I mean if a girl has shown a guy the following signs would he think she likes him or nothing of it?
1- Locking eyes regularly
2. intense eye contact regularly
3. Asking for his help or advice a fair bit
4. Seeking to converse with him a lot
5. Asking to join his social media and liking some of his pics.
would you too much or not really?
He shall, if he puts effort reading, searching, and learning for these cues and plays along with hints; converses (by actions) in her "language".
Otherwise, I think it is totally easy to get confused from girls signals and actions.
Now if you as a girl still wish to hint / subtly send cues but obvious then I believe the following can (under the idea of her understanding his language and sending what he.. not she.. understands):
1- Initiate: either flirting, texting, a date, or anything.
2- Ask some sensitive questions in a relaxed manner, just as in curious or sharing perspectives and opinions.
[I mean she makes him feels safe and un-judged around her, easing it for him to make a move or approach.. etc]
3- Tell him she likes him [his way of thinking, his style/appearance, the way he talks or presents himself.. etc,, again making it easy for him to reciprocate in turn and express his feelings]
4- Maybe touch him but in a friendly close way.
[For example: At some point of conversation when it is relaxed.. she slowly moves a fingertip from out his hand up to his hand where she is relaxed as if nothing there. Indicating: you're mine, and I certainly feel safe and special enough being vulnerable and close to you. Since you'd never do such things to anyone, either a really close friend or sibling.. or lover].
I say this as I assume you mean to wish your feelings (message) you send is "received". So such actions shall certainly indicate to a guy, you're more than just another average person present in her life.
Hope it helps.
Yea body language usually indicates a lot on whether a girl likes me or not , I am pretty good at picking up on her body language and the way she looks at me. Some girls’ can be hard to read but that’s rare , I guess because I became more experienced through the years lol when I am dating a girl and I get to know her more , I become a master at picking up her body language to the point she is like how did you know? It usually turns her on even more that I know her so well. I consider myself an observer because for a lot of years part of my job was observing people , I use to work in the a armed Security industry for a lot of years , so it just comes natural to me to observe someone. So it’s usually her eyes that give her away and if she plays with her her, I pretty much know she wants My D lol
Most guys will get it, but a clueless guy won’t notice signs 1 and 2 and might think the others are just signs she likes him as a friend
I would have to agree, unfortunately from experience trusting numbers 1 and 2 as signs is not always the case...
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sometimes, but we can be dunce.
*dense
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dense and dunce, yea!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=h4LJZDJJqcQ
some guys are not emotionally mature and ready to respond to female mating aggressions. you'll have to be patient, aggressive, clear and persistent... but take a hard no if you get it. it's the art of the sale!
Yup. Women's "sly, sophisticated flirting" and indirect communication style ain't that hard to read. But it can be really annoying. They just refuse to take any risk or responsibility in the dating game. It gets old fast. Hence why at my age I simply refuse to play the game 95% of the time. Well that, and the conversation is frequently brutally boring if I do engage.
Ah I see, you mean they don’t take more of an active role? Yes I can imagine that’s frustrating especially if you know they like you.
LOL, what's frustrating is that many women DO think their "hints" and indirect flirting techniques mean that they are actively engaging with men. So they sit and wait then go home and bitch about no men approaching them or proclaim men to be clueless morons.
No, we see your crazy games. It's just exhausting trying to be a mind reader. Why do women have to make it so hard. And god forbid a man gets the mind reading wrong and approaches a woman. Then he's a creep and a jerk. So we just say, aww fuck it, it's not worth finding out if she's interested or not most of the time.
On the flip side I've had women get absolutely pissed of at me because I did absolutely nothing. She was blonde, short, great looking, hot pants and a deep V top, sandals with a maybe 3 inch heel, about 25 years younger than me. She eye locked, she came over and sat next to me, she asked me about the wine I was drinking. She kept touching my arm from my shoulder to my wrist. I was giving 3 word responses with a polite smile. I got up to leave and she went off on me. She told me men are clueless and on and on and on. I let her blow off steam and then told her I'm not clueless. But I wasn't interested in starting any sort of relationship with any woman that night. I just didn't have the energy for it. She went from rage to hurt in milliseconds. And out the door I went.
Another time... you won't believe it. I didn't.
I'm sitting in an upscale wine bar restaurant. I'm solo sitting at the bar. I got into a conversation with the guy next to me about Scotches. A group of 5 girls come in. They had to be early to late 20's. I was in my 50's. The only reason I noticed them was they were all blonde all wearing leather of some sort, skirts, jackets, etc. All wearing at least 4 inch heels and black stockings. All heavy on the makeup. LOL, I think everyone looked at them when they walked in. It was quite a sight. They get a table and I go back to talking about Scotches with this other guy. Suddenly one of these women, tiny, slim, very small breasts, walks up to the bar to my right. I was 2 seats down from the corner so she was standing maybe 8 feet away at the corner. She locks eyes, puts both hands on her breasts and starts feeling herself up. Not a word.
It was hilarious. First the guy 2 guys away from me points to himself. She nods no. The guy I was talking to next to me points to himself. She nods no again. So this guy next to me hits me in the arm. I point to myself. She nods yes. What? Who tries to meet someone in an upscale restaurant like this. I burst out laughing. I wasn't being mean. It wasn't intentional. It was just odd that she chose me, a guy obviously a lot older, and she went about it like that.
She literally turned and ran back to her friends. She was humiliated. Give it about 15 minutes and here they come. The entire group. They stand there and berate me for about 2 minutes before leaving. I just sat there and took it as everyone in the place was already watching the show. I didn't want it to escalate. Also these girls were hot. Every one of them. But they were also very um, awkward. Like they lacked confidence. Something was off. Trying to pull off sophistication but unsure how to do it? Even younger than I thought? I don't know but something was off about them.
So you think guys have it easy? Women be crazy, LOL!
Well as a dude that used to date. I have seen women I am interested in to all those things. And have zero romantic interest. When women want you to know they aren't interested it's clear. When they want you to be interested it's never clear. Really hot girls forget it you never know. I mean my girlfriend when I first met her and we hung out I thought she was only interested in women. That's how dense guys can be sometimes.
Haha yes it’s complicated eh.
He'll for sure notice. No question. But, just like girls do in this situation; he'll second guess himself about it. Depends on the guy actually (for the second guessing).
He definitely can tell. Whether he just accepts it as fact or questions it... that's more personality type. But you are not being sneaky (I don't think you're trying to be). He knows.
Ah thanks for this, yeah that’s good to know then. It’s difficult to know if he is interested. He does seem to respond to me, but it’s tricky because we are in a work environment.
But if you are both locking eyes regularly etc over months and other stuff, would that suggest he likes me?
absolutely that's what it suggests. I answer "does he like me" questions all the time. I ask for more details. I'm looking for exactly the things you've noticed: Locking eyes, extra attention, seeming to always be around you, seems to find all your jokes especially funny, smiles all the time when talking to you. All that sorta stuff.
If its been months, then it might be time to move towards somebody making a move. You are right about work making it more complicated to know if you're being flirted with. You are though. For sure.
Mostly, but there are guys with poor self-esteem who can't imagine that any desirable woman would be interested in them. That's sad, because some of those guys would make terrific partners. If you want a date, just ask him yourself, or say "Why haven't you asked me out? I've given you every possible indication of interest."
I was one of those guys. When I was in college I was a math tutor and this very cute flute major would come to work with me. When she came for tutoring she couldn't have gotten any closer without sitting in my lap. How much more obvious could she be? I had such a crush on her. Did I ask her out? No, I couldn't imagine that she liked me that way.
In my experience it is more apparent when girls stop liking you after having liked you. because the change in behavior is more pronounced.
Body language etc has to be calibrated because there is so much variability from person to person. IRL you don't get that calibration and you might think she is just a friendly girl. When she stops being friendly to you, then you have you calibration but it is too late.
If I am typical of most guys then I need to be obvious , additionally I find it very attractive for a woman to be more direct I mean it’s literally a few words , “ we should meet up at the weekend and do something “ . I also take physical touch as a fairly good sign but again I’d much rather the direct verbal approach.
Attention , conversation and “social media “ stalking likes are all just subtly and easily mistaken.
If you don't act attracted to a guy then most of the time he's not going to know. Stop with the mysterious bullshit and game playing. If you want a guy to know you're attracted to him, ask him to go somewhere and do something with you, invade his personal space, touch him, tell him you are attracted to him. Show actual signs of attraction.
Yep, these are good signs, the intense eye-contact is really something.
So you think he would recognise that I like him? Why do you say that about the eye contact?
And how did the eye contact make you feel?
Oh really, so like the intensity of it?
Yeah ok thank you
Guys are not going to pick up on those hints. We're just not.
Guys are hardwired to be much more straightforward in our thinking and our communication styles than women are.
If you're going to use a hint that men have a reasonable chance of picking up on, that hint should involve fireworks, skywriting, and/or a Congressional decree.
Guys can tell when a woman is showing interest. But what you need to understand is the majority of women show faux interest. So it's not a matter of whether a man can tell if she's showing interest. It's whether she's showing GENUINE interest, or whether she's just gaming him.
So here's the thing. . . yeah, and no
If a girl all of a sudden starts doing all that, then sure I'll think she might like me, but I keep watching to make sure I'm not delusional. If it's sustained for a long period of time then I'll assume she likes me, but if it's just a few instances I'll just take it as me misreading the situation.
TLDR, if it's consistent over a couple weeks-to a month, yes.
Oh we'll know if the girl like us, but we have no clue of "what kind" of like us - is it platonic or is it something more intense. That's where most men get tripped up.
Most guys, like myself, are absolutely clueless when it comes to flirting. My ex-wife would tease me all the time about it. I have no idea when a woman is doing it.
He'll notice, but that doesn't mean he'll understand it.
Open your ears and heed my words, young Padawan. Never doubt someone's ability to misinterpret the simplest and most obvious shit.
I have no idea, I can't read "signals", and I prefer girls who take initiative.
You mean just to go straight up to you?
Exactly.
I mean, these are not really enough to say if they like me. Some might be a little flirty than others, and when we make a move, they say it's nothing. They didn't like us. This is more common than many think. So, I'd say go for bold moves.
I never assume, but also have no problem approaching so I will find out quickly if she is at all interested.
I can I have gotten so lucky sadly I have ignored a lot of pretty ones in past years I was too dumb. Last years I had to ignore some because oof they looked way younger.
Yes we are pathetically hopeful and painfully oblivious all at the same time.
Yes. They are on their best behavior and give fawning eyes.
the vast majority yes but for people who are either a bit slow or just don’t talk to women whatsoever they probably won’t get the hints and will instead think she wants to be friends
Some can, but most men are clueless at reading signals if there are any.
What went unnoticed?
Basically, if she's in your life, she probably likes you, guys.
Girls who don't like you, don't want to be in your life. I GUARAN DAMN TEE IT
4 and 5 has not happened with me and my crush and to answer the question as me being the example of "guys" I cannot tell if the woman likes me.
The best you can do is ask her or ask her out on a date and you'll know from her answer...
Sometimes we just care about that particular Male friend.
We may be men, but we are not dumb, on average. Yes we know.
If the girl does the above, I'd think she is interested in me definitely 😊
We are usually clueless, Because we are not use to it that much because it hardly ever happens for most of us Guys.
I just assume there's something on my face.
lol 🤣
u sometimes, yes
I’m not good at reading signs… i do not assume a girl is into me unless she clearly tells me that
Often, yes. Especially if she is ovulating.
No, at least I couldn't until they made a move on me
another reminder of what i have always hated, men always having to be the ones to shoot their shot.
So many women check me out in a day I lose count.
He should, but guys can be dense sometimes.
I'm totally clueless.
If she does all these than she surely likes him
Woman in yoga pants 😍
They should as its obvious.
Men cannot actually get hints.
I can’t
Nope not at all.
I'm clueless
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