What's wrong with men, like genuinely?

Question

im 100% gna be single forever

ohsheeT · Accepted Answer

First of all every man is different I mean every single one is different it's one way or that other.

All men are raised differently so they see things different

A lot of men remain exactly who they are when they are raised a certain way or anyway

Some men when they leave their parents home they realize they understand there's a different world out there and you have to find your new self because your parents might have thought they were doing good but it's not the way the real world works so then you have to go searching and you have to find yourself by experimenting exploring

Then men only know how to love to the depth that they were loved or seen or learned from their family

And once again when they leave at 18 they find out there's more to it it's deeper or it should be deeper than what they were taught they either remain exactly where they're at or they search and they find and they experiment because they want more their heart tells them there's way more and when that happens there's a hundred different avenues you have to take to explore that and understand that

But it goes with everything else too you're in a box at your parents home and they're only going to teach you what they know and that's it

So when you leave that home that box you either remain the same way you are or you want more because you know there's more because you can feel it you can see it you can taste it you can just about touch it

And when you're hungry for more it changes you and every change that it does with inside you changes something else and something else and something else and then there becomes this thing to just starts growing in you and you need all this knowledge you need to become the best you can become in every manner it's not their parents' fault because they only know what they know but it's the guy's fault if he remains the same

And that's what I see out of a lot of guys they stay that same person they were when they left their parents house and they haven't grown whatsoever

I left my parents house when I was 16 and a half x 16 and a half in one day I needed to know everything because I realized everything that I knew was either not enough it was wrong it wasn't the way the real world work and I have never stopped growing or wanting to know

I can do anything and everything I can use every hand tool I can build you a car a bike I can build you a home I can build anything and anything I want because I have that knowledge

I have more love probably in my right hand than most men have in their whole body
I can see and I can feel things happening before they even happened

Just because we're human are were born doesn't mean this is who we truly are we have been lied to we've been manipulated we have been con from our government and people who run this country to believe in failure to believe in the minimum of everything and we are being treated that way because whoever it is they do not want us to become smart because they are afraid if we all became who we are supposed to become that they couldn't control or guide us the way that they're doing it

So like I said our parents only know what they knew because of where they were LED or where their parents only knew so much it's a whole new world out there and there's a whole new dynamic to people to men

And you have to understand men have been programmed to be non-thinking assholes video game shoot him up junkies non-caring foul mouth no respect people they think they know it all they're angry

Now when I say this I'm not talking about all men I'm talking about a small percentage the ones that played video games all day got yelled at from their parents because their parents were angry all day came home and yelled at them they didn't go to school they're basically ate slept video games no responsibilities nothing and those are the guys you need to watch out for and not even be around because they act just like the video games and think that's how the real world works

Every single man is still different every single man has his way of doing things every man has a different heart and soul spirit and every man will treat you differently depending on who he is or has become in life

And it is the same with women maybe not as drastic but yet you can't put all men together and think they're all the same because they're not there way way far apart in so many ways

D_Bone_Steak · Accepted Answer

They're not sexist, racist, and homophobic enough. Once they start to weaken in one of those departments... they stop getting laid or just get cheated on a lot. This brings me to their real problem... they need to get sexist af. The blue-pilled dopes go out of their way to side with women and then they get paid with no sex and no respect.

Meanwhile, dudes like me get pussy constantly or we're just hated big time by fat ugly bitches we don't want to fuck anyways. It's like choosing a side dude... spend your life catching STD's from women that have nose rings and dyed hair while getting cheated on or... bang chicks and possibly meet decent women that don't have an agenda to start a fight at every chance they can get.

I can't help it. When I walk my giant dick knocks women over. But I'm not the blue pilled simp that pays random women to show them her butthole when it's free over on pornhub anyways... those guys are a different breed. I identify those men as the problem with men. They support the problem with women. They're so bad that they don't just make men look bad, they enable bad behavior out of women. That's what I think is wrong with men. Those blue pilled cuck boys that just let women scrape them for cash and they're all just like "Yes Mommy, more please." What the fuck that's why she cheats on you for me!

Men are very different though... we have the highest IQ diversity amongst a gender while women are pretty uniform. We have more retards and more genius fuckers out there than women could become. When trying to pick out a specific reason for men... it's a bit harder to find reasons that stick to every man because of that.

Ms_Facesitter · Accepted Answer

There is one way to find out. To go out there with an open mind, be slow to talk, and quick to listen. To actually listen, not just hear them out.

Don't go meet a man, thinking bad of them in the back of your mind. That's just an unhealthy mindset. Go meet a man without bias and look at him individually. As a person. Every person is different. Everyone has their own life, their own experiences. Thinking that all or most men are "bad people" because of their gender, is not logical. So look at yourself as well when dating. I did too. Everyone should self reflect and look for things to improve on.

I highly recommend responding to every guy who replies. Whether they're triggered by this question, or calm. Reply to each their opinion, individually. If you really, like genuinely, want to know what could be wrong with men, you should reply and actually engage with every guy who answers this question, With An Open Mind. No pointing fingers because of their gender, but look at what they say instead.

Jessica405 · Accepted Answer

Nothing wrong with men. You are just dealing with the wrong ones!

HawkPerception · Answer

Firstly, you're 16. You barely finished puberty and you think you understand the nature of all men? Do you honestly think it's guys? Maybe you should take a look in the mirror and learn accountability.

Also, if the guys you're ending up with have bad traits, then the flaw is in the way you filter them. Learn to change your filter and look for the right traits.

I will emphasize, you are 16. The guys you're dating are likely around your age and are still developing mentally and lack social tact.

Once you grow up, maturity-wise, you'll realize just how unintelligent this post is... hopefully.

Summeroflove · Answer

What’s wrong with women? What’s wrong with people in general? And okay… good. Please never waste a decent man’s time. Nothing wrong with staying single

Zack-Bann · Answer

You haven’t lived long enough to meet “men”

And if somehow you have then someone should be calling the cops

That’s not just the patronizing of someone who’s older. It’s a plain statement of fact

Many people have horrible relationships at 16 and carry those scars with them for the rest of their lives

You’ll meet a 40 year old cat lady who tells you how all men are trash when she hasn’t dated on in 25 years.

People grow.

What you’re meeting is not men, it’s kids with adult features and proportions.

Give it time. And don’t make a sweeping statement based on the actions of a handful of people

SnowyOwl · Answer

This question makes me genuinely think there's something wrong with you 😅 unfortunately.
You're always telling people to explain what they say, and not just state things. Isn't hypocritical of you to do the opposite of what you ask for? So explain what you mean if you ever want to be taken seriously, or at least make a grain of sense whatsoever.

Come on girl! think a little before making blunt statements, there is no point in doing that, you just make yourself look bad 🥲

And for the record there is a lot wrong with many men AND women. Maturity is not genetic, it takes effort and life experience

AManOnTheWeb · Answer

Men are people, just like women are people. Some are good, some bad, most are in the middle somewhere. There's no obligation to date other people. If you want to stay single forever, you're free to do so.

I personally try not to paint others with a broad brush and understand that humanity is complex. Sweeping over-generalizations can lead to inaccurate conclusions. That said, I do think it's wise for young women to be on their guard for creeps and scumbags and to listen to your instincts.

ProbablyClueless · Answer

Lack of socialization is most of the problem. A lot of the men's life experience is that they get rewarded for being pushy assholes, especially with women. And women, who are often too polite to know how to tell men to fuck off before it gets to the point she's literally screaming at him to fuck off, just tend to go along with it.

I'm talking with a girl right now who has a super pushy guy friend. I totally trust that she sees him as a friend and he won't get anywhere with her. But she just doesn't know how to draw lines with him because she genuinely likes being around him, like as a person.

lil_will_12 · Answer

Gurl, take a look at these comments..

almost no one is agreeing with you on this stuff, both men and women. Your views are too harsh and too generalizing, (not to mention dangerously misandrist) and you dont heed what others are saying.
i agree with you for some things, im ngl, however when you get this close to straight up misandry, thats when the problems happen..

Anonymous · Answer

The reason you're going to be single forever has nothing to do with men and everything to do with you. It's obvious from everything you post here that you're an immature, bitter, sexist femcel. No one likes dating shitty people. That's you're real problem.

Stop blaming men for your problems and work on yourself. Be a better person. Otherwise you're screwed, and it's no one's fault but your own.

Anonymous · Answer

Gender wars is meant to divide people.

Each gender silo simply feeds on victimized people and gives them validation.

They both think extremism is the answer to counter the extremists on the other side. When that really isn't the answer.

They also use extremism to feed their ranks because they think increasing their numbers is how they can ultimately win. However, fearmongering people into joining their cult is a double edged sword and not the way either.

Both genders need to walk away from the cliff and learn to communicate and meet in the middle. However, glamorized and popularized idiocy and idiotic social values normalized today get in the way of that. Maybe we might come to our senses eventually. Hopefully.

Anonymous · Answer

You asking what is wrong with us, when we express our emotions we are called weak, when we try to be near perfect we perceived as boring or also just a weak simp, when we spoil many of you guys we perceived as doormats and walked all over.

Im not denying that we men have weakness, but dont forget about women as well, we have to deal with many of your moodiness, with your complaints, with many womens bitchy attitudes not all by the way and certain entitlement that many women not all have today.

You mention at bottom as a reply to someones comment sexism, yes it is a reality undoubtedly however you cannot brush all men like the same brush, do you regard the statement as all men are trash as sexist too?

Also you mention racism, are men the only racist people on this earth?

Before we ask questions like this we must ponder and think respected sister many women like to point out the faults of men but ignore their own this is very hypocritical.

Anonymous · Answer

You’re 16 so I will cut you some slack. But there are leftist women who are twice your age you have the maturity of a 12 year old when they ask these questions.

Anonymous · Answer

too broad of a question to generalize when there's men of all backgrounds and beliefs

if you want a simple breakdown of what's wrong with "men"

leftist men have nothing to offer to women except pandering and lying

rightist men tell the cold harsh truth which can be "offensive" to snowflakes

dudeinohio · Answer

Squids. Extreme liberals.

Inventing terms like "toxic masculinity " wtf?

Boys are taught to not exhibit masculine qualities in squid based schools. Male children are looked down upon and made weak. by squid society.

Essentially we are afraid to *be* men.

MysteriousDarkness · Answer

You have issues that need to be worked on.

1. Your fear of all men because of what happened to Junko Furuta from November 25, 1988 - January 4, 1989.

That fear would include guys that you don't even know exist which is ridiculous.

2. You saiyng that you would kill yourself if a guy called you princess, cute, kid etc.

So if a 16 year old boy called you cute you would kill yourself?

I suggest that you get help kid.

CarolinaGirl5 · Answer

It's you, at 16 years old why are u obsessed with men versus an education, a social life and developing hobbies? You need to get a life and a therapist you're the problem

Anonymous · Answer

Nothing, they are human and have their grievances. this question is derogatory to generalise an entire gender because of a few bad experiences. They will more than like have a simple experience with women.

LazerBean · Answer

The same thing that's wrong with a lot of women. They came from broken homes and had crappy / no parents. Clearly you are one of them. And it's good that you stay away from men, because we don't need any more people like you reproducing.

EmmaMary · Answer

Just why is it that you personally have this sheer and utter fear of men?

HighValue · Answer

Not nearly as much as the sexist racist women.

Anonymous · Answer

So you’re talking to older men? Or teenage boys? Big difference. I mean a lot of men could say the same thing about women. What exactly are these “men” do or not doing that’s causing you to ask this question?

Anonymous · Answer

Men and Women can’t be compared. They’re two different types within one species. We each have unique genetic traits that they other can’t possibly comprehend or recognize. But it doesn’t call for the other to lash them for it.
Once you under stand that then you’re good to go!
Find things you enjoy outside of relationships.

Fromdusktilldawn · Answer

Translator  I bet you're also partly to blame. You probably set your standards skyhigh, the guys around your social circle are probably not the greatest but also being woke pushes A LOT of guys away.

Joshydavid25 · Answer

You're 16 with your whole life ahead of you.. You're too young to be thinking like that.. And to be asking this question..

Elf_Erectus · Answer

Biologically speaking, men are women when they are a fetus. Then the testosterone builds muscles and destroys the corpus callosum.

midnightmoon05 · Answer

You should stay single. I keep the good men 😂 I love men!

Anonymous · Answer

Men built the society you live in. You're whining about not being able to date boys your age because they engage in various "isms" which I'm sure amounts to nothing but making jokes in reality.

FreyaRed · Answer

Why? Just don't take them to seriously, especially if they insist to be taken seriously.

Staximus · Answer

If you're actually 16, you're still dealing with boys and have a lot to learn about real men. Men aren't women, don't expect them to think like women.

Apple1996 · Answer

a lot of guys have issues that they don't want to heal from

Graptemys79 · Answer

You are only 16? At your age "men" are still boys. And you have (most likely) decades of life ahead of you!

Shiprex · Answer

Very little on the whole.  Men are just not that in to being expected to fulfil the role of a male girlfriend to girls.

CupcakeTheDestroyer · Answer

The patriarchy fucks up a lot of stuff for a lot of people, men included.

David5668 · Answer

As opposed to flawless women? Arguably one of the most glaikit questions asks to date.

LiamJHayden · Answer

When one has a few bad experiences, it can be tempting to think "all are like that." The truth is, not all (sex, race) are like that.

Babygirl_S · Answer

I’d say the men I date are 100 times better than those who try to bully me online! They call me princess, cutie, bacha (kid) etc.

shortster · Answer

What do you mean? Also it is worth pointing out that most guys don't become men until their 30s; before then they are still boys.

Alex-Snow · Answer

What do u see that is wrong with them? Sure there are some jerks but there are some good ones out there!

ICanSmellTheCosmos · Answer

1) You're 16. Calm your tits. 2) Good grief. Just go date girls, and leave the poor guys alone. Serious lesbian vibes here.

Anonymous · Answer

men's

StevenMcGarrett · Answer

Why did you post something about how you look if you don't care to ever be in a relationship?

msc545 · Answer

What is wrong is that some of us - usually the young and foolish - choose to try to reason with women or charm them or God help us - both.

Still-alive · Answer

Mmmhmm

es20490446e · Answer

What's wrong with me? I'm kind of picky about having the kitchen clean.

Massageman · Answer

If you reach womanhood, maybe you can figure that out.

Deserter2 · Answer

Well for starters men can't date you cause you're a minor

TallAnon · Answer

Where do you want to start? We will need a few hours listing it all 🤣

Crazzyyworld · Answer

You can get some bad boy boy friend like everyone does. Or start your own shady business

JJones03 · Answer

I think it just depends on luck a lot of the time, unfortunately you just get unlucky with people sometimes

Anonymous · Answer

You and @carolinagirl5 are both toxic. Get a life.

Anonymous · Answer

porn + massive levels of hate and distrust among people in general

CuriousMoonFox · Answer

care to share what happened?

Lynx122 · Answer

I wish you happiness :)

RSav4013 · Answer

What do you mean specifically?

WowGIrl4ever · Answer

Like 4b movement single forever?

Phoenix98 · Answer

Your gonna need to be more specific there.

Talea · Answer

Is it possible the problem is you?

Kingofkings1992 · Answer

No context. Can’t say I’m surprised

Jay-_- · Answer

Yea you probably will be of that's what you want.

Vegasrunner · Answer

Nothing, they built the world you enjoy.

scott04sa22 · Answer

I'm sorry you feel this way

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