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I didn't see your new post link from the previous question you had... Thanks for posting. You need to talk like you have some self-esteem/self-respect, or just get some! Don't ask about seeming creepy and over text when she's not replying. I think she even agreed that you were acting "a bit" like a stalker! You need to be more laid back. You (honestly) come across to most girls as desperate, potentially a little creepy, and inexperienced (in dating). All generally turn-offs! Don't push for the selfie for finding one another... that's often a bit much to keep pushing one of you then her over and over with no reply. Just say something like "I'll know you when I see you!" - so you might have to ask a few girls sitting alone, but probably not. Don't offer all the options for where you're going to meet, just ask her or tell her where you'd like to meet up and say if that's a problem for you, there are other places with drinks!" or the likes! And for the love of God, if you can't get her name b4 the last sentence and she withholds it or falls asleep (right!) even if she gives you a pseudo-name, you aren't in good shape.
Sadly if she doesn't message you, you deserve better. I would be of the attitude of, she lost her chance and move on my friend. There are plenty of ladies that wouldn't treat you like she's bored just answering simple questions, then stand you up. I promise!
Best Wishes!
Did you read the two other answers and conversations?:)
I met her today and yeah I guess I was a little shy and awkward
Hi, you want to talk today?
What is a whisper app?
An app like GirlsAskGuys where you can ask stuff and random people can reply back
Mostly creepy guys haha
And can you give an opinion on what i should do on this situation?
You are acting way to desperate.
Thanks for telling me.
Like, it's just too much. It looks like you are super anxious which I understand. But she might not think that. I have a guy doing that to me right now and you know what I think inside? I think this poor ginger must get turned down often. It makes you look like you have zero options and haven't had a chance in a while if ever and it's like a dog chasing his tail. No offense to you.
Great description
I know it's blunt
Thank you for answering
Just do yourself a favour and tone it waaay down. Let her come to you at this point.
Yes thanks.
She hasn’t replied, oh well.
Forget it. On to the next
Oh my gosh, actually, we are meeting up. I had to be patient and we showed each other a selfie of each other and we talked about meeting up at a mall. (Shopping centre)
Yay 4 u good luck
Let us know how it went. It's a pop corn worthy love story now.
Haha, it is only a drink
But it could turn into MORE!!
*I'm doing a little dance put both arms out and bringing back in a circular motion over and over singing "anonymous asker is going to get some"
Haha, I get no female attention
I am seeing her in one hour and she is very bad at replying back.
I told where she should meet me and yeah, hoping she Doesn’t cancel in the last minute.
Thanks for the support by the way
I hope to see her, talk to her, hopefully I am taller than her haha and I hope I don’t look at other girls when I’m with her because that is a no no
I’m nervous actually
😊😊
Ya I like to see short guys as tiny but tough
Why? And I told her now, “remember to meet me in front of the Disney store in the shopping centre” was that ok? Or too clingy? I haven’t heard from her for four hours now haha
Anyway, I am going to travel to her now. Talk soon. I’ll have £30 on me this evening 😊
I’m 5’5 actually
"Remember to meet me infront of the Disney shop" dude, I'm picturing in my head you shaking your finger at her while saying that. Sounds like grandma. I'm curious what you look like. You need some help. I mean it in a nice way.
Thanks.
If she isn’t there by 6:20 pm I’ll leave the area
If she ditched try not to take it personally. She did you a favour. Trust me, no solid person would stand someone up.
I’m a little late
A few minutes late
I’m in the mall now but I’m going to the Disney store
I told her, “Hi, are you there already?:) and “I’m at the Disney store near Starbucks coffee”
Been ten minutes now, 6:10 pm and she isn’t replying.
I told her this now
I been stood up now huh?
6:13 pm now
I feel stupid waiting outside the store and etc
Walk away
In 11 minutes yeah I will
When you get home, I want you to watch Corey Wayne videos on youtube religiously
What? Why?
Because he knows his shit and it's going to help you with some self esteem and how to deal with women.
I.. i picked the worst place, so many couples walking in this mall here in east London haha
Should I message her saying, “okay you aren’t coming” because it has been almost 30 minutes now.
No. Don't message her. She s a bitch. If she was just late shed be respectful enough to give you a heads up.
DO NOT MESSAGE HER. You don't need closure. She s a flake. Walk away or you will look like a pussy.
She is probably a cat fish.
She probably smells like fish. Just go
I’m a 5’5 guy who came here at 6:05 pm, I was a few minutes late because of the London train
Ya well if i like a guy id be there.
This all should have been set up over the phone
I waited 30 minutes now. Oh well, this sums up my love life with girls.
Reframe that. You just had a shady bitch not show up. You are on the path to a better person
I did try to text her, her responses were submissive and she did follow what I said in responses.
I can’t meet new girls that want to know me it seems.
Sigh. Thanks for being here,
I appreciate your time. Now I know that shitty feelings girls feel who have been stood up.
After 46 minutes, I been stood up :)
Great today for me.
Ya for sure
She said should we meet at 8 and I told her I am already here
I hope you aren't getting scammed
I’m going to go eat something at the mall as I haven’t ate dinner until now, as she said, she only wants a drink so maybe me and her will get a coffee:)
I’ll be patient and I try to seem like a gentleman with her in person :)
Ok good luck out there
What a horrible day for me
Why now?
I decided her to give her a chance at she has to arrive by 8:10 or I’ll Leave
I have £20 on me, this is all my money.
I just spent £10 on buying a burrito to eat for dinner, a bottle of water and I am just sat here drinking a hot Chocolate now.
I have to wait 40 more minutes while my phone is on 40% now.
I dunno man. I would have been like fuck this
I know, I called my dad and he said it isn’t ok If i come home at 10 pm haha 🤦♂️ if only they know I’m in east London:/
She said to me in the whisper app “I hope I’ll be worth it” and afterwards underneath she say “it you don’t mind waiting for me”
The mall closes at 9 pm I saw online
Dude it all sounds sketchy as fuck. Probably a child molester gonna kidnap you. Gtfo
True haha
How do I treat her as a lady and show her she is worth it?
In a non sexual way.
And in 30 minutes she should be here
Thanks for your time and compassion
My phone battery is on 35% ah !!
I said to her, “Hi, I am near the Disney shop here in Westfield:)
Cannot wait to see you 😊”
Was that Sweet?
So after I waited two hours, I went to eat dinner and when I finally saw her today, we said hi first and then hugged. Which was good and normal.
We spoke about our selves. Our family, and I told her when we were walking and talking that I didn’t know where we were going jaja, I did enjoy talking to her, she said I seemed confident and I was annoying haha. I am honestly shy and awkward. We spoke about how often she gotten approached by guys, how often she gets to meet guys and I told her she was the first girl I met in person through the app whisper.
I was honest with her.
I only know three girls now and most girls don’t try nor bother with me.
She told me how she met bad guys before
So I think overall I did ok
I did average
You did good. Do you have anxiety or ADHD?
What is that? Adhd?
Hi, you want to talk today?
You Ok?
No and you?
I'm fine. What's wrong?
I miss this girl who I haven’t seen in many years actually
And by the way I should have taken your advice yesterday actually
Why?
Life didn’t let me
Let u what
Let me see her any more
Why?
She was my old teacher
Wtf..
Ok sorry
Don't be sorry to me. Your teacher is weird. This all sounds like ackward porn scenerio
You don’t know what exactly happened
No I don't
She was sweet and caring
I haven’t seen her in a long time now and I do want to see her again in life
Has she contacted u? How old are u? How old is she?
I’m 19 and she is 34.
And no she hasn’t
Did she know your age ahead of time?
As of today? I think no because I Haven’t seen her In a while
Not in many years
Like four years now
Could be awkward for her. It's a bit funny you never told her you are 19...
No, I knew her when I was 14
I'm talking before you met. Your story isn't adding up
I knew her a few years ago when I was 14 and I am
19 now.
I hope to see her again
Any thoughts?
I'm not much good right now to give opinions or advice. Do what u think is right
Thanks
Nice talking with you
No she asked
Should I wait to she replies to me?
Yah or maybe just put “so yes?” Or “is it on?”
I agree, what questions should I talk to her about in person? Because she will be older than me and I won’t stood her up.
How old is she and you, what she does like study and job and what hobbies and foods she likes ooh and pets girls love dogs
Apparently she is from 21 to 25. I’m 19.
And what the other girl said was a good description. I don’t know many girls and I am a little nervous.
I’m talking through where me and her should meet up because I thought it would be the correct mature thing to do.
Probably like 22 or 23 was then , yah she’s probs in schools or just finished maybe
Yah haha just don’t text so much you come off a little clingy like don’t ask when she’ll respond
So it wasn’t bad me asking her for a selfie just so I know who she is?
Just be careful if you go
No u gotta be safe
Ok I’ll try and I’ll listen to her responses on what she says. I won’t get my hopes up because this never happens to me, suddenly meeting a girl 😅
Just see that it’s not like an obvious pic from the internet
Oh haha well good luck
Why not?
Yeah, I want her to not be a cat fish haha
I have serious truth issues jaja
If i hope she’ll meet me I’ll seem desperate and too eager. I’m just talking through with her about where I should meet her but I understand if I seem creepy. She probably never met a guy asking her yeah where should we meet, what time and etc haha
Yah or she didn’t expect anyone to answer or maybe she’s nervous too
I did ask her if she wanted to see me too before I say good night, haha.
Anyway, if I meet her tomorrow, Thursday I’ll let you know and it would be nice for me actually if I meet someone new 😊
Yah okay haha , aren’t you in London? why goodnite I thought it was day over there
It is 4 am haha
And yes I’m in London in England
Oh bahaha I though it was like the afternoon cuz it’s 9 where I am
And if I do spend two hours or three hours with this girl I’d be nice 😊 I don’t meet new girls often anymore jaja.
Why not haha
Just don’t
Did she send pics
Well u should unseen nice and cool
You seem
I have a bad past. Girl hurt me, girl play games with me and many girls aren’t interested in me anymore. Girl play games and they’re evil bitches haha.
She hasn’t showed me her yet, she said she is a slow replier 🤷♂️🙄
But I’ll wait and if I do hear from her I’ll let her know I’ll be happy to see her tomorrow haha
Not all😂just gotta find the right one
I know.😕
Haha okay hope she answers soon
:) x
What’s an x😂
It means nothing tbh
Haha okay😂
X. .
Wish me good luck and wish me well
Haha yah I do and tell me how it goes tomorrow
If she replies back that is
Haha true but hopes up
Girls don’t like me tbh haha 😂 because I’m a little shy and I am awkward.
Some like that in a guy
Have confidence in yourself
Okay 😊
She hasn’t replied, oh well.
Oh my gosh, actually, we are meeting up. I had to be patient and we showed each other a selfie of each other and we talked about meeting up at a mall. (Shopping centre)
Oooh okay good tell me how it goes
Good luck
I am seeing her in one hour and she is very bad at replying back.
I told where she should meet me and yeah, hoping she Doesn’t cancel in the last minute.
Thanks for the support by the way
I hope to see her, talk to her, hopefully I am taller than her haha and I hope I don’t look at other girls when I’m with her because that is a no no
I’m nervous actually
Haha don’t be it’ll go fine good luck
Wear cologne
Why? And I told her now, “remember to meet me in front of the Disney store in the shopping centre” was that ok? Or too clingy? I haven’t heard from her for four hours now haha
Anyway, I am going to travel to her now. Talk soon. I’ll have £30 on me this evening 😊
I told her, “Hi, are you there already?🙂 and “I’m at the Disney store near Starbucks coffee”
Been ten minutes now, 6:10 pm and she isn’t replying.
I told her this now
I been stood up now huh?
6:13 pm now
Hmm yah probably , what time was she supposed to get there
6 pm and it is now 6:16 pm
How long should I wait? I did travel with my own money and etc
Wait till 6:30 if she’s not there then leave
I feel stupid waiting outside the store and etc
Sit at a bench or something, maybe something came up
I’ll try and wait another 12 minutes yeah?
I.. i picked the worst place, so many couples walking in this mall here in east London haha
Yah, and haha just ignore them
Should I message her saying, “okay you aren’t coming” because it has been almost 30 minutes now.
She is probably a cat fish.
I’m a 5’5 guy who came here at 6:05 pm, I was a few minutes late because of the London train
Yah text her but yah she probably is or was scared or nervous to go
I waited 30 minutes now. Oh well, this sums up my love life with girls.
I did try to text her, her responses were submissive and she did follow what I said in responses.
I can’t meet new girls that want to know me it seems.
Sigh. Thanks for being here,
I appreciate your time. Now I know that shitty feelings girls feel who have been stood up.
After 46 minutes, I been stood up :)
Great today for me.
Haha I’m srry, don’t worry you’ll meet someone soon
Did she respond
She said should we meet at 8 and I told her I am already here
So r u gonna go at 8? You could wait at chill at the stores for now
I’m going to go eat something at the mall as I haven’t ate dinner until now, as she said, she only wants a drink so maybe me and her will get a coffee:)
I’ll be patient and I try to seem like a gentleman with her in person :)
Okay good plan
What a horrible day for me
Just wanted t for her I bet you’ll have a great tim
Time
I decided her to give her a chance at she has to arrive by 8:10 or I’ll Leave
I have £20 on me, this is all my money.
I just spent £10 on buying a burrito to eat for dinner, a bottle of water and I am just sat here drinking a hot Chocolate now.
I have to wait 40 more minutes while my phone is on 40% now.
Ooh that sucks save your charge , and coffees aren’t that expensive so you have enough money
I know, I called my dad and he said it isn’t ok If i come home at 10 pm haha 🤦♂️ if only they know I’m in east London:/
She said to me in the whisper app “I hope I’ll be worth it” and afterwards underneath she say “it you don’t mind waiting for me”
The mall closes at 9 pm I saw online
How do I treat her as a lady and show her she is worth it?
In a non sexual way.
And in 30 minutes she should be here
Thanks for your time and compassion
My phone battery is on 35% ah !!
I said to her, “Hi, I am near the Disney shop here in Westfield:)
Cannot wait to see you 😊”
Was that Sweet?
Yah that’s good just ask her what she likes
I met her, she is slightly taller than me and it is all awkward now.
Should I kiss her today or no?
There isn’t a spark it seems
How’d it go
I think I messed up tbh
Why what happened
I spent like 40 minutes to one hour in the end
Was she cool and stuff
Kind of, but she didn’t seem happy nor interested around me
Was she pretty
So after I waited two hours, I went to eat dinner and when I finally saw her today, we said hi first and then hugged. Which was good and normal.
We spoke about our selves. Our family, and I told her when we were walking and talking that I didn’t know where we were going jaja, I did enjoy talking to her, she said I seemed confident and I was annoying haha. I am honestly shy and awkward. We spoke about how often she gotten approached by guys, how often she gets to meet guys and I told her she was the first girl I met in person through the app whisper.
I was honest with her.
I only know three girls now and most girls don’t try nor bother with me.
She told me how she met bad guys before
So I think overall I did ok
Yah u did
She said she gotten no vibe
I asked her to text me when she got home
Was that good from me as a guy?
I did hug her and I did ask her for a kiss in the end but she say no 😅
It was my first time In a while I met a new girl and she isn’t my usual type but she was cute :)
I told her now “I enjoyed the time with ya, it was nice talking to someone new and hearing about you :)
Thank you 😊
You deserve the credit and praise where it is due :)
You did great in listening and opening up 😊
You deserve to be happy in life and you are cute”
At least I’m trying and today sums up my love life jaja
So shitty
Haha no it was fine
She didn’t seem interested actually so hopefully I meet some new girls soon because I only know three girls whoa 😅
I told her how I met childish girls before who say they’re psycho but they don’t talk through problems
She clearly didn’t like me today but I did try my best and I think I showed her respect because I didn’t talk about sex? Just relationships, family, her life, work, and I told her she was an amazing person in person maybe too early but I was honest
Yah.
I’m going to stop taking to her because she isn’t interested and her responses show that
Yahh
What a shitty experience. She didn’t even want a kiss 🤦♂️
Well it’s normal most girls don’t kiss on first date
I wasn’t a date as she felt no vibe?
Well yah but still
Still.. I should avoid girls
No haha
I think I should tbh
My past.. girls played me, and i doubt I’ll find my girl this year. I should use 2018 to heal from
Pain. No girl 2018 for me. No girls 2018.
Haha
Today she asked me
To go to her area while
I was waiting in the words of “It will be my treat...” that sounded so sexual 🤦♂️
Did u go
I asked to come to the mall and we spoke in person
Okay bye now
You don’t want to talk anymore?:)
Nah me tired
So I can still talk to you tomorrow?
Maybe
Okay thank you
Send a pic of you
Tomorrow
Whyy
Jaja you blocked me 😊🙂🙃🙄
Then how would I text you
You blocked the username Nahid 🙄
I’m Naheed honey boo 😂
Anyway, nice talking and talk tomorrow
You blocked the username
Nahid on GirlsAskGuys señorita
Hi, you want to talk today?
Nice talking
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