What does “chemistry” mean in dating?

[Anonymous]

[Anonymous]

It's something men build but either aren't aware of doing so, or have gotten so used to doing so it has become second-nature. It is attraction, allure, sexual, physical, emotional and magnetic. You could go on a date with two identical twins but the only one you'd be attracted to was the one that knew how to build chemistry.

[Asker]

So if a guy told me we have chemistry that’s a sign he has feelings?

[Opinion Owner]

It would be a sign there was some attraction.

[Asker]

Ok cuz he told me this when I broke things off. He said he’d want to at least be friends and said I’m great then brought up the chemistry thing. He opened up only after I said we should part ways. I don't know why he cared.

[BarryLiverstone]

Usually it’s the vibe you feel when you talk and see someone and it escalates. It’s never forced or planned but you just feel it and know they want more

[BarryLiverstone]

Have you felt chemistry?

[Asker]

I was trying to understand it. Like is it attraction, connection, compatibility? I don't know, was a word thrown around so much in dating I couldn’t decipher.

[BarryLiverstone]

Gotta feel attraction. Yes it’s about connecting and excitement. Really chemistry and how you interact when you are with them and would only be felt if you compliment each others personalities and work better together

[Asker]

So is it safe to say if a guy I’ve been talking to said we have chemistry he likes me more than a friend?

[BarryLiverstone]

No. But it’s safe to say that’s his intention. Whether he actually likes you as more than a friend and in a romantic way is to be determined by his words and actions

[BarryLiverstone]

Have you asked him on a date?

[Anonymous]

Chemistry means you connect on a deeper level with the other person.

[Anonymous]

It’s when you, you know put things together and they explode

[notfoundtoday]

It is all about chemistry.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Matching values and personality.