How do you make it up to your partner?

[Anonymous]

So after a fight how would you make it up to your partner? I have gotten my partner a few small gifts , non expensive. He doesn’t want any dates, doesn’t like me cooking him dinner, doesn’t currently want sex. I don’t have a lot of options and I ask him he doesn’t know either.

[RespectfulGuy]

Yes, you did the right thing to buy him gifts, but too many.

All you need is one, plus sincerity.

And all he needs is to show you his sincerity and return in kind.

Him not accepting dinner dates nor sex shows that he could be a petty person or already lose interest.

Its time to lay the cards bare. Tell him your desire for a restored relationship. And let him know it'll be good if he accepts the invitation to be a couple again.

Be open, be honest, be sincere. And tell him "I really hope you know..." (express your feelings) and "and I really want..." (express what you want from him).

If he loves you enough, then the conversation should end well. You may proceed to go for a meal or have sex.

Otherwise, well, it's time to move on. You did enough.

[Dantezam]

Maybe a weekend getaway, or some activity that shows how much you are driven to make things work.

[RoseySarah]

What about sweet notes hidden away?

Video message for him to keep of how you feel for him?

Marriage or boyfriend or living together?

Wallet?

[Asker]

He doesn’t want anything romantic. We’re living together , boyfriend.

[RoseySarah]

Then that is a very bad sign.

Is he mad so he does not want sex or just not really wanting sex?

Try a small fun thing like a joke that he will find funny? Mug maybe?

Space?
Really bad when the guy does not want anything maybe he is thinking of ending it? Just not ready to

[jahaims]

That isn't healthy behavior