Would you consider yourself a people pleaser?

[Lisia]

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+1 y

Why or why not?

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+1 y

Definition : someone who cares a lot about whether other people like them, and always wants others to approve of their actions <- it's kinda toxic in my opinion but I'm also one so I can't complain 😅

[Still-alive]

I used to be a major people pleaser always wanting to make everyone happy. But it would often come at the cost of my own happiness. And no matter what you do or how well intentioned you are with your actions or words someone somewhere is still not going to like you for whatever reason.

so i just learned to only truly care what those closest to me think about me. And make those i love happy. I generally still like making people around me comfortable at least but if there's a person i just don’t like or can’t get along with i am no longer shy about letting it known. Its more honest that way.

[AmeerX]

Definitely not a people pleaser. If I had been one I could become a pretty good player. I prefer genuine people and expect people to voice their real concerns instead of trying to make things sound sweet

[Lisia]

How it should be! ☺️

[AmeerX]

It has its down sides though. You don't have a line of people when you are in the popularity contest haha ha like I care about it.

But at least I feel alright with it 😄

[Anemone978]

I used to be really bad for this.. Not knowing how to say no to friends and things like that.. but now I just don't care enough to please anyone and just tell it like it is..

[Ms_Facesitter]

No. I am considerate and understanding. But isn't that normal behavior?

[scooogy]

Yes and no. Lately I felt a bit bad to blurt into a friend's face that my college wasn't for free like other students were used to. I felt like sounding too harsh, saying "yes, I do pay money for it". But on the other hand I wouldn't care for others to know everything about my college life just because they'd show interest in it.

[exitseven]

nope, outside of my wife they can all kiss my butt.

[Lisia]

How it should be!

[exitseven]

😊😊😊

[Billlewis]

Oh, I definitely am. The only thing I'm really interested in is pleasing as many people as possible.

[andreasderjuengere]

The opposite, rather.

That's what makes me trustworthy in the eyes of the customers I didn't piss of.

...

yet :D

[DryGermanGuy]

"I'm too old for this shit."

- Roger Murtaugh, Lethal Weapon

[nudeNhorny]

nah honestly, couldn't care less, take it from me, people are so difficult to please, better concentrate on pleasing yourself.

[Anonymous]

Yup, 100% and I apologize for things that I shouldn't because I feel like I should.

[Chewy______]

Just the people I manage at work. I'm there to serve them, not the other way around as most supervisors tend to believe.

[LiamJHayden]

No. I won't lie to make others happy, but I do not go out of my way to make others upset, either.

[Mynameisbobby]

I used to be when I was younger I wanted kids in school too like me.

[Anonymous]

I think others would classify me as that. I don't think I am. I just think I'm decently empathic. Also I'm only going to try to please someone if I feel it benefits them.

[Yannae]

Oh no. I look at what's good for me and loved ones. I won't suffer for somebody else's happiness.

[Worst]

Yeah besides women lol can't please them emotionally or sexually

[LunarEclipse433]

I try to go out of my way to please people even to the extent of my own loss.

[LunarEclipse433]

I really dont care if people approve of my action or if they like me. I do what I know is right and protect those I care about. Some people may not like someone but I make my own opinions about someone.

[eastcoastgirlie]

I a bit of a people pleaser. I'm always striving to my best so people will like me.

[ChicoFromThe305]

Nope, I actually think I'm can be too honest

[Lisia]

But that's good, there should be people like that around.

[ChicoFromThe305]

Well you see Lisa, I'd agree with you if it wasn't for the filter that I seem to completely lack ha.

[Lisia]

Yeah you might hurt people's feeling but at least if they want a raw opinion they can come to you

[ChicoFromThe305]

I don't recall anyone every goin like "give me your raw honesty, I can take it" lol

I'm working on it tho, I kinda got the hang of it... i think

[Lisia]

Lol I know I need some raw honesty sometimes seems my boyfriend and my friends seem to be too nice and it's sussing me out tbh 🤷‍♀️

But of course maybe an in between is the best

[ChicoFromThe305]

Well if you ever need the raw advice, I gotchu on that Lisa, since the boyfriend and the friends sus you out with the nice-ness or whatnot

Until then I shall try keeping it balanced, try as in nobody should get their hopes up.

[Lisia]

Hahaha okay! Good luck with that one

[ChicoFromThe305]

Thanks 💯🙏🏽

[eagle1951]

yes and no. I will help please someone to a point

[bowenw]

I would agree with that but within reason.

[Lisia]

Explain ☺️

[bowenw]

I tend to want people to like me so I usually go out of my way to try to please people.

[Nikki1989]

I try my best, but you can only do so much.

[KostasKouvalis]

I would say do, yes

[KostasKouvalis]

Yes, 100%😂

[Lisia]

Awwww 😅

[KostasKouvalis]

What?😂

[Lisia]

It's sad

[KostasKouvalis]

I don't do it in all circumstances, but yeah. I know. It's not good. I've somewhat stopped giving a shit if people dislike me, but I lost too many people because of it, so yeah... It's a complicated situation 😂

[boobliker]

no, I always upset someone at a party, never on purpose I speak the truth when poss.

[PrinceWalnut]

Nah I'm kind of a dickhead lol

[Lisia]

That's good! 😂

[Longshank]

Women pleaser, I’m so good at it! 10/10 in bed

[LoverOfBooty23]

You know I am all about pleasing @Lisia

[Lisia]

😂 right..

[LoverOfBooty23]

I am what I am

[Robzei]

I'd say less now that I'm older but yes

[ChefPapiChulo]

I can be sometimes.

[ChefPapiChulo]

I like you no matter what.

[Lisia]

Awe! Thanks ☺️

[Jennz6]

I try to be

[Bklynbadboy12]

Good girl

[Lisia]

Why?

[AmeerX]

Girls are supposed to be submissive and agreeable. Here is a bit of sexist thing but girls in a survival can't decide while camping to raise a tent while boys can do it because they are not trying to please everyone and don't care a lot about society

[clampfan101]

I’m a gentleman and enjoy helping.

[PeachesNCream98]

Yeah sometimes especially at work

[Jerre]

Yes I would. I love to make girls happy.

[riverrat3]

Yes when younger, not so much now

[Yellovv]

Depends on people..

[Anonymous]

I am and there’s nothing wrong w that

[Iron_Man]

I’m the peoples champion

[Bklynbadboy12]

Nope not at all what about you?

[Lisia]

Yeah I kinda am but I can stand my ground with certain people.

[LavLavLuv]

Nope