Ladies when it comes to dating what do you seriously look for in a man?

[ManhattanMan1212]

Ladies what is your long checklist of traits you look for in a man when it comes to dating?

[petitedollbabee]

Empathy, kindness but knows when to be stern - is not a people pleasure or push over, has self awareness and emotional maturity - knows when he is wrong and has no problem apologising for such. Is able to be financially responsible for himself as I am for myself, I don’t need a partner who mooches off of my income, nor do I want to mooch off of his income. Has hobbies and some sort of social life outside of our relationship. Shares common interests with me, and ofcourse there needs to be sexual compatibility. Shares some of the same views and morals as myself. Is somewhat introverted and enjoys time spent at home rather than partying. Shares my beliefs around personal safety and health, or is at least respectful of my beliefs. Is respectful towards the people in my life and isn’t insecure about who I spend my time with. Those are all the main personality traits that I look for. As for physical traits, as I commented on your other question, I prefer a man under 6ft as I’m very short and don’t want to date someone super tall. I enjoy a ‘dad bod’ body type aswell, but it’s not a deal breaker if he has a different body type.

[ManhattanMan1212]

Do you think it’s harder for men when it comes to dating

[petitedollbabee]

Couldn’t say, I’ve never experienced what it’s like to be a man in the dating world. I’ve met men who have heavily struggled with dating and I’ve also met men who found dating incredibly easy. So I believe that it depends on the individual rather than their gender.

[IlllllIll]

• Well, I know that it's redundant but he needs to wash once a day, brush his teeth, and not be either an asshole or an idiot.
• Fidelity and stability. I'm only interested in long term.
• He must value my opinions, as I would value his, and be willing to compromise when we take decisions impacting our lives in the long term. And he has to be supportive of my choices.
• He has to do half of the housework if we both have a career.
• He must be willing to communicate and to make it work.
• We should at last, share one center of interests.
• Finally, we have to be sexually compatible.

[ManhattanMan1212]

He also has to be over 6 ft tall, looks like a supermodel and make a ton of money, and have a huge dick. Am I right?

[IlllllIll]

Nope.
I don't care about his salary. He could be jobeless as long as he respected me as a person. I mean, how's that even à standard, would you ever be with someone that didn't respect you? What about it is unreasonable?
Share housework if we both have a carrer since he's a big guy and I'm not his mother, to be supportive of one other and awknowledge both our opinions even if we didn't share them. What if wrong with that?

As for his appearance. He could be good looking, but I'd rather have a normal guy since I don't want him to be poached by anybody else.

[ManhattanMan1212]

Where are you from

[IlllllIll]

France, why?

[ManhattanMan1212]

French women are more sophisticated then American women

[IlllllIll]

Actually, when I made this list, I only described my husband that I love very much.
I've never been to America I'm afraid so I wouldn't know. How's the dating market over there?

[ManhattanMan1212]

It’s horrible for a average man because American women are so shallow

[IlllllIll]

Shallow? How so? Interested in money you mean?

[ManhattanMan1212]

The modern American women wants a man that is over 6 ft tall, makes a lot of money, is way above average dick size, and is stupid handsome

[ManhattanMan1212]

Even the fat ugly women wants that too