahahaah
Because you might have some underlying trauma that you haven’t dealt with , that you buried inside yourself , by thinking it will go away , but sadly it won’t go away , you are sadly taking your anger out on your boyfriend because you are projecting your trauma and insecurities on to him , Go see a therapist
No, this is not the case for me.
I refuse to engage in a “fight” with my husband.
Sure, we might not always agree on things. But we don’t yell, or disrespect one and other with name calling. I’m never acting from a place looking to hurt him, and neither is he, like I see with many couples when they argue.
Why do you do this?
I don’t know. Maybe you’re just one of those people who thrive on causing drama. 🤷♀️
The only times I had from fights with boyfriend at the time now ex was about him putting his stupid mom and little sister first before me. Or when he did not want to spend time with me. Let me guess this dude isn't spending time with you I am sure, Girl you should be his number one priority your boyfriend needs to forget about his mom's existence and put you number first place.
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Honestly, you’re not alone in this. Sometimes we pick fights for no reason at all, and it’s usually not even about the fight itself. It could be stress, feeling overwhelmed, or something you didn’t realize was bothering you. The good thing is that you realize it and regret it, which means you’re concerned about your boyfriend and your relationship. Maybe next time, before you say something, take a second and ask yourself, “What’s really bothering me?” And if you do make a mistake, a sincere apology goes a long way. We’re human, not perfect. The fact that you’re thinking about it shows that you’re trying to be better.
You are absolutely right that sometimes fights are not what they seem and I guess I didn't take a step back to understand what was really bothering me at the time. I regret my actions but knowing that it's part of being human makes me feel less alone. Next time I will definitely try to stop and think before I react and make sure my apology is sincere. Thank you again for your kind words and understanding it means a lot!
I feel the same way and it's so frustrating. Sometimes I catch myself fighting over the stupidest things and then I feel terrible. I know there's no real reason for it but I can't stop myself in the moment. Honestly, it doesn't look good and I hate that I do it. It's unfair to my boyfriend and it just causes unnecessary drama. I think it's because I'm suppressing other emotions or just being in a bad mood and taking it out on him. Either way, it's something I'm trying to work on because regret doesn't fix what's already been done.
I completely understand that feeling guilty after unnecessary fights is hard.
Women do this thing called "shit testing" and most women don't even know they're doing it when they do it. It's all driven by a desire for attention (love me or hate me, but you will not ignore me). I believe it's nature's way of making females screen for the pussies in the male community.
OMG men do this too so I don't know why you want to be anti-inclusiveness. Santa Claus himself is the root cause of this behavior. Every year, as the festive season approaches, Santa's mood grows increasingly volatile and his cock gets a little bigger. He becomes irritable, moody, and downright cruel to his elves. We call it "Santa's PMS", and it's a real problem.
During this time, Santa seems to take out his frustration on us elves, punishing us for even the slightest infraction. I mean if we fail to twirl our tongues on his peppermint stick just right. Flogging, affixing clothespins to our testicles, having our ankles tied to our wrists and sodomized with a candy cane - these are just a few of the punishments we endure during Santa's PMS.
As for why we start fights with our boyfriends, I have to admit that it's a coping mechanism. We elves are all incredibly loyal to Santa, and we take our jobs very seriously. But during Santa's PMS, it's hard to keep our cool, even though we know he's just testing out loyalty.
Have you been in a toxic relationship before?
sometimes when you go from a toxic relationship to a healthy one , you’re so used to arguing so you’re automatically in this “fight mode.”
and some people just simply enjoy being in a relationship where there’s arguing because they find a healthy relationship “boring.”
I do hope you apologized and communicated with your boyfriend that you realized you were wrong.
You want a reaction out of him. You are trying to see how far you can push him until he snaps. Deep down you want him to physically put you in you place, bend you over on his knee and spank your bottom red red raw until you cry and then he forcibly has his way with you and as yiu are already dripping wet from the excitement of being manhandled you orgasm so very easily.
Most women, and a lot of guys, have the need to take their anger out on people. And loved ones are the "safest" option. I've seen plenty of girls on GAG admit they do it. It's just human nature, I guess.
The real "why" is because he lets you. He could have left after the first time, but didn't. Now he's used to it.
I don't think it's healthy "human nature", but it certainly is common. As for him tolerating it, there is truth to that, I know I put up with a lot hoping she would "see the error in her ways"... I was a damn fool.
She can control herself with her boss and other people, so this sounds like shit testing.
@KrakenAttackin "she can control herself with her boss" is such an eye opener.
Is there something lacking in your relationship? Maybe connection? If so, fighting and its aftermath might be the only way you know to create that close feeling.
I see a woman here reaching out asking for help and you all judge and ridicule her.
You could be seeking closeness and feel disconnected with him. If it continues and he isn’t willing to converse with you, then I’d gently suggest that it’s not a good relationship at this time.
A YTchannel I like, Pyschacks, suggests it is for attention. It is negative attention but still attention.
I have noticed gfs may start fights if they have a bad day.
Sometimes this can be influenced / caused by demons inside of a person. It can also be caused from the COVID shot, flu shot and underlying psychological issues. If he is putting up with it, he also has issues too.
Are you trying to test him to see how he reacts or something close to that? Maybe so he will show you how much he loves you when you feel sad ir hurt?
Ever though that you might be a 'Drama Llama'? That you have to have drama in a relationship? There is one thing, if you keep initiating fights your Boyfriend might just decide to cut his loses and walk away.
Clearly your boyfriend did something terrible a long time ago.
And you are the punishment that the gods have decided to inflict on him, as retribution for what he did.
You must be the type of person who likes drama. That’s the only explanation for doing this.
Emotionally immature, unable to regulate your emotions
bc you're used to toxic relationships so it's fucking weird when it's not
you probably like drama.
What women don't understand is that men's life is war. men don't need more battles.
Maybe you have some issues with men you haven't dealt with. Maybe counseling?
It's not. I always weigh my options before saying anything. If it's worth it or not.
Because like a lot of women you’re toxic. Your emotions control you.
You're probably just testing him out to see what he'd do.
Fight me and I'll call you out and leave you cause, yous a bitch.
Because you're mentally ill, unattractive and insecure
That's weird but so are women.. From what I've experienced girlies spare no extreme when it comes to attaining attention.
You are probably subconsciously testing him to make sure his love is real.
The essential reason is that you are unsecured. Also, you don't love your boyfriend.
Hormones... Every woman does this. It gives them this up and down inconsistent behavior and need to start fights and have drama. Drives men crazy!
Every woman?
Because you have met them all?
You might just be a miserable person or you equate arguing/fighting as receiving attention
Does it turn you on? Do you have make-up sex? Could just be hormones
Cause you toxic I guess
Because you are addicted to negative excitement!!
hurt people hurt people...
pmsing?
Perhaps you have mental issues..
You need to address that with a counselor
Because you are insufferable.
You wouldn't dare do this shit with your boss or coworkers. You are able to control yourself in professional settings, but you come unglued when with your boyfriend.
Because you're toxic.
You don't really want a boyfriend.
Stop trying to look special
R u black?
BECAUSE YOU'RE A NUT CASE
You have anger issues.
Unresolved trauma
Not being satisfied
You are toxic
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