Should I wait for him?

[yaoooo]

I dated two months ago. We saw each other twice, and it was after the second time, I really got the feeling on him. But after that, things changed. I was a little out of control to reach out to him, and he did tell me he needed some space, but I did do something wrong and he is ignoring me now. He did like me before, and we talked a lot. We both like music and we sang the same song together, which really had the moment to be together. He tried to ask me whether I had feelings for him before, but I didn't answer him at that time. I know my behaviors were really bad, and he definitely doesn't want to see me at this point. But I still like him a lot. He unmatched me on the dating app, and after three weeks, I tried to reach out to him, but he still did not reply to me.

[kylee2437]

No. A man not reaching out to you is a huge sign he isn’t interested. You shouldn’t wait around for anyone that gives you signs of being less than interested in you

[yaoooo]

But will he come back to me? I feel he was interested in me, but I was not interested in him at that time.

[kylee2437]

Who knows, seems like you may have lost out.

[yaoooo]

ik, that's why I am very depressed now

[kylee2437]

Why he depressed? You should’ve taken the chance while it’s there. You aren’t entitled for anyone to stay around and wait

[yaoooo]

Things are going round. I just wish he would come back to me.

[kylee2437]

I mean wishing is great, but just soak in reality

[Anonymous]

Not continuing; in other words, waiting not only has a negative impact on your personal health but also signifies that the relationship will not have a healthy foundation.

It's not solely about fighting or striving for that thing. The right things progress in the right way, at the right times, and sometimes with uncertain steps.

What you are describing appears to be quite different from this.

[yaoooo]

I totally get it! I think I should move on at this point. Do not contact him anymore. I am just wondering whether we will have some possibilities in the future.

[Opinion Owner]

Wishing you to have an ideal life.

[yaoooo]

thanks!

[Avicenna]

No, you should move on

[yaoooo]

what if he comes back to me? I just wish he would, because of the thing we did together before.

[Avicenna]

That’s not going to happen

[Bethany22]

No you should not wait. He unmatched you on the dating app.

[yaoooo]

That's another story. The reason why I lost control of reaching out to him was because one day I saw he updated the pictures on the profile. And I did ask him if was he dating other people at the same time. I think it's my straightforward ask made him uncomfortable. After we quarreled, I changed my profile pictures and then he unmatched me, and at the same time, he changed his profile to the original one, which was the picture I matched with him.

[Jasmin01]

You should simply forget about him and, when it comes to the next guy, think carefully about what you want and do.

[yaoooo]

thanks! The advice is really great!

[EmmaMary]

Simply move on.

[eidkejeodnx]

move on

[In_Trance]

nope