Guys, Is 6’4 way too tall for a female? Why won’t guys give me a chance?

So I’ve been struggling with dating a lot and I’m so frustrated with my dating life. I’ve been rejected, hurt and have a date with a guy. We’ll it wasn’t much of a date because he said he had to use the ‘bathroom’, but 10-15 minutes later, he never came back. I’m 6’4 barefoot and yes I am a young woman. I was born a female and NOT transgender. One time a guy asked that I was boiling mad inside. When I wear my heels (for example my four inch heels) I am about 6’8” and people look at me like a freak. When my friends that are 5’9 and under wear heels nobody gives them funny looks, well they do to my 5’9” friend sometimes but that’s nothing compared to me.
I’ve went on dates, but I never had a second date until I met my ex boyfriend. I had a boyfriend that I dated for two months and he was into me a lot. He was 5’7” but he didn’t care about my height and we were in LOVE, until things went downhill. He started being distant towards me, cold, uncaring and insulting my height. He even told me not to wear heels and I’m trying to emasculate him and it was embarrassing. Then he started telling people that I’m his “friends” and later flat out dumped me.
i took myself out of dating for a while. He dumped me earlier this year. I do want to date a guy that’s taller than me but the taller guys seem to prefer women under 5’7”. Mostly shorter men hit on me but once in a while. I’m not shallow I’ve went on dates with shorter guys and my ex is shorter me. I mean hello! There’s some taller guys that showed interest in me, but don’t wanna be in love, they just saw me as a breeder and once said I could breed a basketball team. Anyways, for once I want to meet a man that will accept me for who I am and doesn’t wanna be with me just because of my height.

Guys, Is 6’4 way too tall for a female? Why won’t guys give me a chance?
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