Are women actually attracted to men?

[Anonymous]

ok so my question is are girls actually attracted to guys? They say they are but lets go over things they find attractive in guys..
a. Power (wealth, influence, confidence)
b. How he makes her feel.
C. Humour.
so none of that is really specific to males? Are they attracted to guys or just what the guy offers?
also these days every girl is bisexual showing that men aren't really what their attracted to but personalities.
so is there ever a time when girls are attracted ot turned on/ crush on guys first or is it just guys that experience this strong of attraction to the opposite sex?

[Anonymous]

America is a society that is drenched in narcissism. As such, American sexuality is very much influenced by this self-absorption. However, it is also a society that caters to women – it is society that is centered around female interests & desires. What often gets confused as male privilege is the fact that women are supremely interested in alpha males. Feminists would characterize this interest of women in alphas as male privilege, but what really is going on is that women are sexually attracted to alphas, so, clearly, those males will get great levels of exposure in society and media.
You see this in feminist circles with bitter fights over beauty standards, careers and relationships between men and women. Lesbian feminists could care less about heterosexual women getting the men they desire – they don’t want to be judged for being ugly and unfeminine. They try to pretend they care about gendered oppression of beauty standards, but they really just want to change those standards for their own homosexual benefit. The fight between these camps is narcissistic and grounded in their own sexuality. Lesbians get the benefit of ignoring male sexuality; heterosexual women cannot ignore male sexuality if they wish to have an actual sex life outside the confines of their own imagination.
The sexual hierarchy in America is this:
Alphas > Women > Betas > Omegas
For the purposes of this expose, alphas refer to men women find sexually attractive, betas are men women consider settling material and omegas are men that never get laid.
Alphas don’t have to be narcissists, but they do have some of those qualities because of being so privileged by female sexual adoration. When a person is subject to so much positive attention, it stands to reason narcissism can develop. Often times, though, narcissism doesn’t develop. What often develops is an abundance mentality that results in a more indifferent approach to women. The narcissism of women, however, radically alters the sexual hierarchy.
Women seek equality with alphas by trying to become alphas themselves. They want to have their money turn men on, they want their snark and independence make alphas salivate to for them. They want to work beside them in high status professions – think Boston Legal and Grey’s Anatomy. They want crowds of fans rocking out to their live music. They want adoring alphas wearing their sports jerseys and come to their games and cheer when hit the trey.

[Opinion Owner]

A problem of the first order is the approval they get from beta/omega males and females. Women appreciate female approval on a superficial level, but they know it is often fake and is so ubiquitous that it is boring and expected. As for betas, let’s set them aside as they are post-carousel material. Omegas are repulsive not just sexually but are a reflection of dark days for women. Most modern women has thrown herself at some retreating alpha, offering up her body as a salve to a failing relationship. Deep down, they know they spend way too many resources – emotional, financial & temporal – trying to keep said man around.
This is applicable to omegas because the rank desperation reminds them how unattainable alphas often are for them – omegas sometimes are a reflection of a woman’s position vis-a-vis alphas. Further, they remind women of the lengths they would go for alpha approval by the lengths omegas will go to secure female approval.

[Opinion Owner]

The other problem is the fact that alphas are not sexually turned on by provisioning ability, confidence or social status. Women are often bitter and disappointed because alphas don’t care about that. Women have been falsely told that everything they have gained since second-wave feminism have made them more attractive to men. It hasn’t. The realization often makes women justifiably bitter. Women haven’t become alphas, they have become the betas they settle for.
The other issue is that if women get what they claim to want and get this approval from alphas, they often lose attraction to the alpha. Imagine some alpha husband wearing WNBA player’s jersey to her games regularly– where do you think the arc of that relationship is headed? Sure, it is possible he has that much hand, but it isn’t probable.
Let’s talk about sexual marketplace value as it relates age and weight. The pool of alphas is fairly steady. The marriageable ones and the one’s that will marry will dwindle quickly.

[Opinion Owner]

Women at 35 are likely to find a 50 year old divorced alpha with no desire to father more children. Which brings in age; women are often forced to consider beta males as mates as they age. Which brings in betas.
When confronted with the reality that they have the mentality of a beta male or an omega coupled with their increasing inability to have sex with lesser alphas, a woman has a serious identity crisis. You get later in life lesbians, single mothers, women flying to Haiti for sexual adventurism. Think a “Stella Got Her Groove” back situation. The carousel riding ends here. What begins is long process of female self-delusion that very much tracks a female compensatory narcissist/male codependent relationship.
Women need serious levels of social support and self delusion to make a beta palatable. Some women are direct about their lack of love for their man, however that is usually after the valuation period.

[Opinion Owner]

Facebook, Instagram and other forms of social media seriously aid women as she can publicly claim her beta is different and is a real man because he cuddles with her and confesses his deepest fears to the her. What he doesn’t know is he is setting up a codependent/compensatory narcissist relationship with the woman. As such, the storm clouds gather.
The woman will sleep with the beta, romance him and make him feel loved. She acting out the beginning of relationships with alphas. The marriage engagement is a huge candy bar for her hamster to gnaw on while the her blood is starting to boil. It starts to come out during the engagement with anger about the wedding plans, with the beta comforting her and reassuring her that he loves her. She knows that that’s why she is marrying you – she can control you knowing you need her more than she needs you – she knows you will always be there to assuage her ego. The wedding will be a calm before the storm once the honeymoon ends.

[Opinion Owner]

The beta will think the wedding stress was the cause of the relationship issues.
The marriage will go downhill quickly. Sex will dry up and she will become increasingly critical. She will demand declarations of love and worship. She will begin to only treat him well in public and being to treat him poorly in private. She will often use sex as a weapon and sometimes physically abuse him. Unable to comprehend the problem is his lack of alpha, he will blame himself, beating himself up for not being supportive enough, not listening to her, etc. The gap between her own perception of her attractiveness to alphas and her attractiveness to alphas in reality will fuel how badly she will treat her beta.
Look at that the website Askmen. com – it is one massive beta indoctrination program. Women need to know men are reading that, in the vain hope alphas will become more beta and betas stay beta so they have a class of men to settle for.

[Opinion Owner]

This utilitarian approach women take to men have biological roots, but understand it is exacerbated by American psychology. Alphas have serious privilege and women resent it. The sexual revolution for them has been a large negative. A huge plus in college and right after, but women quickly realize it is bad that society does not force alphas and greater betas into marriage. Notice the constant preening rhetoric of how important the social gains are for women.
Yay careers! Yay not having to get married! My fancy degree means more than a man! Men are scared of my accomplishments! Ugh, I am so AWESOME!
So, uh, where are the hot boys?
This is little more than the self-absorbed preening in order to convince themselves that this whole scheme has been a net positive for them. It hasn’t. As usual, alphas benefit supremely.

[UnknownXYZ]

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I enjoyed that read. Well done.

[amphet11]

Lol at anyone who believes women are heterosexual, they are all bisexual, they consume 2.5 times as much lesbian porn as guys and it's is by far the most popular genre of porn to the female demographic (pornhub statistics,). "straight" women are also literally more aroused by the female body than the male body, indiana. edu/.../Chivers_Seto_Blanchard_2007. pdf (read that, it's scientifically sound proof). Playboy once did a test where women where aroused by a lap dance by both male and female strippers, while men where only aroused by female strippers.

Most women will make out with other girls after minimal alcohol, and will be willing to do sexual things to another girl during an ffm threesome.
Normally the thing that makes a girl want to have sex with a guy will be non physical, non gender specific traits and will need these non gender specific traits to feel sexual attraction to them in the first place.

Female sexuality is fluid while men have a hard wired sexual orientation. Anthropologists say women don't actually have a sexual orientation, just an amorphous mess based off sexual narcissistic self affirmation.

Disagree with me if you want but there is far to much evidence (both scientific and anecdotal) to consider heterosexuality the female default, look up female sexual fluidity and see that anthropologists and neuroscientists agree with me (well I agree with them). Women are more visually attracted to themselves auto-erotic and are closer to being lesbian than straight if you are being pedantic about it.

[amphet11]

There is no antithesis to this work, as i said disagree with me if you want, but there is to much evidence to the contrary.

[Shorty1991]

For about the hundredth time. There has to be a balance between looks, personality and compatibility. Unless you want people to start basing it on looks alone and have more relationships built on sand. Looks alone are fine for one night stands. Anyone with half a brain would know that there's more to people than just their looks. I've seen plenty of attractive guys with nothing going in behind their eyes. I get fed up of guys who always expect me to make the first move because they can't do it. I act on my own interests, I don't take shy guys by the hand.

[Asker]

Ty for ur response:) out of curiosity are u straight/bi?

[Shorty1991]

Why are you interested?
FYI I'm straight

[RJGraveyTrain]

I never cared about wealth, I am physically attracted to:

Physical strength. He doesn't need to be able to bench 400 lbs but seeing a dude who can handle a heavy box is hot.
Toned physique.
Dark features.
Uniquely handsome faces are my weakness.
Shoulders and arms.

Nom, nom, nom, nom...

... Where am I?

[Asker]

Ty for ur response:)

[PrincessPanda]

I like how a more built mans back look in a shirt. How it's all form fitting and usually tight around the arms too. If a shirt fits a woman like that it would be weird.
I like the masculinity in general
Rough hands
5 clock shadows
Deep voices
Etc

[Asker]

Ty for answering:)

[PrincessPanda]

You're welcome?

[Asker]

This question may be random but are you bisexual? Or straight?

[PrincessPanda]

Straight. Why?

[Asker]

Just surveying xD thanks for your responses :)

[Youdoyouboo]

I'm attracted to personality mostly and not going to lie, looks too. Anyone who says they don't care about looks is a liar in my opinion, lol. Humor to me is one of the most important things. If we can't connect with the same humor then it's weird. I don't like someone who is way too sarcastic they make me feel retarded sometimes. Money does not mean a thing to me. I'm not a materialistic person at all so when guys try to woo me with gifts and fancy shit it's actually kind of a turn off. Girls are attracted to guys of course. Personally if the guy has some of the physical traits I like (obviosly does not have to be perfect) and has a nice personality with great sense of humor then I like them.

[Asker]

Ty for ur response:) out of curiosity have u ever been attracted to another woman?

[Youdoyouboo]

Nope

[JiminsHoe]

Dude
what the actual fuck
I don't give a single shit about power/wealth/status/rep
Yes, humor and a good personality are super important and add to his attractiveness
but i'm high key so attracted to guys, their jawlines and their backs, their broad shoulders, muscular legs, their deep and meaningful eyes.
Your logic is pretty delusional.

[Aeon_Flux_21]

You are a child. Once you turn 21 you'll want tall rich high status guys just like 100% all women want. You can't free yourself of evolutionary instincts that are deeply programmed into you. ALL FEMALES WANT THE ALPHA MALE.

[JiminsHoe]

And you would know how? @Aeon_Flux_21
You can't see into the future nor do you know my personality.
I'm not trying to brag in any, way, shape, or form but i've grown up in a very wealthy family, sure that could be why I don't care, but "alpha" does not mean powerful or wealthy, to me "alpha" means a leader, and a leader is not one who wears expensive jackets and drives a lambo, a leader is one who has compassion and cares for his people, who is willing to sacrifice himself for others, and be brave, even in dire times. And I can assure you those who have high status and money do not have those qualities.
Stop selling yourself short and stop having the mindset that a. women are shallow and only care about those foolish things and b. the only thing that makes a man a man is power or status or money. Because both of those are deeply incorrect.

[Asker]

Ty for ur response:) out of curiosity are u straight/bi?

[JiminsHoe]

@Asker
i'm straight lmao

[Anonymous]

Is this a serious question, or are you just a troll? Of course women feel lust too, how do you think sex ever happens? I've never in my life thought "Oh what a kind/funny/well paid man, I must get him into bed!"

Anyway, I'll answer the question (and I'm 100% straight by the way, you've been watching too much porn), obviously I'm not going to list the obvious things like good hygiene as they're a pretty basic requirement.

Here are things I find attractive in a man, in order from most sexy to least sexy:
1. Skinniness - not just a nice skinny body but a face with nice cheekbones and sharp features.
2. Spiky hair, not the best way to describe it, but when you kind of gel it up, I like that.
3. An earring, although tattoos and piercings generally are quite sexy.
4. A good dancer.
5. Nicely dressed, not necessarily smart, but stylish and looks good.
6. Nice aftershave helps!
7. Smiles a lot.
8. Takes charge, not in a bossy way but actually plans dates etc.

[Asker]

Ok so i agree with a lot of what ur saying but the part about women feeling lust as well, in my experience women only experience lust for someone their really close to which doesn't count as being attracted to the person because then the things i mentioned above are the cause for it

[Opinion Owner]

Of course women feel lust, we find men attractive, even strangers. I feel lust when I meet a man who's my type. For example, I have a crush on a friend at the moment, but we're friends mostly because I thought he was gorgeous and went to talk to him first. And as I also said, the things you mentioned have nothing to do with attraction for me.

[Asker]

Thank you for your response:) I honestly wasn't aware women experienced lust in a way similar to guys

[Opinion Owner]

You're welcome, I hope it's helpful :)

[NexAngelus]

this is a very interesting question. as i feel the OP is correct in a lot of people focus on the above things, yet girls here seem to think a face is super important i have heard now on many different places. i know when u are getting ready to ahve sex with a girl u dont throw money at her or tell her jokes to get her wet. so u have the "feelings" which u can't really say anything about in a solid manner anyway because they can feel what ever they want at any time. but my point is that they must be physcially attracted to u to have this kind of reaction to the guy during sex. if the girl wants to turn the lights out and has no or little reaction, then ya she might not be physically attracted to u. and while every girl is different, they do seem to ahvea general LIKE to some things which u can normally work on to improve ur looks if u care that much.

[Scrambledagain]

I have been questioning this myself too. I have always been friendzoned for who I am for my entire existence. I am finally getting some attention but is it because I'm earning money now? Or am I some consolation prize for a woman who wants to settle?

I will never believe (because I have enough evidence for it) that a woman is attracted to who I am. It's more like what I have to offer only. That's why I'm very comfortable around sex workers and I would love to be with a gold digger. I at least know where I stand.

[supernerd99]

yeah probably desperate 30+ year old cougars that want to settle... . but it could be you became more confident.

[cth96190]

Women are hard wired to be attracted to resources, in which, in the modern context, means money and power.
Until they are about 25 to 30 most females are in the grip of the bad-boy phase, so they will pick the most worthless POS whom they can find, just to piss off their father.
Once they grow a brain and move out of the bad-boy phase, the attraction to resources kicks in. This is an instinct that is the result of millions of years of evolution.
It is as simple as this. Way back when, the woman who chose the best hunter and warrior as her mate would be more likely to survive, as would her children. Eventually, that became a hard-wired evolutionary preference when mating.

[MixedGirlBL]

I don't agree with your first or second observation. For the sake of argument, let me grant the first. The second is sometimes true, but only for women that are at the top (whatever society at the time considers attractive/hot etc.) and know it---i. e., Melanie Trump marrying Donny). The women at the top will sometimes go after the "best hunter and warrior." Most other women settle for something in-between, i. e., not the best or the worst.

[Anonymous]

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[Asker]

Ik ur joking but there is actually abit of truth to what im saying...

[Opinion Owner]

Oh, thanks for telling me what I like, I didn't know that. I thought I found men attractive, lucky you put me right!
What about pizza? Do I like pizza, or do I really just like the cheese?

[Asker]

I wasn't saying ik what u like better than you, i simply meant u gotta admit the things above are mainly what women find attractive expecting you to give me your opinion on it

[Opinion Owner]

There's more to attraction than personality. That's just one part of it. Use your common sense. How do girls have crushes on guys they don't know if what you say is correct? Why would guys try and get hot for girls? Why do so many guys say girls are shallow and only like guys with perfect bodies? Why on earth would they even have male strippers? You make no sense. Guys are so dumb when they try and say what girls want or what girls like. It's like when guys say girls have no idea what they really find hot and we always get it wrong when we point one girl out.

[Asker]

Ok 1. I didn't know girls got crushes on random guys just by looks.
2. I assumed guys tried to get hot for girls was because since guy's are visual they assume girls are as well.
3. I mean guys say girls are shallow but usually don't realise it's not the hot body they look for but rather the things i listed above
4. And as far as i'm aware male strippers are barely a thing, all the girls I've spoken to have said male strippers don't turn them on at the slightest.
Please correct me where u feel i'm wrong because this is just my experience and im curious to know urs

[Opinion Owner]

I've already said it, so why are you saying please correct you where you're wrong. All of it. As I mentioned above.

[Asker]

Out of curiosity, have u ever been attracted to another woman?

[Opinion Owner]

Don't be gross

[FutureMee]

Dude that's just extreme paranoia on your behalf. Most women are attracted to the opposite sex. Yes there is lesbians and people that are bisexual out there but the majority are attracted to men. You paint this picture that women aren't deep and have no morals so they just go for materialistic and shallow traits that a man can has. This is a horrible way to look at women, in fact women for the most part are more emotional and go by their emotions more than men so why would they want to be in a life-long relationship with someone who doesn't offer them the emotional connection they crave but only offers them materialistic love?

[archiz]

Ewwww guys are repulsive :/
I prefer women in general 😘😍

[Toad-1]

*gets sex change* 😉😉😉

[Asker]

Want a medal?

[archiz]

@Toad-1 hahaha 😉

[archiz]

Naw a trophy :D
Gimme gimme 😛

[ADFSDF1996]

I knew it.

[archiz]

@ADFSDF1996 then you deserve the trophy!

[ADFSDF1996]

I don't know what you are talking about.

[archiz]

@ADFSDF1996 ok
so you know what?

[ADFSDF1996]

What are you talking about, you're off topic.

[archiz]

@ADFSDF1996 eghh
you said: I knew it
what do you know?

[ADFSDF1996]

That women don't like men.(I think you are being sarcastic).

[archiz]

@ADFSDF1996 exactly
I like men

[ADFSDF1996]

Really?

[archiz]

@ADFSDF1996 oh come on now
why not?

[ADFSDF1996]

At first I thought you actually liked women but I'm glad straight women are real.

[SuitAndTie]

So you like women eh? ***gets popcorn ready***

[Onecurse]

On facebook you have a boyfriend. So you just haven't cum out yet?

[archiz]

@Onecurse arw tou high or smthng?
Cs I don t... lol

[archiz]

@SuitAndTie lol you enjoying this? 😛

[archiz]

@ADFSDF1996 i am bi curious actually

[archiz]

@Onecurse 13 year olds shouldn t swear lol
and sry I was half asleep on my phone XD
I was asking if you were high
are you? :P

[MrMysteryMan]

Oh archiz... *smh

[MrMysteryMan]

I have to agree, I definitely prefer women as well.

[SuitAndTie]

Let's just say my mind is going places 😉

[ninja9898]

C'mon of course they are attracted to guys. Haven't you ever hung out with more than one girl at once and hear how they talk to each other about guys? They are the same as guys in the sense of the opposite sex; they like attractive men and yes they like sex just as much as men too. Women are just unfortunately judged differently by society so they aren't as blatant about such things as men are.

[cmale123]

actually girl hornier than guy

[AngelDenna]

some girls like guys for their personalities and their looks but some girls do look just for personality honestly to me they can have a good personality and not be that attractive and they can be attractive and have a good personality or the other way around and have a horrible personality

[Asker]

Ty for ur response:) out of curiosity are u straight/bi?

[AngelDenna]

im straight

[LoloWaye]

Are you asking if we're physically attracted to men like how men are to women?

I know for certain I am. When I see a very attractive men it's like I'm captivated and I can't stop looking. I feel a pull towards him but idt I would call it sexual. Maybe.

However all that other stuff can make me even more attracted to him, or to a man of didn't find that attractive physically (maybe).

[Asker]

Ty for ur comment, i didn't know women experienced attraction like that as well. Also out of curiosity are u completely straight?

[LoloWaye]

Yes I am

[Anonymous]

Yes woman are attracted to men. :) All the other things are just traits and luxury. When you wipe wealth, confidence, and power away all that is left is the person. I think there's a general attraction to the person first meaning the man before the traits and etc.

[Asker]

your the first women I've ever seen admit they are attracted to looks at least a little

[Opinion Owner]

You misunderstood what I said. I just reread what I wrote and I see how you misunderstood me. I was answering your question as far as saying naturally/biologically women are attracted to men, that's how most of us are wired. That's what I meant when I said "I think there's a general attraction first", meaning biological attraction. Because you asked if women are attracted soley to a man itself excluding the wealth, power and humour. I say yes.

Women are attracted to personality traits, and etc. But looks are not everything. At the end of the day all that matters is that the person is genuine and has a good heart. I think a guy who really genuine and is kind hearted is attractive. A person can be attractive or not but if they don't have a kind heart and is genuine then it's not attractive.

[ASEXY]

Yeah, if they're straight/bi... I've had plenty of women being attracted to me because of my looks. I guess they're just not attracted to your personality or your looks...

What is OP's IQ?

[Mrwoo99]

A study was done that 80% males were unattractive to all women and only the top 20% men were the ones in demand or chasing. 80% of males are either charged (hard cash) or rewarded (gifts, drinks, energy, dates, time consumed, hard work and entertaining her etc) with sex but the top 20% get it for free.

[Chico_brah]

So here's where you logic fails. If your theory carries within it any consistency.. why do ugly men have less casual sex? Why is that a total loser with good looks will most likely have more sex with more women then the ugly successful guy?

[NexAngelus]

and where did u come up with that at? u dont think that the guy with money can either buy sex or things that funnel in girls? ur logic is so flawed. plus only so many people want to have sex with a cute poor boy. kids now adays are so materialistic its sad.

[Chico_brah]

@NexAngelus Men who have to pay for sex are completely irrelevant. The question is if women are attracted to men. Prostitues are not fucking that guy because they find him attractive. They are fucking him with intent to to make a transaction in which she earns money.

I'm not denying that status and power are attractive traits. However, to say that women are not attracted to men completely is absolutely irrational.

[NexAngelus]

dude what is a date? hookers are much cheaper versions of gfs

[Chico_brah]

@NexAngelus Yeah, but that's irrelevant to his question.

[NexAngelus]

no its not. because im telling u gfs are hookers. u just are not looking at it. the ugly guy can do what he wants because he has money and power. the poor cute kid can only do so much being cute, especially in todays age. it has everything to do with this question. people just dont want to look at it in this reality because it hurts their feelings

[Scrambledagain]

The logic doesn't fail here. I know beautiful "losers" who don't get laid. I have a friend who was an fhm model who only has had 2 girlfriends. Conversely I know an ugly guy now who has 3 girlfriends in a poly group. 3somes and group sex are his norm. And some of the girls are pretty hot.

I think both of you are correct and wrong at the same time because none of this is black n white. I do believe however that a confident/dominant personality with looks is what seperates those few men blessed with that, from the rest of the men.

by the way There is no logic in love and sex.

[Chico_brah]

@NexAngelus First off, I've had girlfriends and they were not hookers. I've never had a lot of money in my life but have always managed to find dates.

The reality is that money is just an asset. No 9/10 bombshell woman is going to hookup with some ugly/gawky looking computer programmer at a club because she saw him pull up in a Mercedes. That girl is going to be trying to mess around with best looking dude there.

Money is even bigger asset when it comes to marriage but we are talking about basic attraction here. Why is that the hot girl at the club is never hooking up with ugly guys? Because they ugly guys carry less sexual attraction. Therefore the women are attracted to the hot guys. I mean, this isn't that hard to grasp.

[Chico_brah]

@NexAngelus People who think like this are living in a false reality. It's like an internet conspiracy. My cousin is a model and makes a lot of money doing it. She literally the postergirl of what beauty is.

Fun story.. I went to a bar with my buddy, my cousin, and two of her friends. Some guy rolled up in a Maserati obnoxiously loud and we were at the patio at the time. He walks in the bar and you can tell that this guy already looks like a fuckhead. He approaches us all and starts trying to start a conversation. He slams his mazarati keys on the table and starts throwing this weird banter in attempt to make us laugh. He took things too far and I told him to back off.

[Chico_brah]

@NexAngelus We had a conversation right after that I won't forget. Three beautiful women who actually make money off of their looks were telling us how weird and creepy that guy was. They wouldn't touch him with a 10 foot fucking pole dude. They were repulsed by him. They shared countless stories of guys trying to hit on them by showing off money and guys trying to impress them by buying them fancy shit. They said it's pathetic when a guy overcompensates with money. They absolutely despise that behavior. Rational women want security in a man that can provide, everything else is dependent upon a person elsewhere.. not just his wallet. The irrational women are the ones who only look for money.

I mean this is ridiculously delusional. To say that women aren't even attracted to men. Smh.

[NexAngelus]

true or false, while i will lean towards false, thats a couple chicks. and i can give someone a couple bucks and they make money off thier looks, so background information is kinda moot. the REALITY is, MOST women will go where the money is. denial is what ever stage of what ever. and this is like guys talking shit about the fat chick and then all taking turns out back fucking her. those chicks all want their shopping money, and all they need is to blow him for a days worth of shopping... yaaaa 10 foot pole my ass, those girls want some new shoes. plus a lot of people are getting this stint now where they have to have "stimulating" converstation. two beautiful people normally dont have two rocks between their brains. gottta get it from somewhere. so many holes. this is macho talk to the max. and what people do behind doors is totally different especially when they lie to their friends faces.

[Scrambledagain]

I hate it when a person is judged as stupid just because they are beautiful. I know some very intelligent and beautiful people.

But the bottom line is that rich dude was a fuckin idiot. That wouldn't work on most people.

But that said the core of this is that for women, physicality per se isn't what makes a man attractive. Yes many times it can, but it's a small part. I group all then shit into one attractive trait: power. When a man has power, he is attractive. Even a Star Wars nerd will get the Star Wars babes if he is the guy organising the Star Wars parties and events and hosting etc. But to be that type of guy you need certain traits and often, money to make that work. And it's those traits that make the dude attractive. You could take the exact same looking guy and make him an introvert for example. He won't get laid. Take those traits away and he will struggle. he becomes unnatractive.

[SovereignessofVamps]

I do like all of those things... but then again, what makes him attracted to me? He doesn't know me either. So he likes me because of those things too. And also we're attracted, because we think the other is sexy. How are guys different...

[Asker]

Well guys aren't attracted to wealth, power, confidence nor are we turned on by how the girl makes us feel. Men are turned on almost solely by the woman's body where as women aren't turned on by anything strictly male

[SovereignessofVamps]

With all the guys not working because they're gfs and wives support them, I don't think so. And we love hot guys.

[Anonymous]

Women simply hate men. It is as simple as that, they are raised to think we are the evil patriarchy and must compete against us in every way to prove they are better, matter of fact is they are so insecure about controll and power that the idea of even giving a man some power over them in their life is terrifying.

[Vero123]

B and C are factors for me. Money never did matter to me. I am attracted to appearance and character.

[Asker]

By any chance are u also attracted to girls?

[Vero123]

No I am straight

[xCutesyLolitax]

i dont really care about A, and i kind of care about C, but to answer your question, all I know is that I'm never attracted to girls and only to guys so yeah i know i definitely am

[Asker]

But are u ever attracted to guys beyond those things? What about the actual guys appearence?

[Anonymous]

Women are romantically attracted to men and sexually attracted to other women.

The only people who are sexually attracted to men are gay men.

Women by nature find the male form bland and unarousing, and they find male genitals repulsive and threatening.

These are just facts of life. Men are only worth what they do and achieve, whereas women are valuable simply by existing and doing nothing.

[WhereIsMyMind]

Physically? Yes. It's happened a few times where I've found someone really attractive

[Asker]

A few times only? Everyday guys find girls physically attractive

[WhereIsMyMind]

I don't really walk down the street and think "oh my god that man is gorgeous" most men I just think are average.
Sometimes I see someone I think is very attractive, but not that often.
But then it's more complicated than that because I could see someone I find average but find one or two things beautiful about them. 🤔

[Asker]

This is random but are u bi or straight?

[WhereIsMyMind]

I've been bi curious in the past, but I don't see myself in a relationship with a woman (but you never know). All in all I'd say I'm straight.

[amphet11]

bi curious is by definition bisexual and romantic attraction whom you date etc. "I don't see myself in a relationship with a woman" by very definition has nothing to do with SEXUAL orientation. You are certainly bisexual.

[Anonymous]

Women are attracted to a small percentage of men physically (~20%). Usually these men are over 6'0, nice face, muscular etc. For the remaining men, women are attracted to what you can do for them, and not really u as a person.

This is life.

[SoFeckinAddicted]

Yes. We're just not attracted to you.

[Asker]

So u honestly think women crave men as vice versa?

[SoFeckinAddicted]

Yeah.

[Asker]

Are u attracted to men physically tho or just the things i listed above?

[SoFeckinAddicted]

Physically if I find them hot

[Jamesol1]

this girl trolls on every thread. crackhead lul

[SoFeckinAddicted]

@Jamesol1 why are you stalking me?

[Love_Is_Eternal]

you are delusional

[SoFeckinAddicted]

@Love_Is_Eternal like your mom?

[Love_Is_Eternal]

moron

[SoFeckinAddicted]

@Love_Is_Eternal burnnnnnnnn

[Youdoyouboo]

Omg lol your profile pic and this commet. Gold.

[SoFeckinAddicted]

@Youdoyouboo hahaha ❤️

[Youdoyouboo]

lmao :P

[Love_Is_Eternal]

asshole

[Love_Is_Eternal]

fucktard

[Jamesol1]

I'm not stalking you lol. Every other post I read your on there commenting shit.

[mostwomenshouldstfu]

This is so stupid. Are guys on this site getting retarded? Am I in danger?

[ADFSDF1996]

I hope they are. Feel free to look at my questions and takes, some of them are similar to this question.

[Anonymous]

Ya. The things you mention are phase 2 - how you narrow down from phase 1, which is guys you find bangable in a general way.

[Asker]

So u are attracted to guys beyond those traits i mentioned?

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah. First comes attraction, then comes deciding if those other things are good too.

[Asker]

Out of curiosity have u ever been attracted to anither woman?

[Opinion Owner]

Not sexually. I've admired many women's kindness and other traits, but they don't sexually interest me.

[SoloStarGazer]

Everyone has a different attraction, there are guys who say that stuff is attractive as well. I like a hot guy that has all 3 of those traits.

[Asker]

so a hot guy will have some bonus points?

[SoloStarGazer]

Yep yep yep

[Asker]

Is is random but are u bi or straight?

[SoloStarGazer]

I would say I am bi

[Asker]

Do you typically find guys or girls more attractive?

[Rawrzz]

Ultimately, the only reason anyone likes anyone is because of what they can offer them.

[Anonymous]

There is such a thing as a guy being so physically grotesque that almost no woman would ever be with that guy. That suggests that some type of at least minimal attraction is required.

[Asker]

But its not really "attraction" on that regard because its not attracting you to them, its just simply willing to put up with someone not ugly that the things i listed above are more important

[Anonymous]

Attracted to guys? Check.
Turned on by guys? Check. Although not very often.
Crush on guys? Check.

[Asker]

Are u also attracted to girls tho? And is the attraction physical or just as listed above?

[Opinion Owner]

In real life, no. But I have watched and used to like lesbian porn. Although for a while now I'm really way more into gay porn.

I haven't been around guys much to be turned on by them often though, so..

[amphet11]

"used to like lesbian porn" then you are bisexual

[Opinion Owner]

Well, it's not that simple. I've had plenty of female friends and I've never been turned on by them in any way. I think it's mainly the taboo aspect that I like, which is also why I think I've been so into gay porn. The thoughts that go along with what they're doing is more important than what the people look like. I've been turned on by two animals doing it once, so that proves that.

And let's not start with the fact that quite a few men have said they like the penis, but are otherwise attracted to women. Then, the fact that many men have gay sex while claiming that they are straight and being in relationships with women. So, don't go pointing fingers at women.

[amphet11]

"the fact that many men have gay sex while claiming that they are straight" I have never heard of that, and they certainly aren't straight (and Them saying they are straight certainly doesn't mean they are right). Your sexuality is fluid you will be aroused at anything pleasuring a pussy (a man can get aroused by a blowjob scene but it would have to be a women sucking that dick for them to be aroused). It's (your sexuality) amorphous and can't be considered heterosexual. You can look it up further, all women are basically considered bisexual, anthropologists say women don't even have a sexual orientation just an amorphous mess based on narcissistic sexual self affirmation. indiana.edu/.../Chivers_Seto_Blanchard_2007.pdf read that and do research on female sexual fluidity.

[NexAngelus]

@amphet11 she might be refering to when guys make the comment about other guys sucking their dicks and closing thier eyes ;) being not gay lol. since its the same thing lol. but i would agree having gay sex and being in a normal relationship or just saying ur not gay does not mean u are not gay. being turned on by another dude means u are at least bi sexual. the whole bj thing u can close ur eyes and think of a hot chick sucking u off :) hehe. that is only weird not gay. and i also agree that most chicks seem to come bisexual out of the box. chicks are just beautiful creatures and they understand each other very well even when they are being mean to each other. why would chicks not like each other?

[bloodmountain1990]

Yes women are physically attracted to men. They have standards just like us men do with women.

[Anonymous]

No we're all lesbos obvs

[Asker]

Ik ur joking but its a serious question... can't deny there is a bit of truth to what im saying

[Anonymous]

Unfortunately, women are attracted to men.

[Asker]

For what we have nothing specific to "men"

[Opinion Owner]

You are delusional if you think women are not attracted to men.

[Asker]

I think women are attracted to certain men with certain qualities but then again women are also attracted to other women so i don't think it's anything special

[Opinion Owner]

Women are attracted to hot men, just like men are attracted to hot women.

[Asker]

But also hot women tend to be attracted to other hot women as well:/

[Opinion Owner]

O_O No, they are not! Were have you been living?

[Asker]

Where i live most girls are bi so i just kind of assume all girls are bi or bi curious deep down. Also the media doesn't help lol

[Vivaldi]

They are attracted to handsome, tall, muscular guys.

[Anonymous]

what the guy offers. definitely. mostly emotioanlly and materially. and then by being hot aesthetically.

[Opinion Owner]

if you know any "game" you'd know that only with lies you get women. its an idealistic persona they make in their heads that they fall in love with

[LittleSally]

The straight ones are.

[Asker]

1. I don't actually believe striatht girls exist tbh, in my experience and where i'm from every girl is at least a little bisexual and finds girls more attractive physically.
2. Its not really the guy they find attractive but the thing i listed above.

[LittleSally]

No ONE is 100%straight... Guys or girls.

[Asker]

I mean ik its on a spectrum but i am honestly 100% straight, i admire the male physique but i am in NO WAY sexually attracted to another man.

[LittleSally]

I'm the same way... still not 100% gay...

[LittleSally]

*straight (nor gay...)

[amphet11]

All women are bisexual, most men are straight. indiana.edu/.../Chivers_Seto_Blanchard_2007.pdf

[LittleSally]

@amphet11 Mmmhhhmmm Whatever you say.

[amphet11]

I am sure i have said you aren't attracted to gender specific things before, do you even know the semantics in play to consider yourself straight.

[Shorty1991]

1. Bullshit! But believe what you want.
2. You sound really naive, of course looks come into it but we base it on more than that when we are looking for a serious relationship.
Anyone who just has their looks to offer and nothing else going on are just empty shells.

[writer1000000]

I don't think you should say all women er bisexual

[Asker]

I honestly can't think of one girl ik in real life whos just straight, I don't know there are prob a few

[writer1000000]

why do you think they are bisexual

[Asker]

They have openly told me or others they were, maybe its just my areas but I've pretty much grown up assuming all girls are bi or bicurious deep down.
Seeing things on the media/tv also hasn't helped with these assumptions

[writer1000000]

well... if most women are bi, men must be too

[Asker]

Actually no, Men and women vary when it comes to sexual fluidity.
Men are turned on almost solely by the woman's body but women aren't turned on by anything strictly male (which i'm sure u will agree)

[Mazout]

True. Research shows so called "straight" women are not turned on by images of naked males at all, whereas they did get turned on by images of naked women.

You can claim omen are bisexual, but they are only physically attracted to other women while being only romantically attracted to men. The only people sexually attracted to men are gay men.

[amphet11]

All women are bisexual and probably closer to being lesbian than straight.

[writer1000000]

If these are your opinion then who am I to say otherwise, but you should know that is not what the real world. In any case I'm out. I don't want to argue with narrowminded people.

PS. If you want to use 'research' for an argument, you should properly

[writer1000000]

*Read the whole studie first

[amphet11]

Read my original opinion on this question

[sp33d]

Are you f* serious? -.-

[Curlybeauty17]

Um yes of course.

[Asker]

In what way tho?

[Curlybeauty17]

Physical masculine features, like men are attracted to physical feminine features.

[Asker]

In my experience men are more attracted to feminine features than women are to masculine features, I don't know attraction just seems stronger from guys

[Curlybeauty17]

I guess it depends on the person.

[Asker]

Out of curiosity are u bi or straight?

[Curlybeauty17]

Straight.

[Tanisha69]

Sometimes.

[Asker]

What do u mean sorry?

[Tanisha69]

Sometimes not always

[taytay10133]

wow i don't know

[Asker]

What dows that mean?

[taytay10133]

i never thought of this

[Asker]

Well what makes u attracted to guys? Is it ever w guy's face/ body or is it the things I've listed above?

[datgirl]

Yes. We are.

[Asker]

In what way tho? Physically or just the not gender specific traits?

[Asker]

Also out of curiosity are u straight?

[datgirl]

Yep, 100%

[CT_CD]

No...

[Asker]

Agreed

[ShaeNielson]

Oh boo hoo.

[Asker]

Don't cry:(