Why do I always feel guilty for liking someone?

[Anonymous]

If I like someone, I always end up feeling guilty. And I do everything to get rid of those feelings. But, they’re so hard to get rid of. I wish I knew how to stop having romantic feelings because I don’t like how it makes me feel.

[love_conquers_lust]

Don't ask such questions. Don't guilt trip yourself. When you find someone, that means you can't devote to someone else. That's on everyone else to respect your choice instead of resenting you for not choosing them.

I'd also like to know where some of the mouthy, snot nosed influencers are on this one.

[love_conquers_lust]

"SOME” not all being the operative word

[Anonymous]

Guilty as in feeling that you don’t deserve someone like that? Like pure jot worthy or something?

[Asker]

Yes! Exactly.

[Opinion Owner]

Do you feel as though you’re cute enough? Or is it something like you don’t feel as though you could offer a man what he’s want in a relationship? Whether that be cooking, cleaning or whatever the case may be.

[Asker]

The second part.
Also, I never had a good experience with men. They always looked at me as desperate. So I distance myself and they ignore me. Which has worked out for me.

[Opinion Owner]

Well I think you’d need to get some therapy to help you w this. Honestly there’s a lot of men out there, really good ones too but women can’t find them because they’re ugly. So women don’t give them a. Chance based on their looks. I don’t think it’s hard being w a man. Simple. My girl and I have been together 14 years. I work, she doesn’t. That’s what works for us. She takes care of the house, the dogs. Our kids are grown. She cooks. Does laundry, but that’s cause that’s what she chooses to do. She doesn’t make chaos for me. Sure we have disagreements but not like a lot of women seem these days. I don’t think it’s hard at all.

[Anonymous]

Why do you feel guilty for liking someone?

[Asker]

I just feel so desperate and I don’t want to be seen that way.

[Opinion Owner]

There’s nothing wrong with wanting to be liked back. You deserve to have someone who loves you as much as you love them.

[RedInnocent68]

Don’t feel guilty. You like yourself, don’t you? Life’s tough. Be kind to yourself. And don’t be afraid either. What’s wrong with liking someone?

[Asker]

I learned it’s not normal for me to like someone more than a friend. It’ll make me look desperate or a psycho. So I keep my feelings to myself.

[RedInnocent68]

Unlearn it. It’s not true, and perfectly natural. Sadly, life’s not fair, and we all live with the risk that you can’t always get want you want. Sometimes that like will not be reciprocated, sometimes circumstances prevent it from being reciprocated, but those shouldn’t be excuses to never put yourself out there. As the song goes, but if you try sometimes, you may find, you get what you need.

[Masterodd]

Well... Hey, how do you feel about me?

Are you feeling guilty?

[Asker]

I don’t feel anything

[Masterodd]

thats great! that means I can only go up from here.:)

[LiamJHayden]

I do not know why. You shouldn't feel guilty for that.

[eagle1951]

because you feel happy, and you don't think you should be

[Justina_432]

You are 31 and still single?

[Asker]

I am, yes. But, I have very good reasons to be.

[Justina_432]

Why , you want to live alone all life?

[Asker]

I do, yes. It’s better that way for me.

[dudeinohio]

Please just go. out with. the dude.

[Asker]

If I did like someone, that would be a very bad idea.