What is wrong with men now days?

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What happened to strong willed, masculine , hard working men? Why are men so weak and lazy now days I don’t get it? It’s such a turn off for some of us women like I get it that women work now days and all but that doesn’t mean we want men to be lazy…. It feels like women are more powerful than men now days and it’s gross…. I’m cool with equality but the fact that women are more alpha than men now days it’s just terrible in my opinion…. It’s one thing for us to have equality and it’s a whole different thing for men to become weak and lazy as hell while us women do all the work

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

It’s what a lot of women asked for, what they pushed. A lot of you shamed men for being men, for being masculine. You wanted men who were more emotional, affectionate. Many of you told us everything we did that you didn’t agree w was misogynistic, a patriarchy. That men are the cause of all problems. That you don’t need men cause you’re strong, you’re independent. So now men backed off, said fine take the wheel. Now that you’ve been given the wheel a lot of you don’t like it. That’s why a lot of men don’t step up to help women in distress. Why I don’t open doors for women. I don’t want to undermine her as a strong, independent woman. A lot of you said you can do it on your now, nows the chance, do it. A lot of men said I’m going to do nothing, let her handle everything I’ve been handling. A lot of single moms, who aren’t all single by choice are raising sons to be emotional. To cry. A lot of single mothers are instilling in their sons what their idea of a “real” man is. Which is like me instilling in my daughter what a “real” woman is. That’s ridiculous. These boys have no masculine men in their lives. You know I spent 10 years in the military. I was deployed 3 times. I love guns, tequila, I workout religiously, fix things, work 50+ hours a week, drink beer. I would have laid my life down for many people, especially women because that’s how I was raised. As I’ve gotten older w all this stuff pushed on men, I’ve said fuck it let them fend for themselves. I’ll take care of my own, meaning the women in my family. Men aren’t going to do things for women if they don’t feel appreciated. A man needs a purpose in life to continue. W out that purpose it’s like he’s lost. So when women started w a lot of this bs, the men said the same, fuck it, do it yourself. Easy for women to talk all this bs now that we live in a society that was built by men. Phones, cars, roads, houses, AC, etc. You may think I sound bitter or something but I’m really not. As a matter of fact I’m much happier not giving a fuck about a lot of people, especially women. I’m just telling you what a lot of men think. Maybe one day it’ll change. But I doubt it. Can’t even recognize whether or not a lot of young people these days are girls or boys.

ohsheeT · Accepted Answer

You are so right.

I look at the guys that I work with I'm double their age I can work twice as hard as them I can work twice as many hours as then and when I get off work I have side jobs that I will go do

The guys that I work with I asked him what did you guys do when your kids you just sat around and played video games and most of them that's what they did

But I think is really funny is you work out in the sun all day and you take off your shirt and these guys have like a motorcycle tire on their hips all the way around their back I don't get that it's just a big tire of rubber flubber
When I was a kid I played in the dirt I got dirty and I got home I got cleaned these guys do not want to get dirty these guys have no calluses on their hands like I said they have a like a skinny motorcycle tire just around their belly button section it's so freaking funny but they work for 20 minutes and they're tired.. it's almost as if they've been babied or pampered all their life some already have COPD or whatever it's called

So when I was like 5 or 6 years old one day in class I was watching everything that was going on and I came up with the conclusion that women are going to rule the world one day and if generation after generation after generation is just playing video games until they have to get kicked out of their parents house I mean there's going to be a major flaw in kids that are going to be born it's funny you go to shake their hand and they got something hands and some girls

If we have to load something in the back of a truck it usually takes two guys will f*** sometimes it takes four guys now it's crazy and none of them have any common sense whatsoever they help fight the direction that they're supposed to be going it's hilarious sometimes

Beautyblossom2 · Accepted Answer

I think men still are hard working. It's just that I think they don't showcase this part of themselves on social medias as "a strong independent free man" bcz it's ingrained in them all that it's expected of them. Feminism is a good thing, allows women to compete eye-to-eye w men & it's at peak these days compared to older times. So a woman, when doing 'equality' is appreciated not men (I personally find men annoying but thinking of how sacrificial my father has always been & cuz of my brother.. I can sometimes sympathise w the gender)
I think it appears like that cuz women have come into (earlier perceived) 'manly' job of 'work' but the 'womanly' jobs like raising a kid, cooking, laundries n everything hasn't really been taken up by them. N why would their gender demand of such tiring jobs!.. I mean it's like.. So whtv extra time they get, they're enjoying goofing around or doing extras. While women are working so hard to strike off tasks from their lists.
There used to be an era when women used to stay at homes ("being lazy" lol) while men used to shed blood & fight with deadly weapons. Such life risking jobs! That era is gone now so.. We're transitioning into a newer one so with every generation.. jobs are mostly becoming such that even women can do them (no physical strength n all reqd) manly aggression is being taken as 'toxic' n is shut down.. And the concept of masculinity is changing. Etiquettes & a formal demeanour is being encouraged in boys instead of allowing them to run around & being wild. My father teaches my brother many selfless values, eg. Offering to pay but it's sad to see.. some female cousins (who also earn) always taking advantage of it (this makes me wonder why shd they even take responsibilities of being more 'manly' in a gen. where women can be like this).. I think if both the genders become serious & uptight in a household then it's going to be very dull so it's probably not that bad..

midnightmoon05 · Accepted Answer

You can’t have it all! You want to do it all…if that’s the case… what’s the job of a man? Why should they do anything?
so stop saying we are equal! We are not! Look between your legs.
I appreciate when man help me. I appreciate man when they take control of certain situations! And I am going to raise my so to be proud of being a man!
what are you doing? Aside from bitching here as anon?

Anonymous · Answer

All things are apart of creation. There is not one thing that is an invader. All things are your neighbor. All creation is but ideas.  There are things you view as negative but the truth is they are apart of creation just as much as the things you deem positive. Negative and positive are both suppose to be here; not just one. I'm just gonna focus on the parts I like.  When we assume something is not suppose to be here or something isn't right then we aim to fix it. We start complaining about it.  
 
 Once you accept that there are negative perspectives or ideas and that they're suppose to be here due to the law of polarity you stop looking at those things like invaders and more like neighbors. You see them but you don't have to fight them anymore. You just simply shift your focus back to the things you love and live how you want to live your life.  If you wanna focus on those things you deem negative that is your right but just know there will never be a shortage of negative things.

Anonymous · Answer

It is observed that the modern city man is not physically exposed to war, which influences him in the reduction of abrupt/aggressive traits (not even an army general necessarily has them), there is less real burden of protection for women ( who blackmails him with his reproductive sexual need) and this frees him allowing him to develop other facets typical of each man.

And precisely for this reason it is believed that man is becoming "feminine"; because it is the development of a state of freedom that women have had for centuries, since they have always been protected by men.

But so that man does not forget to be the eternal protector of the "damsel", there must be an internal enemy and that is… …the man himself (that's where feminism comes in).

Today decrees from different States are issued in vain announcing a cancellation of compulsory military service giving him a false feeling of "equal" rights with women, but immediately there is an armed confrontation the man will again be forced to carry a rifle and serve as cannon fodder. hello2.

LazerBean · Answer

There's still plenty of masculine men around, they just tends to stick in areas where people believe the way they do. In areas where there is a higher percentage of feminine men, it's because feminism is stronger in that area and thus there is a higher percentage of promiscuous people passing on their weak genetics and values to their children.

BeenThereBefore · Answer

Limited male influence in single parent (mom) families. Zero tolerance rules in schools that allow bulling but punish any reaction to it which encourages submissive behavior. Teachers and professors that disparage and denigrate traditional male activities.

inhua · Answer

feminist indoctrination made sure the masculine man became endangered with the goal of making them extinct

which is why they pile on hard against Jordan Peterson, Joe Rogan, Andrew Tate and many other masculine men in ways soyboys would never experience in their lifetimes

lightbulb27 · Answer

loss of fathers, feminization of society in work and training... how many guys learn to shoot for their food and gut a deer or fish? and drop in testosterone, maybe that's due to use of plastics... environmental?

beyond that, "mascline" is not valued in society

Levin · Answer

probably a lack of positive male role models doesn't help.

Men are always denigrated. Their sexuality is made out to be a sin. Men are deemed to be inherently morally bad.

We could turn it around and say where are the feminine women? Or why are women so fat and out of shape once they're past 25? Not having a go at women. But if you criticise, you have to allow it to be turned it back on you.

NamerOfStars · Answer

Nothing whatsoever- they've simply realized that they're getting a bad deal and refusing to participate any more.

I mean, would YOU want to hang around with someone who consistently made ad-hominem attacks against your entire gender? Men aren't stupid, and now they're informed enough to know to avoid you.

ProbablyClueless · Answer

Women before you, unfortunately, spent a really long time telling men what pieces of shit we were for trying to be masculine. That trickled down the generations to the point that young boys never bothered to learn how to be masculine because we saw it being demonized.

DarkLegacy · Answer

Well you reap what you sow, you became like men so men became like women. You can't have it all your own way. There is plenty wrong with women these days. We can ultimately be how we like, we are not obliged to please women and be like women want.

JesseP1nk · Answer

What happened? Is not that what those feminist wanted? Im a man and even i hate those losers. You want more manly men you need to start looking them from eastern Europe but even here that western shit has starting polluting our society. Soon you need to start looking them from Russia and Belarus.

KatherineJ · Answer

I think it has something to do with how critical society is of men exhibiting masculine behaviors.

JackCarter · Answer

If you are talking about men who work hard physically.. they doing jobs that most women can't physically do... Combat military, construction, firefighting etc etc

Woodchuck411 · Answer

Not all men are like that but a good portion of them are

jimmy2 · Answer

Today men is a cultural things
Most men back in the day was with a single mother
She worked 2 jobs or 3 just yo make it
Well little Jane it was easy for Mom to train little Johnny mom did not have time to teach her boy how to be a Man
Therefore today we have grown men that not been trained as a man

gothbxtch · Answer

sometimes i’ll see posts like “where are all the masculine men?’” and it’s like. girl i would like to trade, where are all these feminine men.

Anonymous · Answer

One word... "squids"

Extreme liberals who have an agenda to emasculated men. Boys are feminized through the educational. system and by other adults. The pussification of the US has reduced men to a shadow of their former selves. All you'll. find now are older guys who came up. before the liberal takeover.

Billlewis · Answer

Our masculinity, manliness, self respect and even our dignity have been steadily extracted from us by society itself.

rigmarole · Answer

Sure... Please share with the rest of the class the "hard work" you think you do. It should be fun for a laugh.

Bairavaa01 · Answer

The matrix is attacking masculine men. Must escape, must prevail.

Nikki1989 · Answer

Most men are big cry-babies these days.

Truthatanycost · Answer

I some and they are single and not looking...

Anonymous · Answer

When you have birches like you saying the shit they do why would they bother to waste their time making an effort.

DerekC321 · Answer

I'm always there for my girl. I'd never have it so I'm not supporting her and not doing the work that needs doing. I care about her and I have self respect.

Pohjolan · Answer

They are in martial arts class, bouldering, hunting, hiking, fishing, working on the rig, etc. Evidently they are not coming to fetch you from your house or you wouldn't be asking this.

exitseven · Answer

My wife says the same thing. They don't make guys like me anymore.

LiamJHayden · Answer

Get out more, away from Soy Boy dominated areas.

Anonymous · Answer

There at the same place that all the supportive, feminine, caring, good values and morals women went. 👍

msc545 · Answer

you want to know what is wrong witrh men? WOMEN.

Anonymous · Answer

Feminism killed the strong onesand continues to do so

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