So I've been on a few dates over the years with guys, I've had crushes on guys and the idea of sex with them appeals to me. But every date I've have (4 separate guys) doesn't result in a connection or anything more than a second date, I just don't seem to find them as attractive as their personality.
I've had crushes on women too, they seem to happen a little more naturally. I don't have to find them attractive like guys, I just like them out of the blue. I fall for how they care about me, then after no matter what I like the way they look. I've never been on a date with a woman but I've had major crushes on 3 close/friends. The idea of sex with women doesn't appeal to me like men but the idea of sex with a particular female crush of mine does.
I'm very confused. I just don't want to go out on a date with a woman to test it out, if I'm not sure, it wouldn't be fair on them.
