Girls, What do you women look for in a man…?

[Mayo503]

Some say looks

some say money

some say chemistry

so just wanted to know really…?

[PrettyPriya]

If you want to know what is important to me personally, it is a mix of things. Personality tops the list. A guy could be the best looking guy (to me) in the world and have a completely rubbish personality. I won't give that guy a second thought.

Yes, I am not going to sit here and say I do not have to be physically attracted to my partner. Of course I do. However, personality, values, goals, morals, intellect, lifestyle choices, etc play a much larger role.

Money has nothing to do with it, much like other superficial things guys believe we value. It is not like on the first few dates I am requiring bank records to examine. I did not know what my now husband made until way later in the relationship. I could guess, but I never really knew, and by then I was deeply in love with him.

So, it is the intangible qualities that make a person that I look for. They just have to mesh well with my personality and values. If they do, I will give dating a shot with that person because likely we will get along well.

[Mayo503]

Sounds your a good one …

[PrettyPriya]

I hope so. Lucky for me, I found a great guy that has a similar personality to mine. One of the things I did not mention but is huge is his sense of humour. It is one of the things I adore because I am a goof and live to laugh. Not sure I could be with someone that didn't have a sense of humour.

[Mayo503]

Yea know what you mean by that it’s a must …. Banter all the way bouncing off each other
Well you look after him …. He’s a keeper
Good on you

[PrettyPriya]

Thanks and totally agree about the banter. It is fun to tease and be silly. Life is too short not to smile and laugh.

He is definitely a keeper and would never let go of this one. 🙂

[Mayo503]

Good girl don’t enjoy 😊

[Nikki1989]

Personality, sense of humor, common interests.

[Sour-rose]

No bulge and a soul. A good one