New boyfriend of 2 weeks all of a sudden stops texting me for days, what does this mean?

[Anonymous]

I dont know what I did. I know he went 1 full day without texting me, so when he sent me a message I took 1 day to get back to him and now he's not talking to me anymore. What does this mean and what do I do?

I am afraid if I text him he will keep ignoring me. Help!!!

[Anonymous]

It's difficult to say exactly why your boyfriend has stopped texting you for days, as people's behaviors and motivations can vary widely depending on the situation and context. It's possible that he's busy with other things in his life, or that he's experiencing some personal issues that are impacting his ability to communicate.

However, it's also possible that he's upset or feeling distant for some reason, and is choosing to withdraw from communication as a result. If you're feeling unsure about what's going on, it may be helpful to reach out to him directly and ask how he's doing and if everything is okay.

When you do reach out, try to approach the conversation with an open and non-judgmental attitude. Let him know that you're concerned about his well-being and want to make sure that everything is okay. Avoid making assumptions or accusations, and try to listen to his perspective and feelings.

If he continues to ignore you or is unresponsive, it may be helpful to give him some space and focus on your own well-being. Remember that you deserve to be treated with respect and care, and that it's okay to prioritize your own needs and feelings. If the situation continues to cause you stress or anxiety, it may be helpful to seek support from friends, family, or a mental health professional.

[Hulk_kitty]

I am only guessing, he might showing all the initiative in the relationship, that's not good, and you also took a whole day to reply to his messages.

He probably thinking the same as you, that you are not really interested in him, sorry young lady, you are going to put in more of an effort with guys.

Tip, guys are going to move on from girls, who don't really show any or lack initiative in the relationship, and will find girls that make an effort.

I certainly I won't doing all the work when it comes to dating, if the girl doesn't show me the same interest back or effort, I am moving on, cause its too much hard work

[Hulk_kitty]

stop this stupid business of texting, it lacks social skills, it creates misunderstandings,. I suggest you both just call each other, and speak.
Be a brave girl and phone him, he will either respect you for it, or he will reject you, if he rejects that's ok, you move on, and find someone else.

[Asker]

I did text back saying that we should get together on the weekend and it's been 1 day and he hasn't responded

[Hulk_kitty]

give him a ring, on Friday, if your not successful, then move on. If I were in your shoes, I would have a few lined up, at least you give yourself few options, but don't say anything, and don't sleep any of them, and until a couple of months into a the relationship.

[Hulk_kitty]

And don't tell them you real body count, no guy wants a high body count, stick to 5 over 10 years.

[Hulk_kitty]

www.youtube.com/watch?v=cblfsOIakhk

A good video for you, what to do.