My boyfriend initially would text me all day. From morning to night. As a result I got attached to this treatment of him. But now he only texts me sometimes and maybe avoids them too. I don't know what is happening.
Aw, that's kinda weird. When me and my girl started dating we would text all the time too. It was nice to always hear from her. But then like after a few months she started doing the same thing as your guy. Only texting sometimes and taking longer to reply.
At first I was kinda worried, like did I do something wrong? Was she losing interest? But then I realized, the more time we spent together the less we needed to text. We were learning more about each other in person.
Maybe your guy is feeling the same? Like he likes hanging out with you so much he doesn't feel the need to talk all day through messages. I'd just ask him how he's feeling about things. Tell him it's alright if his texting changes, you just wanna know where you guys are at. Boys can be dumb sometimes, he probly doesn't even realize its bothering you. Hope that helps! Let me know what he says.
It's normal for it to be less. Unless your telling me he has no hobbies. I am going to assume he does, he has stuff that he likes to do which simply texting you will take away from.
It could be a indicator of bigger problems not saying it can't be. But it's also normal. It's weird that with girls they commonly have no hobbies and are more willing just to sit on their phone all day but guys eh we have stuff lol. So maybe more of issue is you don't have a hobby ya should be doing rather than just texting all day.
That would drive me insane after a while if someone became dependent on me to text them all day. Either way this is a conversation you need to have with him not strangers on the net
Have you never heard of talking?
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Communication and confrontation is needed here, we can't solve these problems for you or even give you the core of it
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