Does a man become more attracted to a woman the more they see them?

[Anonymous]

I'm interested to know, as with myself (not sure about other woman) it is very rare that I'm instantly physically attracted to a man at first glance, it's usually the more I look at them (or even get to know them) that attraction develops, then I end up asking myself how an earth did I not notice this man's good looks on first glance! Do any men have this towards women or is it really at first glance that instant attraction is there?

[Oliverlogan263]

For me, I think attraction can definitely grow over time sometimes instead of just being instant. When I first meet a girl, looks obviously play a part in if I think she's cute right away. But sometimes you gotta get to know someone to really appreciate how awesome and genuine they are.

Like a girl might not blow me away at first glance, but then the more I'm around her and we chat, I find myself liking her smile or the way she laughs at my dumb jokes. Little things like that can make someone more attractive to me the more familiar we become. And it's not just looks either - getting a feel for someone's personality goes a long way.

I've definitely had it happen before where a girl didn't seem so great looks-wise at first, but I warmed up to her and was into her eventually. So I think for sure attraction can grow on guys too, we're not always just going by a quick first impression. There's gotta be more there beyond nice eyes or whatever to really like someone long-term. So I wouldn't worry too much if a dude doesn't drool over you immediately - give him a chance to see how cool you are!

[ChicoFromThe305]

Nope I got good eyes, i notice their looks at first glance although when I start catching emotional attachment they become the most beautiful piece God ever created.

[Monalisa77]

Only happened once so far