Married guy said he likes me?

[Anonymous]

Please don't judge me too harshly but there's this guy and yes he's very married with kids. We became friends a year ago. We were hanging out the other day and he said he really likes me. 😍 I've liked him for as long as i've known him 💔(never told him tho, for obvious reasons. See above) he's very friendly, sweet, beautiful heart and quite handsome.
Now, i want this man, more than i've ever wanted anyone else and he wants me but something always stops me from ever going through with our plans. Why?

[BCRanger10]

Why? Because you have enough of a good moral sense and self-respect to honor his marriage and his children.

You ought to build on this. Do not put yourself in a situation where you could cross this line; i. e., do not be alone with him, do not flirt with him or allow him to do so with you, and so forth. Hope with joyful anticipation for a good relationship of your own with a man who will love and cherish you as you so desire. DO NOT have this man as a model.

If necessary though, you might consider evaluating whether this friendship should even continue.

[Asker]

I cut ties with him, so, no. Nothing will continue

[BCRanger10]

I think you made the right choice then.

[Anonymous]

Because you know it’s wrong regardless of whether or not his marriage is in shambles. You don’t want to be the other woman as far as why a man left his wife and children. Not blaming you 100% if he did cause he’s just as responsible of not more. But you need to make sure first what’s going on w his current marriage. If he’s set on leaving then he needs to do that first before you two move on cause it’s going to be one major hell of a storm. What if his wife doesn’t feel the same way he does? Maybe she’s still in love w him and won’t let him go just like that. I think you two need to figure that out first. I know that feeling of having butterflies, wanting to hold his hand, kiss, etc, but this needs to be dealt w first.

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

Married guy so shouldn't matter how much he says he likes you.. I'm sure he told/tells his wife the same thing... Nothing good ever comes from getting involved with someone already married or in a relationship with someone else...

[skyeee_]

because he's married?
and pls dont even think about it lol, if he says he likes and wants you then he's basically cheating on his wife and when u both get together he could be cheating on you too, sooner or later.

[Mitt15]

I think you should find love in another person , as he is already married with kids and you saying yes to this person will put multiple life on the verge of destruction , his wife and kids will hate you for this , also who knows he may he finding multiple girls for pleasure and then hurt you.

Better to find someone of your age.

[Anonymous]

"Please don't judge me for actually contemplating being a homewrecking piece of shit."

Sorry girl but you're garbage if you don't just turn your back on that cheating asshole. Women like you are every bit as bad as men who cheat.

[Asker]

Harsh truth 😂

[Avicenna]

You obviously know you can’t have anything romantic with him

[Iron_Man]

Very bad stay completely away from that lifestyle