Guys, Can someone help me understand this?

[sd1223]

Ok so my ex has me it clear to me that he is not in love with me, right? He still tries to want to meet up for sex right? I'm down because I miss it and to be honest it's good sex. Well he keeps saying that he doesn't want to mislead me since he still deals with another girl. They have some weird thing going on, like on and off. So if he has made it clear that he has no feelings and he wants me sexually what does he mean about misleading me? What's there to mislead me about?

[GreenLanternI0I]

Ok, since you guys came to a mutual conclusion that there will be no relationship between you two, there will be no emotional love involved as well and that he has a G. F. He is basically saying to you when you be having sex, do not get your hopes up that things might get back to the way the were before, you being a couple again. That's what he meant when he told you do not get misled when you be having sex with him. He is making sure that there is absolutely no smoke in the air between you two before proceeding to an intercourse.

[Anonymous]

Because you're still looking for some relationship from him and he only plans on using you as his personal fuck toy.

[sd1223]

Y’all aren’t getting what I’m asking. I’m not looking for a relationship because he already said how he feels about me. I know if he contact me that he wants to have sex and I’m fine with that. We have a mutual understanding that it’s just sex but he keeps saying he doesn’t want to mislead or play me. I just don’t get how he thinks could do that when I know what it is.

[Opinion Owner]

Because women are almost never able to separate sex from emotions, which is why he wants to say up front that he plans on using you like a hooker.

[Wise4myage]

He's using you. What else is their to understand?

[sd1223]

Didn’t ask that. He keeps saying he doesn’t want to mislead me? If him and I know it’s just sex with no feelings what does he think he’ll mislead me about?

[Wise4myage]

Have you asked him?

[sd1223]

When I asked him he said because he’s still dealing with this other girl. I know about her for months already but it still doesn’t really answer my question. I don’t see what one has to do with the other. We have unattached sex and I know nothing is coming from it, there’s nothing to mislead?

[Wise4myage]

He might feel guilty for some reason, because he's having sex with that other girl too.

[sd1223]

That’s why he said that he didn’t we needed to as of right now, he said he didn’t think I would want I’m to sleep with that girl and then turn around and do the same with me.