GUYS, Is this clear enough?

[Anonymous]

I have a new weird work schedule and have off Wednesday and Thursdays. Hung out w the guy I’m talking to like threee weeks ago on Thursday while he was working (he works from home). Today I asked him what are you doing today Mr? Sometimes I’ll ask this to see what he’s getting into at work- he replied he’s basically training and has long meetings. I don't know if that was clear of me asking to hang out so I replied get it done boss, you going to be busy all day? And what’s the training for. He replied “I’m not sure and explained thoroughly what the training is for”. Should I ask him again, but if he wants to plan something this weekend? I work on the weekends but get off around 1pm.

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I’m not used to initiating any meet ups

[Billlewis]

It sounds pretty clear to me.

[Asker]

That’s what I was thinking. Do you think he was blowing it off?

[Billlewis]

A lot of times, a guy will arbitrarily decide that he doesn't want to work hard enough to continue the relationship. It can happen in a split second, and then it's over. I'm not saying that's what's going on here, but it's a possibility.

[Asker]

I recently didn’t respond to him to see if he would continue silence or text me and he texted me. He’s confusing

[Billlewis]

Just let him come to you. Don't pursue him at until he demonstrates that he's serious and not wasting your time.

[Asker]

He mentioned he wants to take things slow. I just like you said don’t want him to waste my time. I will definitely slow down on trying to pursue him.