Isn't it funny how men are?

[Anonymous]

So majority of men says they prefer a natural woman, no/less makeup/ no filters right?
Now you decide to be real not because you don't like make up but because make up does enhance one's beauty and i don't want a guy calling me fake.

Now guess what, those same guys goes to flirt with the girls who wear tons of makeup plus filters, i am not judging the girls but the men. I want to date but isn't it funny? Now men what do you want?

[RingOfFire]

Shouldn't make a difference because you don't want a guy who only cares about your looks anyway right or a guy who says one thing and does another. So if guys do that, you've lost nothing. Just be yourself, do what makes you feel good about yourself and wait for the guy that appreciates it. That's the key to a successful relationship.

[Asker]

Yes, You are right. You are very wise. Thank you

[RingOfFire]

All the best to you. Don't let it bother you. There are a lot of shallow people out there. That's not who you want.

[NathanDavis]

one thing is to prefer more natural looks... and another different thing to dislike makeup

I do prefer more natural looks but I do not entirely dislike makeup

excessive makeup might be a no-no but I rarely see it in person... I've never dated people online so all those filters have never been a detail for me to wonder about, I meet people out there in the wild, lol...

[djmzes]

Simple

Choose your destination not the path.

At the end it is what matters.

Not because the path is hard, it does not means that the destination is not pretty and not because the path is easy does not mean the destination is pretty

[boggboss]

It would be a mix between many men not knowing what women look like without any makeup and then equally guys that make this claim not caring about sleeping with women that they wouldn't have a relationship with

[boggboss]

Equally tho this is not something the majority of men say

[Asker]

I understand and this is what i know that men are beings that are mostly attracted by looks. See a Beautiful lady thats where he goes. So for example me taking care of myself and wear makeup to look more good is nice and i get more attention from it. But later if they see you plain they go like you deceived them and all that. Like wth.

And believe me guys don't go for plain. So if you were a woman what you do?

[boggboss]

Go for guys that are realistic when I was first with my girl she didn't want me to see her face without makeup which I thought was stupid makeup is worn to enhance what's already their not to be your new face I know for a fact their are guy out their that understand this becuase I understand this so look for a guy like that

[Asker]

Those guys are rare. I am not even ugly and i haven't got one like for 2 months in a dating up but seeing so many girls getting attention because they look pretty and glamorous. They had filters and make up as well. Dating is hard

[boggboss]

If u are using makeup to give u a look thats complety different then your face without it then I can see why someone would be dating has never been easy just because those other women get attention now don't mean it's becoming anything long term and not just sex no those guys are nit rare they just might not be what u actually want

[Asker]

You have a point about the long term thing. But the truth its what get men attention in the first place thats why looking good is women top priority. I don't agree with changing how u look completely either but a person with even little makeup will look different from the one who just washed her face.

I understood your point tho. Thank you for your opinion

[boggboss]

What I mean by changing complety is I have seen girls that use foundation to chamge the colour they look or if u wanna go over the tope using tape to change how your face shap look thats what will be changing the actual look also understand what u actually want I guess is your main goal male attention or are u looking for somthing long term

[boggboss]

A guy thats only picking up the most attractive girls in all likeliness is just looking for fun

[Asker]

Oh that i saw on ig. I don't know how to do thta. And yes I want long term relationship. But unfortunately i think the type of men who are likely to like me are few. Am. not ugly but the standards nowdays are too high

[boggboss]

That goes for males and females tho unrealistic expectations

[Anonymous]

Make-up if done right really enhances appearance for women. Wearing it all the time is kind of annoying if you never see them without it though.

[Asker]

Most men can't differentiate if someone is natural or wearing makeup. So most men go with the ones who looks more pretty.

You say its annoying but thats what you guys run after. Would u chose a girl who looks plain but ok or the pretty girl who looks good and you think she is angel?

[Anonymous]

A woman is the one who chooses not the man. You choose to chase guys like that, so that is your fault.

[Anonymous]

You've made a very common mistake here by believeing makeup has anything to do with why those guys prefer those other women over you.

[noohair]

The proliferation of online porn has screwed up men. Sad but true.

[RedInnocent68]

What can I say? We’re complicated…