How do the guys that treat women like crap even ask the women out to begin with? When does the "treating them like crap" part even start?

[Anonymous]

Please, take me through all the steps of how a woman gets into this kind of relationship. How does she get hooked on wanting to be with him?

[Anonymous]

It's important to note that not all men treat women poorly in relationships. However, in cases where someone does mistreat their partner, it can start in various ways and isn't limited to one specific pattern. It's crucial to remember that it's never the fault of the person being mistreated, and each situation can be unique. Here's a general outline of how someone might end up in an unhealthy relationship:

1. Attraction: The woman is initially attracted to the person.

2. Early Charm: The person behaves charmingly in the beginning.

3. Gradual Change: The person's behavior changes over time, becoming negative.

4. Emotional Manipulation: The person uses emotional manipulation tactics.

5. Dependency: The woman becomes emotionally dependent on the person.

6. Low Self-esteem: The person undermines the woman's self-esteem.

7. Fear or Threats: The person uses fear tactics to keep the woman in the relationship.

8. Isolation: The person isolates the woman from her support network.

It's important to seek help or support if you're in such a situation or know someone who is.

[Billlewis]

I don't think they treat women like crap -- they simply demonstrate that they have a backbone and are worthy of having sex with them. That's more than a weak beta male wimp can claim;)

[provokeesmokee]

Here's the thing: they usually don't treat women like crap. They have healthy boundaries, normal expectations, and are well-adjusted people.

Sometimes they only pretend to be such, and eventually drop the mask. And get dumped.

But whether they're actually good decent mem or not, it all starts with actually just talking to the women and asking if they would like to date.

[Anonymous]

usually it starts just by making out or something, not a lot of talk

[Nikki1989]

Most men start out nice and turn into assholes later.

[tzdc21]

Most, huh?