Whats wrong with men?

[chocolatetwopointo]

a man js said he's a proud rapist under my question, never saying its not all men again.

[glennos89]

Am I responsible for the actions of that dirty pervert? Because that's how you make it feel if you ask it like that.

I wouldn't rape anyone neither will I even want to think about it. Don't blame me and other guys for the things that pervert says.

These things are not related to the rest of all men it's something within this guy's personality!

If you generalise entire groups of people like that you really have to learn and understand things a little better before starting to blame everyone.

But you are young, I can't blame you for it but you really need to understand personalities and gender related behaviour a little bit better

[msmissydc]

From seven comments made by men, one defended the rapist without even knowing about the situation. Another tried to argue that it was just a joke and we shouldn't take it seriously. Another said that's what men do, trying to make it seem normal. And you tell her that if she were older, you would blame her for making a statement about a rapist.

Not a single one cared that a minor had to deal with a self-proclaimed rapist; nearly all of them argued against her.
WTF!!! If not all men, then why can we never see the men who actually care?

[glennos89]

Those guys don't like to be compared to rapist! Being a rapist is the lowest form of status you can have among other men! If a man goes to jail being a rapist will guarantee he will be a victim to other men and those guys are not safe in jail.

[msmissydc]

Oh, it's quite easy to address that rapist comparison and refute that claim. Speak out against rapists and their defenders instead of speaking against the victims and women who talk about rapists. And for the Americans: Don't vote for a rapist as president.

[Babygirl_S]

Because many of them suck and you have to be very feminine to tolerate most of them. Many want to be kissed for punching you. It doesn’t surprise me. Many of them feel that giving equality to a woman ruins their pride. Many would misbehave and make it seem like she misbehaved. Also, the shittier the woman, the easier her life will be because they simply don’t reward good women. Have you ever seen anyone other than a daddy’s favourite brat who married someone good? I have never seen that. They reward good looks, not good behaviour. They go out of their way to blame a good woman for everything wrong they do to her.

Fun fact about men: If she pleases his eyes and penis, she is his favourite. He doesn’t rape when she is his favourite. He values her comfort too.

Fun fact about a good woman. : She shows you who you really are. She reflects what you do to her.

[Eempriyanka]

So hit back? Why do you give up

[Babygirl_S]

@Eempriyanka dude I didn’t say that

[Babygirl_S]

@Boggler Definitely! But I’m the one who’s picked on. Why don’t you kick out those refugees and criminals? I know one is in New York posting about Allah in every post complaining about Trump’s America and saying he can’t breathe even when he has a nice apartment and is literally a model!

[LazerBean]

Females who say that all men are rapists are just as ignorant and embarrassing as males who say that all women are gold diggers and inferior to men.

And the common factor between the above mentioned is they almost ALWAYS are from a broken family.

[chocolatetwopointo]

js say ur a pick me already

[Knightwatch27]

I would add a very bad culture as well. India for instance has sanctioned mass rapes daily of "untouchables". Culture is a huge factor.

[LazerBean]

@Knightwatch27 Well true but India is a totally story from the western world, and even most of the eastern world. Their culture is definitely exceptionally messed up though

[Knightwatch27]

Yes, which is sort of the point. Culture matters. Both in India and in Islamic country where rape isn't even bad in all cases.

[MongozDish]

@Knightwatch27 Who told you that rape in Islamic countries isn't "bad" in all cases?

[Vampirelover_12]

We know it's not all men. Ffs.

[GallopAcrossEurope]

One, fuck that guy. I legit hope he suffers for saying that, that's messed up.

Two - however, if I said all women were creepy, violent murderers just because one woman, my own mother, tried to kill me and has not tried to apologize for it (this actually happened to me, this situation isn't hypothetical), would it be fair for me to the same? That when guys say "it's all women like this dude, they're all one second away from murder," would it be fair for me to not say "it's not all women"?

[chocolatetwopointo]

well i didn't say all men?

[GallopAcrossEurope]

That's what your post implies. If you state you no longer feel saying "It's not all men," you make it clear are open to the idea that yes, IT IS all men, which is just as untrue as what I mentioned up before. But this is all semantics and shit.

But i still agree with you that men should really be clamping down on rape - in my college there is a "Take Back the Night" event in which they put up shirts with writing about their each individual case, and some of fne things I read on them troubled me for the rest of the day.

[chocolatetwopointo]

no it doesn't. i never said all men, meaning only THOSE men. if ur offended ur part of the problem.

[GallopAcrossEurope]

You didn't say that in the post. You said, verbatim, "never saying its not all men again." You made ZERO distinction there and instead revoked the statement that "it's not all men."

So if I make a post saying "My mom just tried to kill me, never saying it's not all women again" do you think it would be fair for me then turn around and say, like you, "Oh I never meant all women! I mean only THOSE women"?

[rybukakes]

I have only used this app for a couple of days now and did notice quite a bit of toxicity. I tend to believe that this app somehow attracts these toxic people instead of actually displaying a proper representation of how the general population of men think.

[Screenwriter]

Only some men are messed up, as you say. Most are just as normal as women and living lives of quiet desperation... not knowing how to get out there and find partners.

Gotta separate the wheat from the chaff. Fuckups are rare, but they're SO bad, they loom large and seem to overwhelm the rest of the tribe. Don't fall for that.

Keep your eyes and ears pricked. Loads of decent men around. I meet them all the time.

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

Sounds like he was trolling you. I hate to say it, but you are kind of an easy target to become a lolcow

[chocolatetwopointo]

idc, its way too far to say ur a rapist and the fact ur defending him is crazy. rape is nothing to joke ab.

[Agape93]

Nah, moneymagnet24 sexually harasses me routinely, it's very much in his nature to be a rapist.

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

I’m not saying your response isn’t valid, but I think it’s also true that he wants you to be upset with him so he can see your reaction. He finds it entertaining to be that kind of person.

[chocolatetwopointo]

dont care, im not gna ignore a rapist.

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

But you being angry is what gets him off, probably literally. Just block him. You can’t bring him to any kind of justice when you have no evidence of his crimes and don’t know his real name or location.

[chocolatetwopointo]

alr did. and y'all still say ”its not all men” complete bs.

[LazerBean]

This is definitely true

[msmissydc]

As long as men rather jump to defense of a rapist than condeming him and helping women, it will stay ALL MEN! Its all men until its no men.

[msmissydc]

I think you have your answer. If a rapist would have to deal with as much bashing and hatred as a girl talking about a rapist we would never say all Men. But that's not the case. Thank you men for always being predictable.
There are more men defending a rapists than men caring about her having to deal with one! Applause for proving why we say all MEN!!!
#deadmendontrape

[MemeSupreme]

can't tell if you're rage baiting lol

like i get it bothering you but you can't take what people say online seriously or else it'll drive you insane. it's why i just try to ignore things online that could trigger me bc ik myself

[chocolatetwopointo]

ah ok so we should ignore rapists. got it.

[MemeSupreme]

people trying to provoke you online

yeah

[chocolatetwopointo]

so every man ever?

[alice55]

on internet a lot of men just love acting all provocative don't mean he actually mean it, some just love provocation to get attention or getting people offended is fun to them

[chocolatetwopointo]

and how do we know that? id rather call out a rapist than ignore one

[alice55]

Well you can call out who you want but if it's on internet it's not gonna make much sense, same in real life police don't act if the person did not act so call out or not it's not gonna do anything

[chocolatetwopointo]

too baf

[14gurlz2gagonit]

So you're saying a single man doing a thing has pushed you to assume or generalize that all men are just like that man.

[chocolatetwopointo]

yes.

[14gurlz2gagonit]

Well then my answer to the question of what's wrong with men, is that you don't like them... they're all the same to you.

[chocolatetwopointo]

bc u are all the same.

[14gurlz2gagonit]

From your own egocentric POV, yes.

With that said, how do you feel about men and/or women that make such assumptions about all females, of race, of creed or of sexuality perhaps? Do you prefer people that live with bias and leave all their judgements at the feet of bias?

[chocolatetwopointo]

i literally would not care bc ik im not part of it. men should learn how to do that.

[14gurlz2gagonit]

Like solipsism, where only your mind exists. Sounds lonely, but you do you.

[chocolatetwopointo]

how does that sound lonely?

[14gurlz2gagonit]

Because the only reality you accept is your own... and how many people are you going to find that agrees with everything you deem as fact? Not many, and when they do agree on a certain part, there is sure to be conflict with any belief they hold that would conflict with yours. It basically turns everyone outside of your own mind into an eventual conflict just waiting to happen, if they are not deemed as bad as all men right from the start.

Does that sound like you though? Constantly just having conflicts with everyone? Because I think it's just tough talk or like a protection strategy from certain others. Another brick in the wall basically. Putting walls up against certain types of people because they hurt you at some point?

I know a guy that became racist after a particular race beat him up for no reason. He still has friends that are of that race, but it really shaped his views in private. I can tell he has become this way out of defense. I only tell you about him because he reminds me of you, except your views seem to be in the interest of protection from the male gender.

[chocolatetwopointo]

idgaf if nobody agrees. well, since beginning of time men have hated women, and y'all still do. i think thats a reason to hate them too.

[14gurlz2gagonit]

Hey I don't make the rules to your world, you do. idgaf because it doesn't bother me. I just find it interesting.

[chocolatetwopointo]

i dont tho, bc men dont listen to women.

[PavlovsCogk]

Hey, @chocolatetwopointo, first off all gender is a social construct. Social constructs did not exist since the beginning of time.

[chocolatetwopointo]

and who made those up?

[PavlovsCogk]

Women did! Because only their reality is true!

[14gurlz2gagonit]

@PavlovsCogk Oh dayum, now that was a zinger.

[PavlovsCogk]

@14gurlz2gagonit Probably. My words clicked something in her. She always has the last word otherwise.

[chocolatetwopointo]

nope. men made up all of the femininity and masculinity and now ur all complaining ab it.

[PavlovsCogk]

How could they make it up if they didn't exist?

[chocolatetwopointo]

what? bc men made them? what retarded question is that?

[PavlovsCogk]

"Men" is a social construct that has to have been made up by someone else, because in your retarded narrative men did not exist until someone else made them up. So who created the social construct called "men"?

[chocolatetwopointo]

masculine is a social construct. man is a gender.

[Spencer10]

Social media has a way to bring out the worst in people... or maybe it brings out the person they really are?

[chocolatetwopointo]

no shit, men r rapists.

[Spencer10]

I disagree... not all. Dont condemn an entire gender because of the behavior of one sick guy.

[chocolatetwopointo]

did i say all? if i meant all i would’ve said all, wouldn't i? and ofc the men have to focus on themselves, as always.

[Spencer10]

Agreed.

[chocolatetwopointo]

on what part? where i said men r selfish?

[Spencer10]

The part about men focusing on ourselves.

[chocolatetwopointo]

so being selfish? u ignore the actual problem and only focus on urself

[Spencer10]

Men is plural...

[Spencer10]

Wow... you are really having a bad day. Thats cool. I can take it.

[chocolatetwopointo]

i call everyone retard. smartest American i bet

[Spencer10]

Well I am a Canadian... up hear we kinda try not to use that word too much. Its frowned upon. But hey our country is filled with radical left wing, woke, LGBTQ+ supporting, science loving, tree hugging, democracy respecting people.

[chocolatetwopointo]

good thing im not Canadian then.

[Spencer10]

Well if thats not your scene I suppose it is a good thing. For both of us. At any rate I do hope your your day gets better.

[chocolatetwopointo]

its alr the best, couldnt get any better!

[wynning]

Only attention-seekers would say stuff like that. If he's genuinely fessing up, that's fked up. Tryna be edgy but can't take the edge off reality...

[chocolatetwopointo]

and if he's an actual rapist?

[wynning]

@chocolatetwopointo Can't confirm it but I'd treat him with the same vein of disdain.

[chocolatetwopointo]

so we should let potential rapists on this app?

[wynning]

@chocolatetwopointo Never said that. I'm not mod so it's not like I can do shit.

[chocolatetwopointo]

u can report it.

[wynning]

@chocolatetwopointo Yeah. But is it really enough?

[chocolatetwopointo]

alr got 2 women on it, the more the merrier.

[Knightwatch27]

"never saying its not all men again." Because one man said something. Seriously what is wrong with you? Such a perpetually angry little girl. I know you'll just blurt out some "bEcAuse mEEEn!!" So save it.

[chocolatetwopointo]

js say u dont care ab women.

[McLlovin]

I think he said that out of frustration because women tend to label men a certain way if they don’t fit there vision on how or what men are supposed to want according to them as women

[BCRanger10]

You ask questions like this and then don't understand why more men aren't feminists.

[chocolatetwopointo]

js ignore me? am i causing u any harm? nope, get over it

[sirderpsalot123]

He was probably trolling you because he's seen enough of your post to know that you're going to find something to argue about regardless of what he says.

It's a terrible thing to joke about, but that's probably what happened.

[Anonymous]

What's wrong with you? Honest questions. Do you even know?

[chocolatetwopointo]

nothing. check the comment.

[Opinion Owner]

You post enough garbage on GAG that everyone knows by now that there is something very wrong with you. You're a disturbed, bitter, unhappy, sexist girl with a lot of hatred toward half the human population, which is far from normal. This question coming from you is unsurprising, but ironic.

[chocolatetwopointo]

lmao ur so triggered

[Opinion Owner]

If by triggered you mean I, like any normal person, dislikes pathetic, whiny, hateful, sexist bitches, then you're right.

[chocolatetwopointo]

yeah right, triggered pick me

[puppi]

Honestly it really depends on a man but yes, the normal ones barely exist. It could be because of culture, normalisation of a specific thing (in this case rape). Could be because of his family.

[noohair]

Without the sex drive that ancient human males had, humanity would not have survived. This issue is more problematic in the world we live in today…

[chocolatetwopointo]

have sex with somebody who wants to have sex with u. and the fact y'all always leave after getting a girl pregnant doesn't help ur case.

[noohair]

Not every guy does that.

[chocolatetwopointo]

yeah and not every girl is a gold digger, isn't stopping men from saying ”all women r gold diggers” does it?

[noohair]

Digital dementia has overtaken humanity. The human brain is analog.

[chocolatetwopointo]

not every woman is a gold digger

[MongozDish]

I saw a woman proudly calling herself a murderer. What's wrong with women?

[chocolatetwopointo]

where?

[MongozDish]

On my college campus.

[chocolatetwopointo]

rightt

[MongozDish]

Do you see how it sounds when you make that claim?

[chocolatetwopointo]

yup, sound completly sane.

[MongozDish]

rightt

[chocolatetwopointo]

exactly

[PrincessC16]

I already had his ass blocked! He was probably a dick to me in another post.

[shortster]

So your response to an idiot online is to complain about half of society? I think that a better response would be to report and block such a person.

[shortster]

Millions? Are there even a million rapists?

[chocolatetwopointo]

yes there r. if 97% of all women have gone through sexual assult, (thats almost 4 billion women) then there's obviously more than 1 million rapists. there's not gna be 1 man who rapes 4 billion women.

[chocolatetwopointo]

this is the dumbest comment I've seen in a while.

[Smegskull]

I think you just defined sexual assault as rape. Which means there are almost as many women rapists as men.

[chocolatetwopointo]

show ur source, im waiting.

[shortster]

Show your source for 97% of women that have been raped?

[chocolatetwopointo]

omfg, have to show common sense to men istg. show ur source while ur at it.

[shortster]

I haven't made any statistical claims

[chocolatetwopointo]

neirad.org/.../

see how thats also only the UK, imagine how many rapes that nobody reported and now think of the ones around the world.

[chocolatetwopointo]

then why tf are u here retard?

[chocolatetwopointo]

men literally pmo so bad

[shortster]

When did sexual harassment become rape?

[chocolatetwopointo]

r u fucking dumb? do yk what rape is?

[shortster]

Forced sexual intercourse. Harassment isn't rape.

[chocolatetwopointo]

so? still traumatizing

[shortster]

You need to stop with the logical fallacies. You start with over generalizations, then add in a heavy dose of ad hominem, throw in a sprinkling of speciest comparisons, and finish with moving the goal posts.

[chocolatetwopointo]

u think sexual assult is ok or what?

[shortster]

Not one bit.

[chocolatetwopointo]

so whats ur problem? u keep defending rapists.

[shortster]

I never defended rapists, I argued against your over generalizations of men as almost all being rapists.

[chocolatetwopointo]

ah and ofc. basic man. ignore the actual problem and focus on themselves, as always.

[shortster]

I addressed your problem with my original comment. You just chose to ignore it.

[chocolatetwopointo]

dc, u still ignored a rapist

[shortster]

No, I said you should report him. Preferably to the police.

[chocolatetwopointo]

alr did

[Smegskull]

I am trying to follow your source neirad article. But it doesn't go anywhere the article just states a stat exists and the "UK studies" confirm it. There is no citation at all.

[Smegskull]

Also, here you go. slate.com/.../...ted-almost-as-often-as-women.html
An article that actually links to its claims.

[chocolatetwopointo]

ok wrong one then. you’ll live.

[chocolatetwopointo]

bro bffr. we both know thats complete bs. every single other source says otherwise.

[exitseven]

Most guys think mostly with their little head.

[Anonymous]

They're still mixed into society

Separating the genders into walled off non connected continents is the only cure plus shutting down the internet naturally

[Agape93]

Tag me to it and I'll send to admins

[msmissydc]

I already did. But the more the better.

[Agape93]

Just looked of course its the fucking punjab who's been harassing me for months.

[fish5505_87]

Gag does not allow enough characters for my opinion!

[chocolatetwopointo]

okay?

[fish5505_87]

Too long to get into, lol

[chocolatetwopointo]

righttt

[hirew72673]

Nothing. But there is evidently something very wrong with that man.

I have nothing to do with that. Neither do over 3b other men on this planet.

[ChrisChapman4400]

I'm no rapist. I can't even involve myself with a woman unless she's pursuing me. I need to be wanted.

[chocolatetwopointo]

okay

[Anonymous]

I can't believe all you arguing with a 16 year old.

[chocolatetwopointo]

and they’re all losing

[Anonymous]

Actually it is not wrong with men , it is something wrong with you.

[chocolatetwopointo]

ah ok so whats wrong with me?

[lyrem04]

@chocolatetwopointo don’t give him the attention, js ignore him!

[Sonorous]

Hasty Generalization Fallacy

[chocolatetwopointo]

so you’ve never done anything bad?

[Sonorous]

Bad is largely subjectively defined which is why we've all done bad things. But I've never forced someone to do something against their will regardless of what if that's what you're asking.

[chocolatetwopointo]

mhm right.

[Sonorous]

I've had a pretty decent Christian centered upbringing. If I was raised by barbarians then maybe I'd be like that. But I was raised to be a man of God. Though I'm not a christian anymore, my moral framework remains largely the same.

[chocolatetwopointo]

christians can also be bad.

[Sonorous]

Anyone can be bad. As I've said, being bad is a label that humans must give. So it is subjective and infinitely modifiable depending on someone's moral/ethical preferences.

[chocolatetwopointo]

bad enough to rape?

[Sonorous]

Humans are animals. We are not divine creatures (whatever that would even look like). If we're raised well, aren't genetically prone to antisocial behaviors, know how to fall in line & follow the rules, people likely won't get raped as much. But we're still emotionally & pleasure driven creatures, so it's inevitable that rape will occur. If we want instances of rape to decrease, I imagine one of the best solutions is just for the population must decrease in size. I believe it really is just a numbers game since these things are inevitable.

[chocolatetwopointo]

still not an excuse for rape.

[Sonorous]

I never claimed it was. I think it's beneficial for people to be considered responsible for their actions. It's necessary since we can't really tackle the root of these issues.

[KittygosMeoWW]

That’s crazy! Who was it?

[4ngelic]

it's a troll

[chocolatetwopointo]

dont care.

[Beer_Caesar]

I'm no rapist. I need a woman to want me.

[chocolatetwopointo]

simp

[Anonymous]

Girl, don't deal with those types, block them.

[Summeroflove]

He’s a troll

[Mia03]

They don't use their brains.

[HamstringGirl]

Troll alert

[chocolatetwopointo]

pick me alert