Why do SOME men assume that some women who are lesiban had bad experiences?

I realized that I'm not attracted to men, and it's not based on bad experiences on men. I just dont vibe with men romantically, but why do men assume that every lesiban had bad experiences. I've been attracted to women since the age of 13.
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Lesibans don't care about finding good men nor do we care about finding a man at all..
Why do SOME men assume that some women who are lesiban had bad experiences?
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