Ladies, would you be interested in getting to know a short guy?

[ichig]

Say he's between 5'4 to 5'7, in his mid-20s. Hardworking and rich, with a good-looking face and a fit body.

Yes, I am taller than you.

No, I am shorter than you.

yes, I am the same height as you.

No, I am same the height as you.

[SueShe]

You guys only place emphasis on the hight and the body. That is such a turn off and no, I would not be interested to getting to know a short guy. Why?

Because you do not mention a single word about your character, personality and intellect. Those 3 assets are much more important to me than the height, fortune, looks and his job.

Once a guy tells me that he is has the required assets, then I would say yes but not before. I don't care if he is poor as a church mouse, weighs 200 lbs is 7 foot or has a job as a street cleaner. Those are not important to me.

[ichig]

Don't you first need to be physically interested in a guy? That will make you curious enough to find out whether a guy's personality and character are to your liking. I didn't mention personality as what might be considered good might not be considered for another lady.

Tall height is attractive no one can deny. I just wanted to know if other things make up for it.

[SueShe]

I am probably different from a majority of other people because to me, looks are unimportant. I am not attracted to looks but to the intellect of a person.

Of what use is a person that is tall but cannot communicate, is a toxic person or has no moral values?

[ichig]

won't a rich and successful guy signal some above-average IQ and EQ? Will it make you a bit curious to know about their personality

[SueShe]

Absolutely not. Most of those "rich" people have inherited the money from their parents or have gotten their fortune by doing dubious business. A young person that has a fortune is a red flag to me.

[ichig]

An intelligent guy can attain financial success at a young age through legal means too lol. I will assume that you find success to be an attractive quality

[SueShe]

Actually, I do not find success to be an attractive quality because more often than not, success means you have to trample over people. Successful people achieve their success by paying louzy wages and miserable working conditions for the victims.

[turnpost]

You should fap to AI, infinite intelligence and adjustable personality

[SueShe]

@turnpost pardon my ignorance, but what is "fap to AI"?

[turnpost]

Artificial Intelligence.

[turnpost]

I was jking you seem like a very nice girl. Thank you for being who you are.

[lilaccc]

can i add more option? bcs i chose this:
☑ yes, i'm shorter than you. lol

[ichig]

ah, I don't know how I missed it. Seems there is no way to edit the question.

Appreciate your answer.

[lilaccc]

it's ok. thanks

[enterr10]

How tall are you?

[lilaccc]

between 4'8-5'0 lol

[Billlewis]

I love it that women are so mean to short guys... lol. On another thread, one woman said, 'I don't hate them, I just don't date them'... lol

[enterr10]

That was an interesting statement

[turnpost]

@enterr10 this guy is a masochist long gone. Dont take him seriously.

[Yannae]

I asked some of my friends and they all said yes, so there is that.

[Billlewis]

Sure, they'll *say* that -- but barring something very unusual, when it comes down to it, the tall guy will be the one who's enjoying sex with every one of your female friends who told you that.

[Yannae]

I pick my friends carefully. These are honest, brutally so. They say it because this is what they believe. But these friendships are over 10 years old. Good, close friends. Not a ten year old name on a social media's friendslist. They're legit.

And my girlfriend is 6 ft without me being that tall so.

[Rei13]

There is too much fixation on height. I’m guilty of commenting on it whenever it has come to me buying clothes or using gym equipment since I’m really short. My boyfriend is 5’4 and it never crossed my mind about height being a determining factor of whether I would date him or not. If it was the most important thing there were guys significantly taller who like (d) me and I would have gone for them instead.

[enterr10]

What's your height?

[Rei13]

@enterr10 4’11/5ft

[enterr10]

Damn you are short yourself 😭

[Anonymous]

Definetly! I have a crush on a guy who is around that height and i didn’t really think about his height, as long as he's taller than me, even by 2cm it’s good.


Also sometimes it feels better when the guy isn’t like 1 meter longer than me lmao

[enterr10]

What's your height?

[Opinion Owner]

Like 5’2 almost 5’3

[enterr10]

So don't you think 5'4 is really short for a man?

[Opinion Owner]

As long as it’s taller than me i can be attracted to him

[Opinion Owner]

But of course there are girls who wouldn't mind dating someone shorter than them

[enterr10]

I doubt any woman is ok dating a man that's shorter than her

[Nikki1989]

That is not short. It is still taller than me.

[enterr10]

5'4 is really short for a man ♂️

[caitycat21]

I’m 4”11 so I wouldn’t be able to tell since they are taller than me. would have to be younger though

[enterr10]

How do you feel about your height?

[Anonymous]

i'm 5'8, maybe even borderline 5'9 so i think that would be ackward for both of us. like the guy should be taller than the girl and vice versa or else people think its weird so probably wouldn't be interested honestly

[enterr10]

Great height 😀

[overthinkergirl]

nope. i am 5’10 and Im looking for a guy who’s taller than me or the same height.

[turnpost]

Your 16, go eat your vegetables.

[overthinkergirl]

@turnpost i love vegetables

[turnpost]

Same good.

[enterr10]

Wow aren't you bit too tall for a woman?

[overthinkergirl]

@enterr10 women can be different height and weight and the same go for men. height is based on genes and we can do nothing about it. it’s nothing wring with a woman being very tall or with a man being shorter. we are different and that makes as unique.

[turnpost]

@enterr10 lol what type of question is that. Like what are you expecting her to say. She didn't have a choice being that tall.

[overthinkergirl]

@turnpost i agree lol and i’am not even that tall

[turnpost]

lol no your tall. But dont let it be your central part of who you are. Your more then just some number.

[overthinkergirl]

@turnpost ik

[TiaNour]

It’s taller then me so I wouldn’t really care

[enterr10]

Why , what's your height?

[Lara_Croft]

Does he believe in Jesus? Is he led by the Holy Spirit?

[pickles77]

It’s okay if your short you just have to be taller then her lol

[ichig]

see the poll above. It's the shorter girls who are the most uninterested

[pickles77]

But you forgot to add ”yes, I’m shorter than you” for an option.

[jazlin]

If he's at least 5'7good looking and rich it can work.

[enterr10]

How tall are you

[shades777]

dude you already know their going to reply with the same tired ass response, in a group they're all gonna say the same thing to appear normal

[sparklycoconut]

i'm 5'6" yes i would

[enterr10]

You are tall for a woman.. yet you don't mind short men?

[sparklycoconut]

@enterr10 no i don't

[enterr10]

What if a guy is 5'2?

[Nirmroth]

Maybe they would if you werent this insecure

[ichig]

everyone is vulnerable to some kind of insecurity I think. I find it better to discuss my insecurity regarding height, especially to a few people I am close with rather than pretending I don't care when within me I care about it.

[Nirmroth]

First step would be to stop consuming stuff related to it. Thats just a negative downspiral.

Yes height matters but only to an extent. My short friend pulls way more chicks even on threaded dating apps than most of us tall/average height guys. It boils down to confidence/status and how well you look.

[ichig]

Appreciate the advice. Thanks!

[Anonymous]

is he randomly wearing 3inch heeled shoes?

[ichig]

I want to get answers from East Asian countries users too where you are only considered short if you are like 5'4 or below that

[Opinion Owner]

i asked if he's wearing 3 inch heels and you commented some random answer that has nothing to do with what i asked.

[Anonymous]

Maybe they would be

[Anonymous]

Not if he’s got an attitude

[enterr10]

How tall are you?

[SlayingBoooty69]

im sure many would

[Anonymous]

No thanks.

[enterr10]

Why not?

[Opinion Owner]

@enterr10 cos most short guys are insecure and take it out in their girlfriend

[Opinion Owner]

**on

[enterr10]

How tall are you?

[Opinion Owner]

@enterr10 5'1

[enterr10]

And how tall do you like men?

[Opinion Owner]

@enterr10 I don't know height doesn't matter to me. It's the guys attitude about his height. I don't want to date a guy that's insecure about his height or else he'll take it out on me.