Should I wait for him?

[Anonymous]

This guy texted me of my university and we gradually became friends and he confessed to me. But I wasn't really sure of him that time. Now I became sure of him and is ready for a relationship. But things has changed he isn't ready now and wants to focus on his career. He tells in future he can get into a relationship with me. But isn't giving me confirmation that he will truly get into it. He seems confused now. What should I do should I wait or move on?

[MissStrawberry912]

Never wait… but what’s his reason to changed his mind to not be ready? You can tell him you be open but you won’t guarantee you’ll still be single cuz you deserve happiness and someone who’s ready. Remember to assert your respect for him and respect to yourselfff with your standards because you want a relationship.

[Asker]

He is giving me hopes but cannot even tell when he will be ready. If it happens before it wouldn't be a matter but now I have feelings for him. Its so hard for me to move on. Its so tiring givimg so much efforts but not receiving any.

[MissStrawberry912]

Exactly girl that’s why I advise you this cuz I’ve been there and many girls go through this. So never wait if he won’t be ready and someone else can be ready to provide what he isn’t willingly to do.

[Asker]

Yes you are right. I hope I can move on but its so difficult for me once I get attached to someone. It is creating a problem on me moving on

[MissStrawberry912]

Same girl same. But just remember to think of your happiness and what’s best for yourself whenever you’re ready. You don’t have to say bye if you don’t wanna. You can also do the suggestion I shared which is you’ll be open if he change his mind and be ready but you can’t guarantee you still be single by then because you want someone who is ready and wants you.

[animesenpai]

Nah waiting for someone is time wasted in my opinion

[In_Trance]

don't wait