Am I tripping or what ( this married guy) not sure if likes me or what’s in his head but his friends be saying stuff like oh he loves you?

[Anonymous]

I keep telling his friend that he is married guy with kids his like yea I know, than his other friend is like ohhh you better not invite him to you’re future wedding he will ruin it etc so clearly I am not imagining things if his friends see it themselves at first I thought maybe I’m just overthinking but other people see it too, what’s going on with him, and he be watching me etc is he Messing around or his friends know something I don’t

[teamvic]

For some people, marriage doesn't stop people from wanting others. It also doesn't stop them from pursuing them either

[Asker]

Why is that? There always has to be a reason behind it

[teamvic]

Most likely because they're not truly happy in that relationship. There's a difference between. Being happy and just being use to the cycle and the person. I believe most people haven't experienced happiness. They just think they have🤔

Have you seen the percentage of divorce for first and second marriages? You should look it up

[Asker]

He married his high school sweetheart and even have video up of them back in days so if he has all that up and on Facebook posting how blessed he is to have a family etc why shouldn’t he be happy

[Asker]

What’s the reason behind posting stuff

[teamvic]

Well if he was happy would his friends be telling you he loves you?🤔

As weird it sounds you can care about someone and like them but still have desire for other people. It doesn't make much sense but like after you've been with someone for so long you care about them but there can still be that they're not in LOVE with them. Like for example I use to talk to this girl right. We got along pretty well. We had feelings for eachother and she meant so much to me and I did want to be with her. But also there was this other girl that I knew before her, that I always thought she was the perfect girl for me. Now I never cheated or anything cause we never dated but what I'm saying is I cared about the girl I was talking to so much. But I did still really like the other girl

[Asker]

Yea but if he ain’t happy he needs to do something about his marriage

[Asker]

Bc I feel like his lustful

[teamvic]

You're not thinking,🤔 from all angles, why leave his wife just to pull you, theoretically of course, if he can just stay with his girl and pull you🤔 that way he can keep that steady dose of pussy from his wife but also get some extra on the side

That is , as I said, if that's what he's truly going for

[teamvic]

Not all guys are like this, so I don't want you thinking that's how it is, but you have to understand that some guys do think like this so you gotta be aware of intentions

[Asker]

You think
He tryin to sleep with me

[teamvic]

I'm not saying he is but if I was in his situation and my friends were telling you i loved you it could be very well be that I was tryna get in them cheeks. I say for now don't assume because all we are doing is speculating but do be aware of it you know🤔

[Anonymous]

Why would u entertain any of this rubbish