My boyfriend stopped sending me cute texts, what does this mean?

[Anonymous]

we've been together for 1.5 years, and at the beginning of our relationship he would send me messages like 'goodmorning beautiful/love/sunshine' something like that, and he would send me cute texts at times, but now he's stopped completely, the last time he said I'm beautiful was 4 months ago, what does this mean?

[WestTexasGuy]

The honeymoon could be over. All relationships go through it. Both people have to make an effort to keep the flirting and playing going in an ongoing relationship. You need to ask yourself (I'M NOT BLAMING YOU) are there things you used to do that you don't anymore. Relationships are full of ups and downs, the strong relationships are the ones that weather the downs together.

[Asker]

Yeah and I do try, like I do tell him that he looks nice here and there, and I wait for him to say something like that to me but nothing, he says I'm living in the past whenever I bring this up, and it just seems like he expressed his love for me more in the beginning than now, I don't know what to do :/

[WestTexasGuy]

You have talked to him about it and he has told you, that part of your relationship is in the past. You need to ask yourself if this is what you want in a relationship, because it doesn't sound like he is going to change. You have already given him a year and half of your life, I would say you have a decision make.

[Asker]

Yeah I know, but the thing is I know that he loves me, and I love him, it's just he's not expressive much, but I wish he would express his feelings a little more at least, and I don't want to hurt him, so I'm confused on what I should do

[Cherophobicqueen]

It's normal for this to happen, in fact, I have experienced this with my boyfriend. I almost ended it but then I realized that it's because I know he loves me so much now, I know I trust him blindly now and vice versa, therefore we don't need to work on it anymore.