If u want to get married would u keep your surname, add his/her or have the same exact surname as your partner?

[overthinkergirl]

[John_Cobretti]

I think it's an outdated tradition and it may be my unpopular opinion but the wife taking husband's surname sounds a bit sexist to me...

Well I don't judge those who are happy with it either...))

[The-Stud]

Sounds quite misogynistic to have women take husbands surname after wedding

[EmmaMary]

I was more than happy to take my husband's surname when we married.

I/We were simply continuing both our families tradition in taking the male's surname.

[EmmaMary]

Thank you for the MHO.

[Jennz6]

You are very welcome 💯💕

[overthinkergirl]

@EmmaMary you’re welcome:)

[ShellyB]

His last name, and my last name becomes a second middle name sort of. That is what my mom did and what I am planning to do. JMO!

[XHopelessRomanticX]

I want to take his last name :)

[4ngelic]

depends if his last name is better than mine or not. like i hate my last name so if his is a real upgrade i'm swapping obv. or else unless its a fucked name could do the hyphen thing

[NathanDavis]

or... we could come up with a new one for the both of us... and that it is truly ours, lol

[IslaTheWitch]

I don't really care as long as we have the same. Much fewer problems :D

[Apple1996]

Nah I just kept my name. Fuck changing it. I ain't his property lol

[HelpfulWoman]

Eh I'd either keep my own or maybe make it a type of middle name.

[JacobJordan]

I took my wife's last name as my last name did not fit with her first name, but her last name fit with my first name

[Drumlin2001]

When we get married we'll be having a family name ( we'll all have double barrelled) me, OH and kids

[NateR05]

I would want my wife to have my surname. I think it's nice and also would make it obvious to everyone that we're married.

[OddBeMe]

My wife didn’t. And she’s able to reference me for jobs. Boom.

[TonyMetal___86]

A woman follows her man after marriage so she will take his family name and will become a family...

[Horse-girl]

I'd have his surname.

[rachel776]

the guy i'm with now i would take his name

[sheikalana]

I changed my last name.

[Jennz6]

Whatever he tells me to do

[TonyMetal___86]

It's not about what he decides or not, in a real sacred christian marriage the wife will immediatly have her family name switched to her husband's family name or they won't be considered as a married couple...

[Simslover92]

Take his name.

[Anonymous]

My partner needs to take my surname.